Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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It's winter where I'm at, NY - it was literally 33 degrees the other day, but nevertheless good advice.

yeah, the unfortunate thing is many women will ignore all logic to get their disney "wine and dine" fantasy. My best advice is to identify some free/cheap indoor spots (i.e. coffee/desert spot) and stick to those (find a few different locations so you aren't taking a bunch of women to the same place lol). You would think with Face time/video chat that could be used to build rapport to then move to the house, but meeting in person is still the only way to "see someone's energy".

If you are actually trying to court someone you can present the house thing as a legit date and frame it as dinner more so "chill at my place". If you are just trying to smash, then you'd want to be careful how much energy you invest in something that isn't 100% (nothing is ever 100%).
 

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internet has created delusion cause us to toss our feelings in the bushes in order to "one up" everyone we deal with. Nobody wants to be seen as a "sucker". It's a sad state of affairs we live in but thats life.
Yea. Id rather be direct and myself to a bytch. If she aint fukkin with it then so be it. Its a lot more sustainable that way and you wont be a sucker just being yourself

thats how i see it. I still fukk enough girls when im on that wave...just takes a lot of flakes to get em lol. Volume shooting shyt
 

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Yea. Id rather be direct and myself to a bytch. If she aint fukkin with it then so be it. Its a lot more sustainable that way and you wont be a sucker just being yourself

thats how i see it. I still fukk enough girls when im on that wave...just takes a lot of flakes to get em lol. Volume shooting shyt

yeah in this day and age the name of the game is high volume. You may deal with 10-30 flakes to get 1-2 lol. It is what it is thats why you have to build yourself and be confident in who you are and what you want, before dealing with women. If you aren't you get 'one-itis' and get attached to every chick you get a number from thinking she is the "one". If you see a chick is flaking then you need to be ready to dead her, and have the discipline to ignore her when she tries to reach out afterwards (because she probably just wants attention while the person she actually wants isn't giving her any).

Biggest thing is never do anything that takes you out your comfort zone for anyone.
 

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yeah in this day and age the name of the game is high volume. You may deal with 10-30 flakes to get 1-2 lol. It is what it is thats why you have to build yourself and be confident in who you are and what you want, before dealing with women. If you aren't you get 'one-itis' and get attached to every chick you get a number from thinking she is the "one". If you see a chick is flaking then you need to be ready to dead her, and have the discipline to ignore her when she tries to reach out afterwards (because she probably just wants attention while the person she actually wants isn't giving her any).

Biggest thing is never do anything that takes you out your comfort zone for anyone.
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The game is the game

to me...if i can smash one of every ten girls i bag thats a good rate
 

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This nikka pulled out his phone flashlight tryna scope out caine


This episode is fukkin hilarious unintentionally :laff:
 

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The game is the game

to me...if i can smash one of every ten girls i bag thats a good rate

lol issue is getting the 10 numbers, you may have to go through 20-30 sometimes. But thats where patience comes in. Some people can tolerate the high volume game, some can't. Me personally I rather just chill, and put myself in position for chicks to choose. Of Course that approach is very low volume, but it's not an issue for some folks depending on where you are in life (as in what you're looking for). Younger you are, the more patience you have with shuffling through a bunch of weirdos to build a roster.
 

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lol issue is getting the 10 numbers, you may have to go through 20-30 sometimes. But thats where patience comes in. Some people can tolerate the high volume game, some can't. Me personally I rather just chill, and put myself in position for chicks to choose. Of Course that approach is very low volume, but it's not an issue for some folks depending on where you are in life (as in what you're looking for). Younger you are, the more patience you have with shuffling through a bunch of weirdos to build a roster.


If i approach 30, i tend to get 10 numbers and smash 2-3 of them. Thats what id say my avg is


These days i just want one solid, reliable chick...and a second chick as insurance until things become official. I basically got that right now. But theres an animal in me. Bagging is so second nature that if i see a cute chick walking by and i got nothing better to fo...i figure...”a fukk it why not?” But that roster shyt is tired. Too much work, energy, memory, money and attn required. Ive never really had a roster. For me it was more of a conveyor belt...smashing one chick for a while as i get to know her...realize she aint bout shyt then replace her with a new one. Etc etc til i end up with a girl worthy of a relationship
 

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If i approach 30, i tend to get 10 numbers and smash 2-3 of them. Thats what id say my avg is


These days i just want one solid, reliable chick...and a second chick as insurance until things become official. I basically got that right now. But theres an animal in me. Bagging is so second nature that if i see a cute chick walking by and i got nothing better to fo...i figure...”a fukk it why not?” But that roster shyt is tired. Too much work, energy, memory, money and attn required. Ive never really had a roster. For me it was more of a conveyor belt...smashing one chick for a while as i get to know her...realize she aint bout shyt then replace her with a new one. Etc etc til i end up with a girl worthy of a relationship

yeah good to have 2-3 reliables and then everything extra just let life happen. You want more than 1 but not to many because at least when you go through that journey of replacing one, you still have something left, and juggling too many can bring drama or just simply suck too much energy out of you (making you unproductive).
 

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shes trying to bait in simps. I'm not clicking but i can bet there are dudes in the comments talking "queen" stuff in order to get their chance to hit.

You know they're gonna be all in the DMs like this:

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FB was just flooded with these hotep simps back then when I was active.
 

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You know what time it is Jan 1 to Jan 23.. you will see some women you never seen before in the gym for you cold approachers this is your season. Yall lucky I'm out the game:wow:
 
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