Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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One thing I do miss though was the time where getting the number actually mattered.. It use to mean that you had one foot in the door and it was a 50% chance... Hell Id say 70... Today you can get 10 numbers and it dont mount to shyt :martin:

Internet created "options overload", where people in general are quick to dead things because they can 'see' another option in an instant (even though they themselves may not stand a chance with said option).

In this day and age you have to play a high volume game, the issue with that is depending on where you are in life this can lead to you being unproductive (due to the amount of energy you may need to put into sourcing new leads a.k.a potential prospects).
 

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"No matter how many great qualities I have, apparently no man wants to be a father to children that's not his..." uh yeah, no shyt. :comeon: Obviously coming with three kids in tow rules you out in the eyes of most men who are single, no kids and have their shyt together. A woman having one child might get some support, but three? :heh: fukk outta here.

This is interesting. I used to be Facebook friends with this chick like 6 years ago and at the time she was married to some hotep rasta dude on some polygamy shyt. Obviously things didn't work out, because now she's single and posting raunchy pics whereas before she used to be covered up. In all fairness to her, she was actually married and had her kids by one dude, so she's better than these chicks who have several baby daddies. But at the end of the day who the fukk is gonna want to take on a woman with three kids when they don't have any of their own? It's just not happening. I seen too many dudes get disrespected by the kids and the mother when they try to do the noble thing. No man wants to be that sucker who gets played. Miss me with that "it takes a village" shyt too. A woman with no children of her own wouldn't want to take on a man with three kids either. Besides, men get ruled out for way less every day.

Her post has got the typical lowkey entitlement a lot of these single mothers have, cos if she was really loving it all like she claims she wouldn't have said anything. These chicks think just by being somewhat cute the whole world should be handed to them. That video I posted earier speaks of this mentality in depth.

shes trying to bait in simps. I'm not clicking but i can bet there are dudes in the comments talking "queen" stuff in order to get their chance to hit.
 

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With all these regulations, What y'all doing for dates now when y'all meet new chicks ? Or do you just invite em straight to the crib ?

go to a park or something. It could be a case by case thing but women tend to feel "iffy" on average (so of course not all) on the thought of coming to someones crib on first meeting. It really depends on where you met the person. You can't really blame em due to it being a legit safety risk if this is someone you just met online compared to someone you have a rapport with already and want to take next steps with.
 

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One thing I do miss though was the time where getting the number actually mattered.. It use to mean that you had one foot in the door and it was a 50% chance... Hell Id say 70... Today you can get 10 numbers and it dont mount to shyt :martin:
trust me fam.

i was just telling my friends...im bout to be 30 next year and still havent figured out why a girl will give her number, respond to the first couple of msgs and just ghost. once or twice is cool...but its probably 7, 8/10 times that shyt happens nowadays. i guess women just have too many options.
 

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trust me fam.

i was just telling my friends...im bout to be 30 next year and still havent figured out why a girl will give her number, respond to the first couple of msgs and just ghost. once or twice is cool...but its probably 7, 8/10 times that shyt happens nowadays. i guess women just have too many options.

they do. Never initiate text, and if you do, if she is taking a while to respond you take equally as long or just dont respond. The exception to the late response rule is if she works a job that involves interacting with people thus she can't be on her phone (this assumes she is at work when you all are texting).
 

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go to a park or something. It could be a case by case thing but women tend to feel "iffy" on average (so of course not all) on the thought of coming to someones crib on first meeting. It really depends on where you met the person. You can't really blame em due to it being a legit safety risk if this is someone you just met online compared to someone you have a rapport with already and want to take next steps with.

It's winter where I'm at, NY - it was literally 33 degrees the other day, but nevertheless good advice.
 

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they do. Never initiate text, and if you do, if she is taking a while to respond you take equally as long or just dont respond. The exception to the late response rule is if she works a job that involves interacting with people thus she can't be on her phone (this assumes she is at work when you all are texting).
yea i know this shyt but i cnat lie...i suck at playing them dumb cat and mouse games.
 

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yea i know this shyt but i cnat lie...i suck at playing them dumb cat and mouse games.

internet has created delusion cause us to toss our feelings in the bushes in order to "one up" everyone we deal with. Nobody wants to be seen as a "sucker". It's a sad state of affairs we live in but thats life.
 
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