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Glad to see this thread is still going after all these years. Have yall been red pilled? lots of great content on YouTube by some great content creators. Look up Coach Greg Adam's, he drops a lot of knowledge about women/relationships/marriage. Also Darius M, alpha male secrets, donovan sharpe, alpha male strategies.
 

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I’ve come to terms that I’ll always be coming in last in this game we call life...being too nice of a guy and being quiet is really something I want to change but I can’t help it...been missing opportunities all my life with women due to shyness and staying home too much...kinda resorting to spending money to fill the void in my life...this isn’t on some depressed shyt...just realization ya kno... I applaud u nikkas out here dealing with multiple women daily..I gata elevate my game
I’m in a similar situation
Nothing wrong with being nice and quiet
You just can’t be too nice and quiet
You got to do some left field shyt one day
Always keep people guessing
Always work on sense of humor
Use that nice and quiet shyt to your advantage don’t let it be a deterrent
PS.it seems like you’re dealing with immature women if being nice and quiet bothers them :yeshrug:
 

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Glad to see this thread is still going after all these years. Have yall been red pilled? lots of great content on YouTube by some great content creators. Look up Coach Greg Adam's, he drops a lot of knowledge about women/relationships/marriage. Also Darius M, alpha male secrets, donovan sharpe, alpha male strategies.
Red pill is bad around these parts :yeshrug:
 

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I’ve come to terms that I’ll always be coming in last in this game we call life...being too nice of a guy and being quiet is really something I want to change but I can’t help it...been missing opportunities all my life with women due to shyness and staying home too much...kinda resorting to spending money to fill the void in my life...this isn’t on some depressed shyt...just realization ya kno... I applaud u nikkas out here dealing with multiple women daily..I gata elevate my game
Don't be depressed

Read my post

https://www.thecoli.com/posts/40239783/
 

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Did anyone here read the blog “The Rawness”. shyt use to go into Narcissism and codependency in relationships....

it was the psychology of relationships. Breh deleted the site but it was gold.
 

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Besides social distancing, I'm usually around women from school to work to small gatherings.
I'm an introverted dude who has developed an extrovert style whenever I'm around people.
I'm super comfortable with women in our conversations/hanging out.

I bring this up because it's difficult to determine if a female is interested in me unless it's REALLY obvious.
I'm the type of dude that can get along with anybody.
So recently I've been stuck between "she finds me attractive" and "we're cool".
A smaller example is when a girl has some type of energetic personality. Can't tell if it's just how she is or if she's acting that way because she does find me attractive?

Women are trash at shooting their shot though.

But at the same time, I was one of those dudes who never talked to females a few years ago. So I don't know if I'm just overreacting by assuming most of them find me attractive.

shyt's been annoying me with a few females recently.
Sometimes u just gotta throw in a line and see if they grab it. For example a girl is being overly friendly towards u. But u don’t know if she’s really into u or she’s like that with other guys. U might say to her with a smile “you’re a heartbreaker, aren’t u?” Her response will tell u what u need to know.
 

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Brews my ex just popped up at my crib:dwillhuh:i moved back in with my folks when I left the military and we just chopped it up for about 30 minutes. Mind you the last time I saw her was about 3 years ago

-We dated at 16, we 26 now. She cheated back then
-She went through a phase where she was stripping and doing coke:scust:dropped out of school, but now she’s back taking classes.
-My pops would tell me all the time her moms was asking about me, I brushed it off. Tbh I don’t want to deal with someone who was stripping and doing coke

I’m just thinking out loud about why she was 1) pop up unannounced, and 2) still keep in touch. We grown now, why keep tabs on someone from years ago?
 

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Glad to see this thread is still going after all these years. Have yall been red pilled? lots of great content on YouTube by some great content creators. Look up Coach Greg Adam's, he drops a lot of knowledge about women/relationships/marriage. Also Darius M, alpha male secrets, donovan sharpe, alpha male strategies.
donovan sharpe is married to an past her prime White woman and has a c00nish hate for Black women never fukked wit dude
 

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Brews my ex just popped up at my crib:dwillhuh:i moved back in with my folks when I left the military and we just chopped it up for about 30 minutes. Mind you the last time I saw her was about 3 years ago

-We dated at 16, we 26 now. She cheated back then
-She went through a phase where she was stripping and doing coke:scust:dropped out of school, but now she’s back taking classes.
-My pops would tell me all the time her moms was asking about me, I brushed it off. Tbh I don’t want to deal with someone who was stripping and doing coke

I’m just thinking out loud about why she was 1) pop up unannounced, and 2) still keep in touch. We grown now, why keep tabs on someone from years ago?

Why did she show up unannounced and wants to keep in touch? Because of pure desperation - she's 26 and her sexual market value is on the decline, there's newer younger sexier women getting male attention. Now she wants to think about a family.

You're the ideal beta male provider - you're a good man who was willing to provide for her + her offspring.

When you were younger, your validation and attention inflated her ego, and she tried to Monkey branch and test her sexual market value to see if she could do better than you, hence the stripping and taking coke.

After years of riding the cock carousel she realised you were the best she could do in terms of long term commitment and stability and she is overcome with regret.

Very common story that most brehs have been through.:to:

Don't save her - it will inevitably end in your heartbreak :ufdup:
 

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Why did she show up unannounced and wants to keep in touch? Because of pure desperation - she's 26 and her sexual market value is on the decline, there's newer younger sexier women getting male attention. Now she wants to think about a family.

You're the ideal beta male provider - you're a good man who was willing to provide for her + her offspring.

When you were younger, your validation and attention inflated her ego, and she tried to Monkey branch and test her sexual market value to see if she could do better than you, hence the stripping and taking coke.

After years of riding the cock carousel she realised you were the best she could do in terms of long term commitment and stability and she is overcome with regret.

Very common story that most brehs have been through.:to:

Don't save her - it will inevitably end in your heartbreak :ufdup:
That sounds about right. These women aren’t stupid. They get out here and realize dudes ain’t shyt then try to come back.

Ima just let it go, it’s not worth the headache:snoop:
 

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Brews my ex just popped up at my crib:dwillhuh:i moved back in with my folks when I left the military and we just chopped it up for about 30 minutes. Mind you the last time I saw her was about 3 years ago

-We dated at 16, we 26 now. She cheated back then
-She went through a phase where she was stripping and doing coke:scust:dropped out of school, but now she’s back taking classes.
-My pops would tell me all the time her moms was asking about me, I brushed it off. Tbh I don’t want to deal with someone who was stripping and doing coke

I’m just thinking out loud about why she was 1) pop up unannounced, and 2) still keep in touch. We grown now, why keep tabs on someone from years ago?

Uppity ass nikka :scust:
 

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Can’t believe I’m saying this but I miss community college. Even though SMC was mostly pawgettes it was teeming with talent:blessed:. Except for 1 Milf the rest the women at this one post I’m at just rush by me like I’m not even there :huhldup::mjcry:university better be in person by the time I transfer:wow::takedat::shaq:
 
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