Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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If you walk away with herpes, another STDs or she gets pregnant is it worth it?


Nah I'm good. I don't have scarcity mindset when it comes to women like most dudes, if I think she's trash I'll kim

Well aint no well to tell if she has an std; and don't fukk raw if you don't wanna risk getting her pregnant.

Im just saying that if yall was on a date and she wanted a kiss "and more", why not go head and kiss and fukk?
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I hate family asking about this shyt.

Talked to my cousin and he asking if I had a girl.

"Naw man I'm just tryna focus on myself"

nikka was on the phone like :dwillhuh:


I just wanna tell em "naw nikka I'm a trick" :yeshrug:
That way nobody got to ask me about that shyt anymore.
 

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I interpret single as not committed to one person. I apply that to myself as well. If I take a woman on a few dates, I’m still single until i commit, and I’m still dating and smashing other women if they come along before I want to commit.

I hear you bro, and I'm not judging you.

I'm just saying, as a man, if you're sincerely looking for a serious partner, and she says she's "single" ....but she's smashing couple dudes on the low, to me that's not really "single".

I don't know what to call it, LOL, but it's not single IMO
 

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I hear you bro, and I'm not judging you.

I'm just saying, as a man, if you're sincerely looking for a serious partner, and she says she's "single" ....but she's smashing couple dudes on the low, to me that's not really "single".

I don't know what to call it, LOL, but it's not single IMO
That’s why u ask them to clarify. Ask em “When was ur last date?” The response usually tells u what u need to know.
 

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I’ve come to terms that I’ll always be coming in last in this game we call life...being too nice of a guy and being quiet is really something I want to change but I can’t help it...been missing opportunities all my life with women due to shyness and staying home too much...kinda resorting to spending money to fill the void in my life...this isn’t on some depressed shyt...just realization ya kno... I applaud u nikkas out here dealing with multiple women daily..I gata elevate my game
Don't let women be the determining factor for you on this particular matter.

Just because you may be too shy for women now that doesn't mean you aren't winning in life.

Win in all the other areas of life that don't involve a relationship or women.

I'm sure some of these guys in this thread can give you some pointers on the relationship stuff as well but as far as not "winning in life" think bigger than females.
 

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I hear you bro, and I'm not judging you.

I'm just saying, as a man, if you're sincerely looking for a serious partner, and she says she's "single" ....but she's smashing couple dudes on the low, to me that's not really "single".

I don't know what to call it, LOL, but it's not single IMO

Most got 1 on the side that you either gotta guilt them to admitting or they won't tell you about...:yeshrug:
 

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its like an employer who posts a job just because you got a interview and they are emailing you back and forth, doesn't mean ANYTHING they're are other candidates with your qualifications and sometimes much more.

Yea, for example in Houston the apex are the brehs with perceived levels of "status" and access.

I'm a tall, fit, 6 figure, 4 cert coli nygga... but i don't have celebrity connections, i don't own/co-own any popular establishments, nor do i buy big luxury toys..

From a glance, a dime would perceive i'm nice looking and well-dressed, but no discernible indicator of status, wealth, or access. And while that may not be their prerogative (:duck:), that's a hell of a deal sweetener from the brehs who got it like that.

For me, i'm aware and proud of where i'm at.. but i also know that ownership & networking is the next level of where i need to go; not because of females, altho there are those increased perks.
 
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