Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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She came back after that and said some random slick shyt but it's w/e. No point in responding hatefully to a chick that I'm incompatible with and will never interact w/ IRL. Wasted a damn 'super like' on her ass tho smh


exactly better to end that ish earlier
lol at self employed chicks have a etsy account selling some tshirts and talk about business mindd
 

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She came back after that and said some random slick shyt but it's w/e. No point in responding hatefully to a chick that I'm incompatible with and will never interact w/ IRL

Props for putting your peace of mind before her attractiveness. A lot of men would overlook that and put up with a lot of potential bullshyt.

I can't or won't deal with certain females if their worldview is vastly incompatible with mine. I dont care how much of a dime she is.

Peace of mind and a mutual respect is what all men should be seeking in any woman he deals with.
 

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I'm tired of porn :unimpressed:

Never had a girl and I think I want one now, just don't know what to do to get one.
It is always an uphill battle. Eventually you overthink things less and less and rejection phases you less and less.

IMO, the best way to think of it is like an RPG. Right now you are at level 1 in terms of talking to women romantically online as well as talking to women romantically face to face. The goal shouldn't be to tackle some of the harder things, but instead focusing on making women laugh, getting phone numbers, realizing what they like/don't like, etc.

Dating online is good because you have a lot more time to think things through. On the flip side, real life is good because you can get a lot of experience a lot quicker. You can meet 5-10 women per night (pre-covid), while with online dating, matches are less frequent and the responses are slower.
 

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It is always an uphill battle. Eventually you overthink things less and less and rejection phases you less and less.

IMO, the best way to think of it is like an RPG. Right now you are at level 1 in terms of talking to women romantically online as well as talking to women romantically face to face. The goal shouldn't be to tackle some of the harder things, but instead focusing on making women laugh, getting phone numbers, realizing what they like/don't like, etc.

Dating online is good because you have a lot more time to think things through. On the flip side, real life is good because you can get a lot of experience a lot quicker. You can meet 5-10 women per night (pre-covid), while with online dating, matches are less frequent and the responses are slower.

Thats a whole load of effort to talk to women that probably won't be in our lives a year from now :ld:
 

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Thats a whole load of effort to talk to women that probably won't be in our lives a year from now :ld:
The sooner you start, the shorter your journey becomes. Everyone sees me doing good nowadays, no one saw me walking in the mall trying to work up the courage to smile at random women years ago to build confidence.
 

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I just blocked an 18 year old girl. Not the first I had to block. I’m 20 why is it 18-19 year olds always playing games? I didn’t even really fw em when I was that age:gucci:
 

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It is always an uphill battle. Eventually you overthink things less and less and rejection phases you less and less.

IMO, the best way to think of it is like an RPG. Right now you are at level 1 in terms of talking to women romantically online as well as talking to women romantically face to face. The goal shouldn't be to tackle some of the harder things, but instead focusing on making women laugh, getting phone numbers, realizing what they like/don't like, etc.

Dating online is good because you have a lot more time to think things through. On the flip side, real life is good because you can get a lot of experience a lot quicker. You can meet 5-10 women per night (pre-covid), while with online dating, matches are less frequent and the responses are slower.
I've never had success with online dating.

Ever.

Women don't match and don't respond to my messages.

I'm a regular dude too I'm not asking "what that mouth do" or just saying "hey" either.

I usually try to read their profile and say something that is in reference to what she had on her profile.
 
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