Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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On another note i just reinstalled hinge for the first time in prob a year man the women are bang on average look wise I've set th distance to 2km(i live in zone 2 nw) and also increased it to 10km and still same thing
VertigoKnight
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Lol I'd say the Bussey Bar if it's still open. Or any of the coffee shops near camberwell college of art.
Tbh Peckham High Street used to have a ton of those arty posh white girls walking through.
Krisrunner2049
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Nofap got me looking at ole girl when she pans the camera to the mirror at 3:25 
Actually6Foot3
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when I read this. 
I just changed my location to LA to see what’s up with the bytches dine in socal
it’s night and day with Bay Area hos
I just spent an hour and a half browsing and now I’m legit depressed. I need to get the fukk out of this shyt HOLE
Lol don’t forget bragging rights to be able to talk about the most recent bad ass b1tch they just “bagged”.
Once in a life time opportunity and n1ggas is sitting on dating apps night and day.
I honestly don't know how you're NOT 
good this year brehs unless you're just solely working on yourself.
I've been on Hinge off and on since Jan top of this year and its almost too easy.
I've knocked some down off one conversation, or others it took 2 or 3 dates(Never waited more than that).
Some we talked and it just didn't go anywhere
The last one was a police officer. Matched with her on the 10th, On the 19th I had those legs up in the air. We talked on the phone once maybe. She just left again this morning. I told her I'm pretty busy the next few days(I'm not) so I probably won't see her again until this weekend or next
I have another I'm hanging with Thursday/Friday. Smart and body is ridiculous. She wants to grab food and hang at her spot(doesn't want to sit in restaurants due to Covid).Our conversations are dope and we vibe well. So we'll see how it goes
good this year brehs unless you're just solely working on yourself. I've been on Hinge off and on since Jan top of this year and its almost too easy.
I've knocked some down off one conversation, or others it took 2 or 3 dates(Never waited more than that).
Some we talked and it just didn't go anywhere
The last one was a police officer. Matched with her on the 10th, On the 19th I had those legs up in the air. We talked on the phone once maybe. She just left again this morning. I told her I'm pretty busy the next few days(I'm not) so I probably won't see her again until this weekend or next
I have another I'm hanging with Thursday/Friday. Smart and body is ridiculous. She wants to grab food and hang at her spot(doesn't want to sit in restaurants due to Covid).Our conversations are dope and we vibe well. So we'll see how it goes
I just want some outside opinions.
yesterday was a really bad day for me in terms of mental health. typically i try to thug it out, but i realized i really just needed time alone. earlier in the day, id made plans w my girl to do some stuff but cancelled for the reason above. I didn’t want her around while im feeling bad bc it’ll just bring the general mood down too. i told her i needed some time to get my head right. id never go into the full details of how i was feeling, but even doing the simplest things felt like a battle an example of that would be taking out my puppy.
yesterday, it snowed hard and as a result, it was her (my puppy’s) first time seeing snow. i knew my girl wanted to be there but the timing was wrong so I took pictures and videos of her playing in the snow to send her. after i send the pics and vids, she got mad at me saying she was robbed of being around for a huge milestone (my puppy seeing snow for the first time), and also that she was upset that i cancelled on her because she took off work to be w me (she can work whenever she wants so idk about this). in the end, she called my behavior rude and made me to feel like an a$$hole. she didn’t even bother checking in on how i was feeling
This all happened because I decided to look out for myself and take the day to myself. If I’m feeling real bad why would I want you to come and share that feeling with me? Let me get right so we can be good together, and today I feel so much better btw. Just going off of what happened yesterday though, it kinda feels wrong as to how I was treated. It feels like my feelings were thrown to the side for her wants. This is the first time I’ve felt this way, and if y’all find that I’m just bytching just say that too. I wanna bring this stuff up to her, but I’m not sure what to say
yesterday was a really bad day for me in terms of mental health. typically i try to thug it out, but i realized i really just needed time alone. earlier in the day, id made plans w my girl to do some stuff but cancelled for the reason above. I didn’t want her around while im feeling bad bc it’ll just bring the general mood down too. i told her i needed some time to get my head right. id never go into the full details of how i was feeling, but even doing the simplest things felt like a battle an example of that would be taking out my puppy.
yesterday, it snowed hard and as a result, it was her (my puppy’s) first time seeing snow. i knew my girl wanted to be there but the timing was wrong so I took pictures and videos of her playing in the snow to send her. after i send the pics and vids, she got mad at me saying she was robbed of being around for a huge milestone (my puppy seeing snow for the first time), and also that she was upset that i cancelled on her because she took off work to be w me (she can work whenever she wants so idk about this). in the end, she called my behavior rude and made me to feel like an a$$hole. she didn’t even bother checking in on how i was feeling
This all happened because I decided to look out for myself and take the day to myself. If I’m feeling real bad why would I want you to come and share that feeling with me? Let me get right so we can be good together, and today I feel so much better btw. Just going off of what happened yesterday though, it kinda feels wrong as to how I was treated. It feels like my feelings were thrown to the side for her wants. This is the first time I’ve felt this way, and if y’all find that I’m just bytching just say that too. I wanna bring this stuff up to her, but I’m not sure what to say
The root cause of the issue in my opinion is that she doesn't have a clear understanding of your situation and it's making her insecure and lashing out as a result... prob thinks you're setting her up for a breakup and got some other hoes lined up.
I say this, because what you told her was essentially "it's not you, it's me.." with no further details... tbh no one is gon respond well to that, especially if it happened "suddenly" (from her perspective) with no prior awareness or communication.
Now are you obligated to communicate that? I mean, i don't communicate shyt.. but i'm also not in a relationship. If you like her ass and want to minimize the bullshyt, communicate your perspective more (don't gotta be long-winded) and then just as important lay down the law (expectations) so that next time you need space, she acts accordingly.
What is the cause of you being moody? Maybe you should work on solving that before dating.
I just got a lot of stuff coming at me all at once, it’s not like I’m down bad like that all the time otherwise you’re right, I wouldn’t have even gotten into the relationship