Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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It's been three weeks post-breakup. This too much.

:mjcry::deadrose::damn:
It gets easier brehette. :manny:

As time goes on the less You’ll care. You can’t force someone to be with and if there are fundamental flaws in the relationship like timing, character issues, attraction, etc then you can’t be hesitant about moving on.


I look back at all my ex’s like damn I would have been settling like a mofo if I stayed with them all these years when I was in my early 20’s.


There’s partners that I had, that legit know I would have hated every second of being married to them or having kids with.
:whew:
But they weren’t necessarily “bad people”.
 

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So still none? What's holding you back?
I just said 2 but it’s been sometime now. Idk maybe my pics aren’t that great. I’m just focus on my priorities. Getting my credit score from currently good (701) to great and tackling this credit card debt. If I’m be lonely rather it be in my own crib I will own in a year or less from now.
 

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I just said 2 but it’s been sometime now. Idk maybe my pics aren’t that great. I’m just focus on my priorities. Getting my credit score from currently good (701) to great and tackling this credit card debt. If I’m be lonely rather it be in my own crib I will own in a year or less from now.
Good on you.:ehh:
 

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i know how it feels breh:francis: its been 10 months post breakup for me and this is what i learned and what helped
1. stay off her social media.... trust me what u cant see wont hurt you....looking at her socials will fukk up your mental heath and make you feel like shyt if she post another guy or she post subliminal messages.
2. Stay busy...dont sit around doing nothing because thoughts will linger:francis:
3. go and enjoy shyt you LIKE...if you off from work and if you enjoy playing video games,working out etcc... GO DO IT:ufdup::ufdup:
4. Level up in any way in your life u think you have 2.... either money wise,job wise, education etcccc... level up for yourself not for her:ufdup:
5. if you really loved that girl and the relationship was hella long....dont belive that "just smash a new chick and you will move on" that shyt dont work:mjlol::mjlol: for some people yeah but me after i got dumped in November i smashed like 4 chicks in a 3 month period and i still felt like shyt:francis::dead:
6. take responsibility if you are part to blame for the ending of the relationship but dont blame yourself every day...accept your failures and let go
7. its ok to be sad and shyt...but now is your comeback season:youngsabo::youngsabo::youngsabo:
be better,be richer,be more successful:youngsabo: i wish you luck breh:salute::salute::salute::salute:

yup
but brandy is a girl but opposite applies
 

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I repeat and I repeat again if you are not in a relationship etc. you don't owe these chicks anything.


What I mean is you go out on a date once or twice and not feeling it, you don't owe them anything to let them know. Once I feel it's going nowhere with a chick I just cease communication and get on with life. Just like a job interview you'll go in for one and hear nothing back they are not obligated to provide an update, however, if you are employed they have to let you know they are terminating your position because there is a relationship of the sort.

All that you're a great girl but Nah
 

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I’ve had 2 from tinder. Lots of matches and no replies or I reply to them and nothing. Everybody fukking at once

attention the woman's currency

Sometimes its not bad to take a break and just work on yourself. I took a break and especially now that it's getting cold here I have no idea what I'd do with a woman on a date now anyways. Cinemas and indoor dining are banned, to cold to go to a park. Malls have to wear a mask, and I ain't inviting some chick I just met to my spot anways.

Perfect time to check out and relax :smile:
 

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I repeat and I repeat again if you are not in a relationship etc. you don't owe these chicks anything.


What I mean is you go out on a date once or twice and not feeling it, you don't owe them anything to let them know. Once I feel it's going nowhere with a chick I just cease communication and get on with life. Just like a job interview you'll go in for one and hear nothing back they are not obligated to provide an update, however, if you are employed they have to let you know they are terminating your position because there is a relationship of the sort.

All that you're a great girl but Nah
Thats how I am honestly.....

I've been out on dates with women where I had a great time, conversation & dinner. The women were interested in another date, and could I have smashed asap but I just ceased contact because I ultimately wasnt feeling it. Didnt feel worth my time. :hubie:
 

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Thats how I am honestly.....

I've been out on dates with women where I had a great time, conversation & dinner. The women were interested in another date, and could I have smashed asap but I just ceased contact because I ultimately wasnt feeling it. Didnt feel worth my time. :hubie:

Yup
It's crazy especially for me, when I was younger I remember not wanting to "hurt" anyone and even getting into relationships and sticking with women who were horrible. Hearing sob stories and on some don't worry I'll treat you good :picard:


Now I'm like screw that, oh you got a kid you never mentioned, oh your ex was abusive and you stayed:hubie:, oh you dropped out of hs and :hubie: oh you're bad with money :hubie:
 

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attention the woman's currency

Sometimes its not bad to take a break and just work on yourself. I took a break and especially now that it's getting cold here I have no idea what I'd do with a woman on a date now anyways. Cinemas and indoor dining are banned, to cold to go to a park. Malls have to wear a mask, and I ain't inviting some chick I just met to my spot anways.

Perfect time to check out and relax :smile:
Def do breh
 
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