It aint that serious, but I know what you mean. I can eat off apps.....even a fugly fat chick can go on hinge, tinder, bumble and have 100 msgs in a day calling her beautiful and all this
the equivalent for a man would be like posting your resume on indeed and all you have is a hs diploma and a job flipping burgers at mcdonald's yet you have 100 companies contacting you for a director role
that's how out of wack it is
But attractive women in real life are way easier to come by, with less "upfront baggage".