Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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A girl I don't really talk to left a heart react under one of my pics. Should I take this as a signal or is it just whatever?
Is your face very visible in the picture? And does she like other pictures?

But either way the only 100% true sign that a woman is into you is if you're fukking her.

Just shoot your shot like you normally would.
 

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Is your face very visible in the picture? And does she like other pictures?

But either way the only 100% true sign that a woman is into you is if you're fukking her.

Just shoot your shot like you normally would.


Very visible. And nah but I’ve posted like 3 pics to FB in the past few years lol, 2 of them before I even knew her. She got a bf too but he seems kinda lame tbh
 

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Why is that though?
Is it because everyone on these apps(and IRL) try to choose up?

even a fugly fat chick can go on hinge, tinder, bumble and have 100 msgs in a day calling her beautiful and all this

the equivalent for a man would be like posting your resume on indeed and all you have is a hs diploma and a job flipping burgers at mcdonald's yet you have 100 companies contacting you for a director role

that's how out of wack it is
 

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See that's where you wrong. SHE WAS THE SQUARE INTROVERTED GIRL :damn:

Im talkin bout we used to link up and watch anime and she used to give me book recommendations and shyt :damn:

I took this bytch on a date and she said nobody ever took her on a date before :damn:

Edit: now that i think about it the only sign i ignored was the tramp stamp tats, but she cute in the face but got no body so i felt like that was why she felt the need to go get them. :patrice:

I had a relationship before her where i got burned cuz i didnt want my girl to get her nipples pierced and she lowkey hated me for not supporting that shyt so this time i let it slide but that shyt was clearly a mistake. :unimpressed:
did she classify herself as the "spiritual" type:mjpls:
and did she have one of those dreamcatcher sheets or whatever on her wall:mjpls:
 

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no the problem is her. find one who makes you happy and is worth the effort.
I agree with the latter, but I'm gonna challenge the former. Seeing as how the man is usually the one who pursues, he (you) is responsible for who you bag.
For example, if you engage with over 50 women, and it's just non-stop negativity coming from them (towards you), then common denominator is you. It's starts within
 

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So heres my story

I usually post in this thread "got a #...week later bytches play games etc"

Over a week ago i was on app...and i see this lightskin chick with curly hair...i thought at first...ehhh shorty probably a fake page...ill just send a message anways...she responds....convo is very good...for 6 days she would text me all day...called me...added each other on insta...friday we met up for a date and it went really good...we kissed alot. She basically said she likes me n all that good stuff...she deleted her app 2 days after we started talkn...and she hasnt given no red flags at all. Its been pretty smooth..

On our date she tagged me on her insta story..we took a pic together(she was all happy) and we hangn out on wends and friday this week..

So i might be out the game soon
Maybe she tryna lock something down for cuffing season so she don’t look all lonely out here :ehh:
 

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Yeah apps aren't for everyone and it can come down to where you live. I'm lucky to live in a city that is heavily weighted towards good looking single women but it cant be emphasised enough how good pictures and text does a lot of the heavy lifting.

I was doing street approaches but with Covid and masks sensible chicks here are not really in a stop and chat mood for random guys.

But whether we doing the apps or the approaching. These chicks are still acting the fool most of the time.

:lolbron:
Online women are like a downgrade to what I pull in real life. Way too many catfishes...
 

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I think regular bytches get gassed up soo much that they think they dimes...so they try and play the field too much...

Every bytch says the same ol no hookups line 98% of the time..maybe its just our generation...
:mjlol: :heh: And y'alll be believing this.

Damn near every chick I've met with has down some freaky shyt on the first date, whether it be head, having they titties out or fukking raw( :snoop: ).

Always remember what women say and do, will always be two separate things.

My favorite line is, "I've never done this before". :mjlol:
 

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Everyone should be concerned with Covid. I don't understand why people still trying to meet up with new people right now...it simply isn't worth it.
Thats why I'm reading this thread like....

I can't even see myself dealing with anyone right now.

Sometime I consider jumping on an app just to be a penpal, because I know damn well i have no intention of dealing with some of these women on their. :mjlol:

It's definitely chicks out here looking for a good time and ish.....

But this Covid shyt, shouldn't be fukked with, even if you don't care about yourself, think about your family and friends....

There's people I know in the hospital right fighting for their life. Ass aint that important. Health is.
 
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