Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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That’s the next move for sure. I’m no longer speaking on it. I don’t like pressure but lately she’s been getting annoying like I said. Gone have to pull back and tell her what’s up. Career first and the rest of that shyt later. Sink or swim.

Smart choice breh. Also if she is annoying you now envision another issue coming up when you are hustling your ass off trying to get that bag to build your empire for the family and she is straight nagging. She is worrying about a damn ring and a piece of paper that that doesn't necessarily mean you love her more. You need to put her on a regime that she can stick to (be submissive , feminine and trust your instincts). You want her to add to your empire not stress you out and topple over your castle before its built. If she doesn't oblige i 100 percent assure you, you can replace her. The time is now.
 

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My girl won’t shut the fukk up.

Im sure I want to marry this woman and have kids with this woman. I just have no idea when nor do I really want to put a date on it because I’m going through a career change that requires my full financial and mental focus. So yeah that marriage shyt gotta wait for the next 8-9 months at least which she should understand because I’ve told her but that’s not the issue.

Where I fukked up is TELLING her I want to have kids, I’m looking at engagement rings, I want to marry her, and I need to meet her parents and talk about marriage.

This girl won’t stfu. Every other day she talkin about getting pregnant, the type of rings she likes, how she can’t wait. Conversation isn’t even regular anymore. That part is annoying but it’s minor. She’s a woman and I know she wants this with me and that’s fine but last night she did some dumb shyt.

She called her pops and told that man my boyfriend wants to marry me but he wants to be meet you first. Why in the hell would you do that dude.. idk if I’m overreacting but I definitely didn’t ask her to do that at all. Now I’m like wtf. It won’t even be a natural meet up. Completely ruined the shyt

yeah bro she jumped the gun. You have to watch how she moves in that sense. It’s more about her and her wants then making you feel comfortable with your timetable and supporting you.
 

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My girl won’t shut the fukk up.

Im sure I want to marry this woman and have kids with this woman. I just have no idea when nor do I really want to put a date on it because I’m going through a career change that requires my full financial and mental focus. So yeah that marriage shyt gotta wait for the next 8-9 months at least which she should understand because I’ve told her but that’s not the issue.

Where I fukked up is TELLING her I want to have kids, I’m looking at engagement rings, I want to marry her, and I need to meet her parents and talk about marriage.

This girl won’t stfu. Every other day she talkin about getting pregnant, the type of rings she likes, how she can’t wait. Conversation isn’t even regular anymore. That part is annoying but it’s minor. She’s a woman and I know she wants this with me and that’s fine but last night she did some dumb shyt.

She called her pops and told that man my boyfriend wants to marry me but he wants to be meet you first. Why in the hell would you do that dude.. idk if I’m overreacting but I definitely didn’t ask her to do that at all. Now I’m like wtf. It won’t even be a natural meet up. Completely ruined the shyt

Oh you fukked up big time homeboy:whew:

You might not even understand the magnitude of your fukk up:damn:
 

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My girl won’t shut the fukk up.

Im sure I want to marry this woman and have kids with this woman. I just have no idea when nor do I really want to put a date on it because I’m going through a career change that requires my full financial and mental focus. So yeah that marriage shyt gotta wait for the next 8-9 months at least which she should understand because I’ve told her but that’s not the issue.

Where I fukked up is TELLING her I want to have kids, I’m looking at engagement rings, I want to marry her, and I need to meet her parents and talk about marriage.

This girl won’t stfu. Every other day she talkin about getting pregnant, the type of rings she likes, how she can’t wait. Conversation isn’t even regular anymore. That part is annoying but it’s minor. She’s a woman and I know she wants this with me and that’s fine but last night she did some dumb shyt.

She called her pops and told that man my boyfriend wants to marry me but he wants to be meet you first. Why in the hell would you do that dude.. idk if I’m overreacting but I definitely didn’t ask her to do that at all. Now I’m like wtf. It won’t even be a natural meet up. Completely ruined the shyt
Yeaaaaaah she sound like she ready ready :russ:

You better make sure you pulling out if yall only relying on birth control
 

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My girl won’t shut the fukk up.

Im sure I want to marry this woman and have kids with this woman. I just have no idea when nor do I really want to put a date on it because I’m going through a career change that requires my full financial and mental focus. So yeah that marriage shyt gotta wait for the next 8-9 months at least which she should understand because I’ve told her but that’s not the issue.

Where I fukked up is TELLING her I want to have kids, I’m looking at engagement rings, I want to marry her, and I need to meet her parents and talk about marriage.

This girl won’t stfu. Every other day she talkin about getting pregnant, the type of rings she likes, how she can’t wait. Conversation isn’t even regular anymore. That part is annoying but it’s minor. She’s a woman and I know she wants this with me and that’s fine but last night she did some dumb shyt.

She called her pops and told that man my boyfriend wants to marry me but he wants to be meet you first. Why in the hell would you do that dude.. idk if I’m overreacting but I definitely didn’t ask her to do that at all. Now I’m like wtf. It won’t even be a natural meet up. Completely ruined the shyt

You know this wont change. You get married its gonna be about getting a new house. Then when you get the new house its gonna be about having kids. Then when you get a kid having another one.

Some women are constantly chasing ghost and she seems like she wants to check off quite a few things in that checklist as soon as possible.
 

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My girl won’t shut the fukk up.

Im sure I want to marry this woman and have kids with this woman. I just have no idea when nor do I really want to put a date on it because I’m going through a career change that requires my full financial and mental focus. So yeah that marriage shyt gotta wait for the next 8-9 months at least which she should understand because I’ve told her but that’s not the issue.

Where I fukked up is TELLING her I want to have kids, I’m looking at engagement rings, I want to marry her, and I need to meet her parents and talk about marriage.

This girl won’t stfu. Every other day she talkin about getting pregnant, the type of rings she likes, how she can’t wait. Conversation isn’t even regular anymore. That part is annoying but it’s minor. She’s a woman and I know she wants this with me and that’s fine but last night she did some dumb shyt.

She called her pops and told that man my boyfriend wants to marry me but he wants to be meet you first. Why in the hell would you do that dude.. idk if I’m overreacting but I definitely didn’t ask her to do that at all. Now I’m like wtf. It won’t even be a natural meet up. Completely ruined the shyt

Red flag right there. She's too impulsive and overbearing plus telling her dad all that was just out of order, cos now he's gonna be expecting shyt from you too.

One thing that I CANNOT stand is being nagged and pressured, especially while I'm focusing on other shyt. I hate that shyt.

Usually I'd say you that you messed up by telling her this, but I think it’s a good thing cos now you see how she operates when she has expectations....and bruh this is just the beginning. Ask yourself if you really want a lifetime of that.
 

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Red flag right there. She's too impulsive and overbearing plus telling her dad all that was just out of order, cos now he's gonna be expecting shyt from you too.

One thing that I CANNOT stand is being nagged and pressured, especially while I'm focusing on other shyt. I hate that shyt.

Usually I'd say you that you messed up by telling her this, but I think it’s a good thing cos now you see how she operates when she has expectations....and bruh this is just the beginning. Ask yourself if you really want a lifetime of that.

I cant find no fault with the female in this...

He took the initiative and gave it an urgent vibe..

You tell any female you looking at rings and you need to meet their parents, it's pretty much a done deal...:francis:
 

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I cant find no fault with the female in this...

He took the initiative and gave it an urgent vibe..

You tell any female you looking at rings and you need to meet their parents, it's pretty much a done deal...:francis:

I wouldn't have done it myself, but people are capable of self control.

They're together anyway and she knows he's trying to get his stuff together, so no need for the added pressure.

I don't know either one and I'm not in the situation, just basing my view on what ole boy stated.
 
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