Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Germms said:
My girl won’t shut the fukk up.

Im sure I want to marry this woman and have kids with this woman. I just have no idea when nor do I really want to put a date on it because I’m going through a career change that requires my full financial and mental focus. So yeah that marriage shyt gotta wait for the next 8-9 months at least which she should understand because I’ve told her but that’s not the issue.

Where I fukked up is TELLING her I want to have kids, I’m looking at engagement rings, I want to marry her, and I need to meet her parents and talk about marriage.

This girl won’t stfu. Every other day she talkin about getting pregnant, the type of rings she likes, how she can’t wait. Conversation isn’t even regular anymore. That part is annoying but it’s minor. She’s a woman and I know she wants this with me and that’s fine but last night she did some dumb shyt.

She called her pops and told that man my boyfriend wants to marry me but he wants to be meet you first. Why in the hell would you do that dude.. idk if I’m overreacting but I definitely didn’t ask her to do that at all. Now I’m like wtf. It won’t even be a natural meet up. Completely ruined the shyt
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yeah bro she jumped the gun. You have to watch how she moves in that sense. It’s more about her and her wants then making you feel comfortable with your timetable and supporting you.
 
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Germms said:
My girl won’t shut the fukk up.

Im sure I want to marry this woman and have kids with this woman. I just have no idea when nor do I really want to put a date on it because I’m going through a career change that requires my full financial and mental focus. So yeah that marriage shyt gotta wait for the next 8-9 months at least which she should understand because I’ve told her but that’s not the issue.

Where I fukked up is TELLING her I want to have kids, I’m looking at engagement rings, I want to marry her, and I need to meet her parents and talk about marriage.

This girl won’t stfu. Every other day she talkin about getting pregnant, the type of rings she likes, how she can’t wait. Conversation isn’t even regular anymore. That part is annoying but it’s minor. She’s a woman and I know she wants this with me and that’s fine but last night she did some dumb shyt.

She called her pops and told that man my boyfriend wants to marry me but he wants to be meet you first. Why in the hell would you do that dude.. idk if I’m overreacting but I definitely didn’t ask her to do that at all. Now I’m like wtf. It won’t even be a natural meet up. Completely ruined the shyt
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Oh you fukked up big time homeboy:whew:

You might not even understand the magnitude of your fukk up:damn:
 
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Germms said:
My girl won’t shut the fukk up.

Im sure I want to marry this woman and have kids with this woman. I just have no idea when nor do I really want to put a date on it because I’m going through a career change that requires my full financial and mental focus. So yeah that marriage shyt gotta wait for the next 8-9 months at least which she should understand because I’ve told her but that’s not the issue.

Where I fukked up is TELLING her I want to have kids, I’m looking at engagement rings, I want to marry her, and I need to meet her parents and talk about marriage.

This girl won’t stfu. Every other day she talkin about getting pregnant, the type of rings she likes, how she can’t wait. Conversation isn’t even regular anymore. That part is annoying but it’s minor. She’s a woman and I know she wants this with me and that’s fine but last night she did some dumb shyt.

She called her pops and told that man my boyfriend wants to marry me but he wants to be meet you first. Why in the hell would you do that dude.. idk if I’m overreacting but I definitely didn’t ask her to do that at all. Now I’m like wtf. It won’t even be a natural meet up. Completely ruined the shyt
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Yeaaaaaah she sound like she ready ready :russ:

You better make sure you pulling out if yall only relying on birth control
 
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Germms said:
My girl won’t shut the fukk up.

Im sure I want to marry this woman and have kids with this woman. I just have no idea when nor do I really want to put a date on it because I’m going through a career change that requires my full financial and mental focus. So yeah that marriage shyt gotta wait for the next 8-9 months at least which she should understand because I’ve told her but that’s not the issue.

Where I fukked up is TELLING her I want to have kids, I’m looking at engagement rings, I want to marry her, and I need to meet her parents and talk about marriage.

This girl won’t stfu. Every other day she talkin about getting pregnant, the type of rings she likes, how she can’t wait. Conversation isn’t even regular anymore. That part is annoying but it’s minor. She’s a woman and I know she wants this with me and that’s fine but last night she did some dumb shyt.

She called her pops and told that man my boyfriend wants to marry me but he wants to be meet you first. Why in the hell would you do that dude.. idk if I’m overreacting but I definitely didn’t ask her to do that at all. Now I’m like wtf. It won’t even be a natural meet up. Completely ruined the shyt
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You know this wont change. You get married its gonna be about getting a new house. Then when you get the new house its gonna be about having kids. Then when you get a kid having another one.

Some women are constantly chasing ghost and she seems like she wants to check off quite a few things in that checklist as soon as possible.
 
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Germms said:
My girl won’t shut the fukk up.

Im sure I want to marry this woman and have kids with this woman. I just have no idea when nor do I really want to put a date on it because I’m going through a career change that requires my full financial and mental focus. So yeah that marriage shyt gotta wait for the next 8-9 months at least which she should understand because I’ve told her but that’s not the issue.

Where I fukked up is TELLING her I want to have kids, I’m looking at engagement rings, I want to marry her, and I need to meet her parents and talk about marriage.

This girl won’t stfu. Every other day she talkin about getting pregnant, the type of rings she likes, how she can’t wait. Conversation isn’t even regular anymore. That part is annoying but it’s minor. She’s a woman and I know she wants this with me and that’s fine but last night she did some dumb shyt.

She called her pops and told that man my boyfriend wants to marry me but he wants to be meet you first. Why in the hell would you do that dude.. idk if I’m overreacting but I definitely didn’t ask her to do that at all. Now I’m like wtf. It won’t even be a natural meet up. Completely ruined the shyt
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Red flag right there. She's too impulsive and overbearing plus telling her dad all that was just out of order, cos now he's gonna be expecting shyt from you too.

One thing that I CANNOT stand is being nagged and pressured, especially while I'm focusing on other shyt. I hate that shyt.

Usually I'd say you that you messed up by telling her this, but I think it’s a good thing cos now you see how she operates when she has expectations....and bruh this is just the beginning. Ask yourself if you really want a lifetime of that.
 
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DaRealness said:
Red flag right there. She's too impulsive and overbearing plus telling her dad all that was just out of order, cos now he's gonna be expecting shyt from you too.

One thing that I CANNOT stand is being nagged and pressured, especially while I'm focusing on other shyt. I hate that shyt.

Usually I'd say you that you messed up by telling her this, but I think it’s a good thing cos now you see how she operates when she has expectations....and bruh this is just the beginning. Ask yourself if you really want a lifetime of that.
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I cant find no fault with the female in this...

He took the initiative and gave it an urgent vibe..

You tell any female you looking at rings and you need to meet their parents, it's pretty much a done deal...:francis:
 
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360dagod said:
I cant find no fault with the female in this...

He took the initiative and gave it an urgent vibe..

You tell any female you looking at rings and you need to meet their parents, it's pretty much a done deal...:francis:
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I wouldn't have done it myself, but people are capable of self control.

They're together anyway and she knows he's trying to get his stuff together, so no need for the added pressure.

I don't know either one and I'm not in the situation, just basing my view on what ole boy stated.
 
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