Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I need to start dating/find me a woman soon. I don’t feel comfortable with online dating and I’m a loner (I LOVE my own space/ can be a bit quirky :dame:and I have attention issues :russ:) so that’s a few strikes against me (on top of being pretty picky/only dating black women and being older although I don’t really look it as much). Before corona shyt was somewhat challenging (80% my fault) but now:dwillhuh:. I live in NYC so I should have options but I don’t really :patrice:. I really don’t care about other people (To be blunt, I sometimes see people as objects or background characters in some other story that I don’t care for) but I do sometimes wonder if I have a reputation :snoop:. I remember some random dude coming up to me saying he knew me from somewhere and that through me off.

I’m all over the place with this post :russ:. I guess I gotta start cold approaching but that feels disgusting right now. I need a woman that I want soon :beli:

the chick I did like (I mainly liked her t*ts but she was also kinda cool) basically dissed me and this other chick I got tired of (not to sound rude but that’s the gist of it). Again, I need a woman soon, lol.
Lol this was funny to read. Take it easy brehski
 

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My girl won’t shut the fukk up.

Im sure I want to marry this woman and have kids with this woman. I just have no idea when nor do I really want to put a date on it because I’m going through a career change that requires my full financial and mental focus. So yeah that marriage shyt gotta wait for the next 8-9 months at least which she should understand because I’ve told her but that’s not the issue.

Where I fukked up is TELLING her I want to have kids, I’m looking at engagement rings, I want to marry her, and I need to meet her parents and talk about marriage.

This girl won’t stfu. Every other day she talkin about getting pregnant, the type of rings she likes, how she can’t wait. Conversation isn’t even regular anymore. That part is annoying but it’s minor. She’s a woman and I know she wants this with me and that’s fine but last night she did some dumb shyt.

She called her pops and told that man my boyfriend wants to marry me but he wants to be meet you first. Why in the hell would you do that dude.. idk if I’m overreacting but I definitely didn’t ask her to do that at all. Now I’m like wtf. It won’t even be a natural meet up. Completely ruined the shyt
 

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My girl won’t shut the fukk up.

Im sure I want to marry this woman and have kids with this woman. I just have no idea when nor do I really want to put a date on it because I’m going through a career change that requires my full financial and mental focus. So yeah that marriage shyt gotta wait for the next 8-9 months at least which she should understand because I’ve told her but that’s not the issue.

Where I fukked up is TELLING her I want to have kids, I’m looking at engagement rings, I want to marry her, and I need to meet her parents and talk about marriage.

This girl won’t stfu. Every other day she talkin about getting pregnant, the type of rings she likes, how she can’t wait. Conversation isn’t even regular anymore. That part is annoying but it’s minor. She’s a woman and I know she wants this with me and that’s fine but last night she did some dumb shyt.

She called her pops and told that man my boyfriend wants to marry me but he wants to be meet you first. Why in the hell would you do that dude.. idk if I’m overreacting but I definitely didn’t ask her to do that at all. Now I’m like wtf. It won’t even be a natural meet up. Completely ruined the shyt


Are you sure you want to marry and have kids with this woman? It sounds like to me she's applying that full court press for you to put that baby in her womb. If you want to get your career straight first, make that the priority and nothing else. If I was you I'd delay it till the last possible minute because I've seen how chicks can get when they get impatient. The ugly beast comes out and then you find out the real woman you'll be dealing with for the next 18 years +

If she's patient, then go for it but if not :ufdup:
 

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Are you sure you want to marry and have kids with this woman? It sounds like to me she's applying that full court press for you to put that baby in her womb. If you want to get your career straight first, make that the priority and nothing else. If I was you I'd delay it till the last possible minute because I've seen how chicks can get when they get impatient. The ugly beast comes out and then you find out the real woman you'll be dealing with for the next 18 years +

If she's patient, then go for it but if not :ufdup:

That’s the next move for sure. I’m no longer speaking on it. I don’t like pressure but lately she’s been getting annoying like I said. Gone have to pull back and tell her what’s up. Career first and the rest of that shyt later. Sink or swim.
 
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