Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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eHarmony sucks.... don't go there they rip you off. POF was the worst, holy shyt its bad.

Just stick to Tinder. Don't waste your time.
 
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No cap hinge kinda intimidating to me :hubie:

it asks so many questions and requires 6 pics or vids

I’m like Breh i ain’t tryna do all that :heh:

but the women on there bad asf and have shyt going for themselves. They seem a lot more serious about it than I do :hubie:
But maybe it’s a bit of me wanting to half ass a profile. I’m half heartedly using it tbh

It’s way better than all the others apps plus you can get your pick of who you want to talk to. A few commented on my pics and when I went into check the trap it was some wooden nickels so I said nah, he’ll naw! Remove them from my search. One mf came in like I’d love to rub on all that I was like ok. When? We set a date, to be continued in the meantime I’m gonna shower the ex with another facial because she loves that shyt. Get yo Mack on!
 

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How do y’all deal with women you meet in person?

Like I usually try to text em, so we could hang out, but they always fall off

Always the “oh I’m busy, maybe some other time” or just ghosting
 

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How do y’all deal with women you meet in person?

Like I usually try to text em, so we could hang out, but they always fall off

Always the “oh I’m busy, maybe some other time” or just ghosting
The ghosting was there before the pandemic, but I feel like it's gotten a lot worse since. I try not to do a lot of texting. Set up a date and reconfirm the day before.

What's funny to me is how busy these women are, despite the pandemic. I messaged a few women this week and they weren't available to go out this weekend. I'm dating, but I'm not going out all the time like that.
 

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The ghosting was there before the pandemic, but I feel like it's gotten a lot worse since. I try not to do a lot of texting. Set up a date and reconfirm the day before.

What's funny to me is how busy these women are, despite the pandemic. I messaged a few women this week and they weren't available to go out this weekend. I'm dating, but I'm not going out all the time like that.
That's what I'm saying tho - I know they're lying. You weren't even doing shyt when I met you in the first place :mjlol:
 

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So I just met this chick online a few days ago.
I drive to the other side of town to her crib the other day cuz her roomate was gone.
We chillin on the couch with some bullshyt ass harry potter on tv and she keep playing with this dress on.
:francis:

Sitting there playing with her titties, lifting he dress a lil, randomly make her ass clap.
I kept trying her tryna rub that thang and suck on her nipples and she keep pushing my hand away talking about "not on the first day"
:francis:
I started giving up but she keep play teasing.

idk if yall brehs remember but now all of a sudden my ex that I brought up recently wanna text me out the blue. I keep the shyt short and all then my phone started ringing in my pocket.
:sadcam:
She end up taking my phone out my pocket and answers it. Luckily it was my male cousin.
So after a while, now she wanna pull the dress up and get in doggystyle position.
At this point, my damn meat wouldnt get past medium mode

:mjcry:

All that bullshyttin fukked up everything. Don't help that I was already drinking.
I barely smashed and ended up stoppin cuz I couldnt even enjoy the shyt.
:mjtf:
 

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So I just met this chick online a few days ago.
I drive to the other side of town to her crib the other day cuz her roomate was gone.
We chillin on the couch with some bullshyt ass harry potter on tv and she keep playing with this dress on.
:francis:

Sitting there playing with her titties, lifting he dress a lil, randomly make her ass clap.
I kept trying her tryna rub that thang and suck on her nipples and she keep pushing my hand away talking about "not on the first day"
:francis:
I started giving up but she keep play teasing.

idk if yall brehs remember but now all of a sudden my ex that I brought up recently wanna text me out the blue. I keep the shyt short and all then my phone started ringing in my pocket.
:sadcam:
She end up taking my phone out my pocket and answers it. Luckily it was my male cousin.
So after a while, now she wanna pull the dress up and get in doggystyle position.
At this point, my damn meat wouldnt get past medium mode
:mjcry:

All that bullshyttin fukked up everything. Don't help that I was already drinking.
I barely smashed and ended up stoppin cuz I couldnt even enjoy the shyt.
U need 90 days of no porn
 

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How do y’all deal with women you meet in person?

Like I usually try to text em, so we could hang out, but they always fall off

Always the “oh I’m busy, maybe some other time” or just ghosting

I know y’all don’t care too much for my advice , but Facetime/ video chat before meeting them in person. You get a good feel for who they are. It lowkey foreshadows the date. Lastly, it screens for women who want to get to know you or looking for something in return. 15-30 minutes is enough.
 
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