Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Women are weird. Talking to a Jewish girl with an absolute fatty off hinge for a few days. We exchange numbers. Continue to talk for like 2 weeks on and off. Vibe is fire. We start off just sending general g-rated pics of eachother. One day she asks for a shirtless pic. I send it. She goes off about how amazing I look, how I’m out her league blah blah. I ask for her ass in underwear in return, she denies. I say I’m just trying to be fair, she blocks.

I’ve got a solid rotation already so I don’t care that much. I’m more so tryna understand if I was in the wrong for thinking that’s a logically fair trade.


Breh if women can laugh giggle walk down the aisle have your child and still wake up one day and be like I don’t love you anymore and that’s it. What more of a woman you never met yet?

wondering why a woman did this and that will just give you a migraine

best thing you can do is meet up with a woman ASAP and if she keeps on pulling out excuses block and delete and move on
 

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We have been engaged for just 2 weeks and at each other’s throats already. She has admitted she is experiencing postpartum depression. I don’t want to give up on this seeing the fact we just had a kid and I really do love her but the thought is coming to mind is this a sign for the future...



women will always have excuses breh, it’s depression, it’s post partum I’m on my period blah blah.

Women change like the wind, and now she has a ring and a child she knows your azz ain’t going anywhere
 

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Atleast he tried
:yeshrug:

I got shot down at work recently and kept it pushing. I ignore the chick but she keep speaking to me everyday and accidentally locking eyes.

why you wanna talk to me more and keep looking at me after i ended up getting shot down? :francis:

(From another thread)

My cousin think she shot me down cuz she was shocked a dude approached in person.
:jbhmm:

Maybe she did, maybe she didnt. But women are weird brehs
 

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(From another thread)

My cousin think she shot me down cuz she was shocked a dude approached in person.
:jbhmm:

Maybe she did, maybe she didnt. But women are weird brehs
She may not wanna make things awkward or she may be one of them type of chicks that need to see u with a female or two before she starts to like u.
 

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She may not wanna make things awkward or she may be one of them type of chicks that need to see u with a female or two before she starts to like u.

:ehh:

I could kinda see the second one but aint no way for her to make it awkward& if anything it woulda been on my end
 

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I've ran into this problem a few times with people over the years, I can tell you right now, if she's not touching your dikk at all, she's not the one for you. It might sound petty, but look at it this way...she wont blow you (her fiance) because she wants something in return...so you marrying her isn't enough for head? That's a giant red bat signal. Spoiler Alert; when you are married, there's gonna be times shes gonna use cheaper excuses to not touch you, don't get married.

We have been engaged for just 2 weeks and at each other’s throats already. She has admitted she is experiencing postpartum depression. I don’t want to give up on this seeing the fact we just had a kid and I really do love her but the thought is coming to mind is this a sign for the future...

I mean there is some truth bout her not touching you is a flag but at same time postpartum depression is real.
My ex wife had it bad and you gotta understand only so much u can do for her but support her. She will need your help and probably counseling too.
So it can’t be ruled out that didn’t cause it either but sad thing is women can pull that shyt as a excuse and not have it which makes the ones who do have it look bad
I’ll say this if she wasn’t like this before the baby more likely it is postpartum imo from experience
Having said that tho if u support her and do your best and she refuses to get the help you need after a certain time your gonna have too consider other options unfortunately
Postpartum can kill a relationship sadly it comes down to the person of how long and how much one can take but it can be worth dealing with it if she is a good woman and shows she is willing to get help or use you as the support to get better ride it out breh but have patiences its a rough ride
Think my ex took a year to get over hers but had progress throughout it tho
 

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I mean there is some truth bout her not touching you is a flag but at same time postpartum depression is real.
My ex wife had it bad and you gotta understand only so much u can do for her but support her. She will need your help and probably counseling too.
So it can’t be ruled out that didn’t cause it either but sad thing is women can pull that shyt as a excuse and not have it which makes the ones who do have it look bad
I’ll say this if she wasn’t like this before the baby more likely it is postpartum imo from experience
Having said that tho if u support her and do your best and she refuses to get the help you need after a certain time your gonna have too consider other options unfortunately
Postpartum can kill a relationship sadly it comes down to the person of how long and how much one can take but it can be worth dealing with it if she is a good woman and shows she is willing to get help or use you as the support to get better ride it out breh but have patiences its a rough ride
Think my ex took a year to get over hers but had progress throughout it tho


In OP's case, she said "It wasn't fair" that he could get his rocks off and she can't. So she's more than willing if she could get something back. She's not willing to compromise with just some head? No thanks. Not worth it. I'm either leaving or never marrying her....in sickness and health will mean nothing to her. She's not understanding that relationships are always about compromise, yes one person will be the unhappy one in the room, but its not gonna be me. My happiness is paramount, in this case, it seems like he's going to be cheating a lot. She got him for 18 years...cheaper to keep her till then, but cheating will be a very common occurrence.
 

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In OP's case, she said "It wasn't fair" that he could get his rocks off and she can't. So she's more than willing if she could get something back. She's not willing to compromise with just some head? No thanks. Not worth it. I
If it was the other way around though, would you do it? :usure:
 

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In OP's case, she said "It wasn't fair" that he could get his rocks off and she can't. So she's more than willing if she could get something back. She's not willing to compromise with just some head? No thanks. Not worth it. I'm either leaving or never marrying her....in sickness and health will mean nothing to her. She's not understanding that relationships are always about compromise, yes one person will be the unhappy one in the room, but its not gonna be me. My happiness is paramount, in this case, it seems like he's going to be cheating a lot. She got him for 18 years...cheaper to keep her till then, but cheating will be a very common occurrence.

I ain’t bout defending a female most of the time but if she was serious and not willing to do her part then she can kick rocks
I assumed she said it but was gonna still give him TOP that’s why I said that otherwise dead ass wrong
I mean I get it ain’t fair and she still slurping breh that’s different cuz it sucks for her but hell na better suck his soul out and he will suck hers once she able to have sex fair compromise
Marriage and relationships have there even flows of up and downs but it should be both parties working to make it better not one which is the damn problem nowadays
It’s one person making the work and change while the other ain’t doing shyt
 

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This girl i'm trynna fukk asked me today why I ain't got my graduation pics up on facebook? :mjlol:

Like im supposed to be posting every milestone and event of my life online. Mind you I hold a MSc degree and this bytch just finished her undergrad earlier this year.

These hoes get sold so easily on visuals, Im betting she probably thinks im a bum just cause I dont be posting anything on there :gucci:
 

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This girl i'm trynna fukk asked me today why I ain't got my graduation pics up on facebook? :mjlol:

Like im supposed to be posting every milestone and event of my life online. Mind you I hold a MSc degree and this bytch just finished her undergrad earlier this year.

These hoes get sold so easily on visuals, Im betting she probably thinks im a bum just cause I dont be posting anything on there :gucci:

Stay as mysterious as the dark side of the moon. Reveal nothing, take everything.
 

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If it was the other way around though, would you do it? :usure:

Are you kidding me? Girls get off with anything, use the hitachi wand on her, and she'll be cuming like a sprinkler in the summer. Getting a girl off is easy, but lets not create strawmen, she's a lazy broad who won't suck a dikk to make her partner happy...this is all before marriage.
 
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