Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ezekiel 25:17

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:mjcry: That’s why I might have to drop out of the game, it’s no way in hell I’m going to raise some fat chick’s kids

fukk with younger chicks. If 20 is too young, go 24+, they usually out of college young professionals. People will judge you for dating young, but if you a good dude:yeshrug: They'll be ready to settle around 27:yeshrug:
 

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I gave in and called :snoop:




She did a complete 180 on me
Saying she wants to think about if she could keep dating


This one hurt


She showed me mad love breh
I should’ve listen you guys
Now I’m salty and feel stupid
fukk it at least I told her how I felt
I don’t have any regrets


It’s gonna take a minute to recover I see why nikkas go crazy now

update she got on the bus and came down here Saturday


Everything is good back to normal

got my guard up tho

You and this chick already fukked/been fukking?

Honestly, I think you may be a bit too attached and it's creating a scarcity mindset where you're too scared to lose her because you haven't given yourself any other options. All your eggs in one basket.

If yall been dating for only a month (iirc) and she got you:
  • sweating bullets over whether to text/call her back after she essentially curved you (for a "nap")
  • caving into texting/calling her back bc you "can't bear to wait" any longer
  • feeling compelled to express heartfelt "feelings" of attachment to her, despite her wishy-washy behavior
Those are all red flags imo. We don't want anything bad to happen to the brehs here and of course anything is possible... but it's kinda predictable how this situation will turn out with this chick.
 

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would y'all deal with a single mother under any circumstance? This isn't specific to anything I'm dealing with i'm just wondering if u would ever entertain one
For anything serious? No.

For fukking/FwB? I have plenty of times. Felt damn near unavoidable in Houston.

Now the thing about circumstances is you have to be willing/able to switch up your dating environment if what's available there doesn't match up with your standards.

i.e. htown got some baaaad women but a number of them gon have kids by the time they in their early 20s, if not college.. so you gotta be more patient/particular in the spots you go to, especially if you're hitting your 30s and don't want a chick too young.
 

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Learned that the hard way. Apart from studying and working out, ion do much in terms of interests - think that's my problem. I try to make small talk with some girls at my gym, but it ain't really the place for that. My interests are online and its usually mainly dudes who like it

Any ideas on things I could get into that have a lot of women? I'm def tryna take some salsa classes when things open back up

Gym dudes stay running through the girls in the gym breh, especially the chain gyms like la fitness and 24hr.
Consider forming some friendships with the dudes that frequent your gym, since you guys may have that common bond in working out, and ask em about the chicks. Sometimes you need to just network and build some social circles, because that leads to being invited to house parties, pool parties, BBQs, and other types of outings (apart from the club) where you can meet women.

Granted, this is what i would advise in a normal/non-covid environment.
 

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would y'all deal with a single mother under any circumstance? This isn't specific to anything I'm dealing with i'm just wondering if u would ever entertain one

when I was single I prefer single mothers cuz I got less headaches and they were more stable and knew what they wanted out of life
Looking back at it I was just lucky at my choices and the ones I messed with
Dating a single mom isn’t bad if she got her shyt together
The 2 biggest issues are the baby daddy.
Cuz u got to know what the relationship is like with them
Cuz if he is involved u gonna wonder if they still fukking depending on ur mine frame and maturity
If he is with someone else and just a good father then that’s a different story and makes it easier

also they got a kid u gotta make room for that kid in your life that kid is first in her life and will be in yours if u get serious
You can’t force ur way of being a father to the kid either that has to gradually happen


Like I said ones I dated were stable ones good head on shoulder
Nurse,lawyer assistant, dentist and model
 

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You and this chick already fukked/been fukking?

Honestly, I think you may be a bit too attached and it's creating a scarcity mindset where you're too scared to lose her because you haven't given yourself any other options. All your eggs in one basket.

If yall been dating for only a month (iirc) and she got you:
  • sweating bullets over whether to text/call her back after she essentially curved you (for a "nap")
  • caving into texting/calling her back bc you "can't bear to wait" any longer
  • feeling compelled to express heartfelt "feelings" of attachment to her, despite her wishy-washy behavior
Those are all red flags imo. We don't want anything bad to happen to the brehs here and of course anything is possible... but it's kinda predictable how this situation will turn out with this chick.


I’ll be ready


She cooks so good :mjcry:
She fukks and sucks me so good :mjcry:
she takes the greyhound to come see me :mjcry:
She 29 plus no kids :mjcry:






Hoping for the best but is prepared for the worse


:wow:
 

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would y'all deal with a single mother under any circumstance? This isn't specific to anything I'm dealing with i'm just wondering if u would ever entertain one


What do you mean by "deal"? As in putting up with her kid(s)? No. She's single for a reason. Convo and dikk is all she requires. Always look for red flags. Most milfs with young children have the same mind state "Love my kids, love me"...right, mind you, she's let every swinging dikk fukk her brains out. Again, there's a reason shes single, and its not just the kid(s), she more than likely has some kind of character trait, that is very unattractive or detrimental to a relationship. Never sacrifice your peace for p*ssy.
 

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For anything serious? No.

For fukking/FwB? I have plenty of times. Felt damn near unavoidable in Houston.

Now the thing about circumstances is you have to be willing/able to switch up your dating environment if what's available there doesn't match up with your standards.

i.e. htown got some baaaad women but a number of them gon have kids by the time they in their early 20s, if not college.. so you gotta be more patient/particular in the spots you go to, especially if you're hitting your 30s and don't want a chick too young.
If it’s like that in Houston imagine what’s it like in a small town :picard:
 

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would y'all deal with a single mother under any circumstance? This isn't specific to anything I'm dealing with i'm just wondering if u would ever entertain one
If she’s a millionaire, than yeah.

in all seriousness, a single mother can’t be average. She has to be above and beyond if I’m going to deal with her.
 
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