She's not over her ex. He's probably still digging her guts out on the weekends.
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nah he left for good in africa , this is like the 3rd year dey dnt meet
you think i shuld ask her to delete it or nah ?
she only use laptop for assignment or mail , so she nt that good in computer skills
Calmly ask her why she still has the pictures instead of just tell her to delete them. Telling her to delete them outright will make you look controlling and insecure in her eyes and she may use that against you down the line. See how she respond to your question and if she hesitant to get rid of them, then you know she still has feelings for him. You want to show her that you are high value and if she really likes you, then she would just delete them without having to be told. Otherwise, just keep it moving with her because now you know where her heart is truly is
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Calmly ask her why she still has the pictures instead of just tell her to delete them. Telling her to delete them outright will make you look controlling and insecure in her eyes and she may use that against you down the line. See how she respond to your question and if she hesitant to get rid of them, then you know she still has feelings for him. You want to show her that you are high value and if she really likes you, then she would just delete them without having to be told. Otherwise, just keep it moving with her because now you know where her heart is truly is
yeah giving her an ultimatum ain’t a good look.
Just have ask her in a calm tone why you still got him there? She might say she forgot to delete it or who knows. But at least ask her before you demand she deletes it. Lol
DaRealness
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There's no need to be having an ex's pic on there. It could be that she genuinely forgot (which I doubt), but that's like carrying her ex's photo in her purse.
Find out where her heart is because you don't wanna waste your time if she still ain't over him.
There's no need to be having an ex's pic on there. It could be that she genuinely forgot (which I doubt), but that's like carrying her ex's photo in her purse.
Find out where her heart is because you don't wanna waste your time if she still ain't over him.
Rocket Scientist
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Tell her to delete it in mean time find you another woman.She can delete deny but she's not over him and probably won't be for a long time
young yeesh
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@Babymama Magnet please STOP asking if they single or are dating. They all have a man they can call to fukk them at any point in time. Just tell her what type of time you are on and if she down. If so, then give her your number. I’m also reading too much convo between y’all, but that’s for another time.
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Don't delete it yourself. Don't make yourself seem "immature". Just express your dissatisfaction with it then start pulling back emotionally. She'll get the picture and before you know it the folder will be gone.
Babymama Magnet
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So my co worker today suggested that we both could use the gym room in our office to workout after work.
She's white 42 (looks good for her age) into fitness and very much the bubbly/talkative type. I don't have a problem with this.. lord knows i miss working out properly and she said she'd hook me up with some resistance bands
Only problem (good and bad) is that this room is quite secluded, no windows nothing, just very much whoevers in that room is by themselves.
Maybe I'm overthinking this but I feel like i'd be stupid to accept her offer. Sure she looks fuvkable and all but being alone, after work with no one else around, this situation could turn ugly (but also great) and i feel it's risky especially where it's a place I work at.
She's white 42 (looks good for her age) into fitness and very much the bubbly/talkative type. I don't have a problem with this.. lord knows i miss working out properly and she said she'd hook me up with some resistance bands
Only problem (good and bad) is that this room is quite secluded, no windows nothing, just very much whoevers in that room is by themselves.
Maybe I'm overthinking this but I feel like i'd be stupid to accept her offer. Sure she looks fuvkable and all but being alone, after work with no one else around, this situation could turn ugly (but also great) and i feel it's risky especially where it's a place I work at.
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So my co worker today suggested that we both could use the gym room in our office to workout after work.
She's white 42 (looks good for her age) into fitness and very much the bubbly/talkative type. I don't have a problem with this.. lord knows i miss working out properly and she said she'd hook me up with some resistance bands
Only problem (good and bad) is that this room is quite secluded, no windows nothing, just very much whoevers in that room is by themselves.
Maybe I'm overthinking this but I feel like i'd be stupid to accept her offer. Sure she looks fuvkable and all but being alone, after work with no one else around, this situation could turn ugly (but also great) and i feel it's risky especially where it's a place I work at.
1 - She's your coworker
2 - She's a cac
In this climate you wanna risk your job and get some false sexual harassment claim?
Not everything has to be gesture to hook up
You might have to entertain the possibility of accepting gestures at face value
Some people are very earnest and naive, you mention that she's very bubbly and open, could that possibly be the reason why she might have asked? Has any previous encounter lead you to assume otherwise?
You might have to entertain the possibility of accepting gestures at face value
Some people are very earnest and naive, you mention that she's very bubbly and open, could that possibly be the reason why she might have asked? Has any previous encounter lead you to assume otherwise?
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
Don’t tell her to delete it. That’s her laptop. If you feel uncomfortable then you need to get another chick.
If she still has that folder then you know where you stand. Enjoy your time while you with her. Don’t take her serious.