Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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J Money
No weapon formed against me shall prosper
Brotha you are beautiful. Dont ever feel down about yourself, you a hard working beautiful man. Act like it
Find some other chicks breh. Everybody not gonna like you. It is what it is.Tell those chicks who left me on READ that
So im doing this 30 Day approach challenge which started today. I honestly don't like approaching, main reasons being i don't know what to say to the girl once i've approached them and i don't want to end up looking stupid either + from a young age I've always been shy which has inhibited me from pursuing girls... but fvck it, i need to learn and improve myself when approaching/conversating with women.
Everyday i'm gonna do my best in logging what happened everyday and track my progress. The goal is to approach at least one girl everyday
Day 1
- Had the opportunity to approach this middle eastern/south asian chick at the bus stop today. Had no clue what to say to her (main problem. My mind goes blank). We get on the bus and i go upstairs, she stays down. We get off at the same destination and this is the perfect time to make the approach but i p*ssy out because she was looking at her phone. So i walk ahead but when i look back i see shes looking around confused as if she doesn't know where she is. Perfect opportunity to go ask her if she's lost and start a conversation.. Again my mind pussies out and i keep on walking.
- Walking towards this big booty suspect midget turk. Again perfect opportunity to stop and approach (even though she had her headphones in) but i don't. She's not my type. Had to remind myself the reasons why i'm doing this
- Grocery shopping and i look eyes with this cute black girl, brownskin and big booty. She had a typical black girl look on her face like "Don't approach me, not interested" so i keep it moving (Should have approached anyway). So we bump into each other in the aisle a couple time and as im going to the check out i see her from afar checking me out then looking away. I don't bother because i'm already about to pay but im pissed off with myself while walking out because she seemed like she had interest.
- Went to another supermarket and saw a girl i used to go to school with. Black girl, decent looking, big booty This is a warm approach so i go over, say hello and we have a brief chat about what we're doing. I decide to cut the chat because the conversation was getting dry but i ask her if she had a man and i asked her for her number (i really didn't care for her number ) She said she had a man.. cool so we say goodbye and i bounce. The feeling of rejection swiftly goes.
I was beating myself up the whole day because i had prime opportunities to approach and i wasn't but happy got the first one out. Revise, what happened, make the adjustment and go onto tomorrow.
Me personally, if i lock eyes with a chick the first thing i'll do is give her a small smile and nod to test the waters, because i know i got a good ass smile from them 3 years of braces i had waaay back in high school lol. I'm also fairly tall but well built (years of working out), i wear casual but form fitting clothes that accentuate my build without overdoing it (taking time to find my personal taste and style) and I get regular shaves/lineups, etc (found a barber i like but also learned how to do bare minimum myself).. so i know from a physical standpoint that i'm the best possible me as far as tall bald swoll black men go. That's one aspect of why ppl say work on yourself.
Now the best possible you may not be what a chick fukks with (she might like skinny dudes, or dudes with tats, or a difference race, etc), just like a chick with big t*ts but no ass may build herself to be her best possible flat-booty self.. but if you like a big ass, then she's simply not gonna be your type no matter what. So no matter what girl you approach, don't overthink it like it's solving some rubrics cube to get her to like yo ass.
Continue improving on yourself in all aspects (i stated just physical but there's other spectrums of course) and everything else really does fall into place in time.
young yeesh
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On an unrelated note:Hey what’s up is desperate and needy
It shouldn’t be just “Hey, what’s up,” it should be “Hey, what’s up. What do you have planned for this weekend?” DONT get in text convos, If anything you can have convo in person
Malik1time
What you looking at?
never look down on yourself brehTell those chicks who left me on READ that
im sure tons of women would break down a door just to be with youtbh i dont believe in team ugly
i think your internal confidence will shine if you absolutely believe it my opinionApolloStark
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8j
not desperate and needy per se but it's not saying anything. it's just a nothing tx which doesn't really require an answer. you need to be asking questions, and not just throwaway convo, things that actually require and demand an answer
Hey what’s up is desperate and needy
not desperate and needy per se but it's not saying anything. it's just a nothing tx which doesn't really require an answer. you need to be asking questions, and not just throwaway convo, things that actually require and demand an answer
So many joints, so much ass outside, this is a depressing summer
You can’t even approach cause of covid & this mask.
You have the option of online, but who’s really gona invite possible cases of Covid into their house & im not tryna play pen pal til 2021 or whenever this “ends“.
You can’t even approach cause of covid & this mask.
You have the option of online, but who’s really gona invite possible cases of Covid into their house & im not tryna play pen pal til 2021 or whenever this “ends“.
I met my girlfriend on Facebook dating during quarantineSo many joints, so much ass outside, this is a depressing summer
You can’t even approach cause of covid & this mask.
You have the option of online, but who’s really gona invite possible cases of Covid into their house & im not tryna play pen pal til 2021 or whenever this “ends“.
It's easy to go on dates because everything's closed. All you can do is go for a walk at the lake. It's free
I try to switch up every now and then, but the chicks will leave you on READ, take hella long to reply, or send dry responses. My feelings I don’t have to play those type of games