Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I gotta commend your persistence. One thing I’ll jus say is don’t let other women see u get shot down.

Day 6

Was inside most of the day but approached this young cutie. Lead with the same hello, whats your name... do you have a bf. (Imma stop asking that). She did and i left it at that.

It's all about being persistant and i'm not worried about getting shot down. It's all about being comfortable with approaching regardless of the situation im in.
 

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Bro I’m not judge you, it’s just a question. You must feel guilty about something

I guess I’m ain’t mad cuz idgaf bout yo situation eitha way it goes fam but da bro was just tryna make conversation den u pull dat

do u tho blood

Real shyt bro, it’s funny acting dudes on the coli :yeshrug:

:mjlol:
I remember dudes avi and he was posting bout sum den all of a sudden it started soundin like cap

I don’t think he be fa real

plus in all my years I’ve never heard a real hood nikka respond to how old are u by sayin old enough:mjlol:

Why post shyt on a message board and you don’t want people to reply to it :dwillhuh:

:umad::lolbron:

This is why I didn't answer the question, I knew there was some envy and hatred behind it.

Peace and positivity in 2020
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Any of yall still cool with your ex family ?

I love my ex family, they became like a second family to me for them years and I run into her folks and siblings all the time. We grew up blocks from each other so I run into them at the store, gas station. Chop it up for a few like nothing ever happened

it been a year and change since we ceased to exist , I’m mostly moved on but when I run into em it be fukking me up I ain’t gon lie.

So many nights I spent over they crib having dinner, going on family outings with them:mjcry:

Her family treated me better than she ever did. I miss em sometimes, but it is what it is
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:umad::lolbron:

This is why I didn't answer the question, I knew there was some envy and hatred behind it.

Peace and positivity in 2020
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Her family treated me better than she ever did. I miss em sometimes, but it is what it is
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Where did you get any hate or envy from my post I’ll cash app you 20 bucks if you point it out
 

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So uh a chick I work with i joke around a lot with told me she miss seeing me at work :dwillhuh: keep in mind she told me she was currently talking to a guy. Chicks be weird


You have to work on demystifying women and all their mechanisms. Everything they do is weighed and measured. In your case, She's keeping her options open. You're on her "fukk list". They're always "talking to some guy". She's more than likely in her ho phase (16-30 years of age), so she still wants to fukk everything in sight.
 

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You have to work on demystifying women and all their mechanisms. Everything they do is weighed and measured. In your case, She's keeping her options open. You're on her "fukk list". They're always "talking to some guy". She's more than likely in her ho phase (16-30 years of age), so she still wants to fukk everything in sight.
She claims she don’t mess around much but I feel like she trying to make me chase her and I wasn’t before my recent health issues and now I’m definitely not
 

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How do you guys get over a woman that you were crushing on who ghosted you? I want to say that there is way more important things going on but why does my mind still try and think about her I mean she obviously has some problems being single at 30 in Atlanta While being so pretty.

The first thing you need to do is get rid of everything that has to do with her. Block the number, and every social media. That's the biggest step. Secondly...and I cannot stress this enough....work on yourself. From working out, to reading books, etc. Find the time (which I'm sure you have plenty of now), to become a jack of all trades. Be great and the rest follows. If you need an ego boost, join a dating site and throw out a lure or two. But always stick to either gaining more knowledge or more muscle.

Your only goal should be what to add to the repertoire of your own greatness. You also have to re-assess the situation, she ghosted you, which means you were never truly on her "fukk list" you were in the friendzone at best. Understand and realign. You need to shift into selfish mode.
 

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How do you guys get over a woman that you were crushing on who ghosted you? I want to say that there is way more important things going on but why does my mind still try and think about her I mean she obviously has some problems being single at 30 in Atlanta While being so pretty.
Physical beauty is meaningless if she's not beautiful on the inside.

When I get ghosted, it's easy for me to move on. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want me, it's that simple. There are too many women out there to be worrying about one.

She looks good, so really the only thing on your mind is what it would've been like to clap those cheeks. I understand. But once you move on, you'll be surprised how easily you forget about her. Delete her number, too.

She claims she don’t mess around much but I feel like she trying to make me chase her and I wasn’t before my recent health issues and now I’m definitely not

I would say to not joke around with her anymore. Don't freeze her out but take on a more serious tone with her and start treating her like you would any random male co-worker.
 

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My coworker been sweating this whitegirl for 5 months. Showed us her profile. She cute. But ever since riots she been posting Candace Owens videos and how black people need to be like mlk and be peaceful. We were like “ bro just move on you don’t even want to risk getting a chick like that preggo” but he don’t wanna listen. Lol. He’s young though
 

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Interesting. I didn't know she was in that lifestyle, but for me personally a woman better have her shyt together BEFORE we meet. I'm not doing the hard work on myself only to then have to take the time to raise a chick up. That's not happening, not at this point in my life.

D'Neika treats her husband like a king too. In fact she made a good video I was listening to on the wya back home yesterday:



She even says she ain't no female Derek Jaxn because unlike him she holds both genders accountable.


Ill post you the links to her talking about it tomorrow . She wrote a book too and if I’m not mistaken on her YouTube page she had the story again
 

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Physical beauty is meaningless if she's not beautiful on the inside.

When I get ghosted, it's easy for me to move on. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want me, it's that simple. There are too many women out there to be worrying about one.

She looks good, so really the only thing on your mind is what it would've been like to clap those cheeks. I understand. But once you move on, you'll be surprised how easily you forget about her. Delete her number, too.



I would say to not joke around with her anymore. Don't freeze her out but take on a more serious tone with her and start treating her like you would any random male co-worker.


I’m laid back with everyone I’m a goofy dude but she cool it’s just im really not in a good point for a relationship for my foreseeable future shyt gon he rough
 
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