In terms of women and 'energy' if she isnt damn near begging to see you. She's not into you like that. As a man that used to hurt my ego. I'd tell myself I could change her mind etc.
We as men need to learn to sometimes walk away. Yes, even from chicks we're really into.
Once a man makes his interest known to a woman she's either going to reciprocate it or she's going to go cold. Leaving your messages on read or taking days to get back to you. Meanwhile she has time to be posting on social media or doing other bullshyt that means she has an excuse not to talk to you.
I could have saved myself a lot of time. Just bushing chicks not giving me that good energy. A good woman should put you at ease you shouldn't always feel you have to be impressing them.
Of course the sick thing is most of them when they see you've disappeared and aren't paying them any kind of attention anymore they want to play nice again.
I now love it when a woman expels herself from being considered. Makes my life all the more easier.
I don’t show my full hand when I meet a woman, I get better over time as you get to know me. Many women go all out the first few times you meet them so it’s all down hill after a month or two. So like you said “ trying to win her over “ might work but by the time you do you’ll be like “was this even worth it?” .
THats definitely a lesson I learned over the years. Either she likes you or she don’t. But that’s not your concern.


No grown ass woman is that ignorant. If you're gonna try and finesse at least be slicker than a 10 year old.