Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

The Radiant One

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Yes I made some mistakes but I learned. DO NOT PLAY HARD TO GET. Also females that you have to chase are not worth it even if you get in a relationship it will be all about them. You will not be happy, Don't let IG full you the only plus these chicks have was that they were born pretty.
 

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In terms of women and 'energy' if she isnt damn near begging to see you. She's not into you like that. As a man that used to hurt my ego. I'd tell myself I could change her mind etc.

We as men need to learn to sometimes walk away. Yes, even from chicks we're really into.

Once a man makes his interest known to a woman she's either going to reciprocate it or she's going to go cold. Leaving your messages on read or taking days to get back to you. Meanwhile she has time to be posting on social media or doing other bullshyt that means she has an excuse not to talk to you.

I could have saved myself a lot of time. Just bushing chicks not giving me that good energy. A good woman should put you at ease you shouldn't always feel you have to be impressing them.

Of course the sick thing is most of them when they see you've disappeared and aren't paying them any kind of attention anymore they want to play nice again.

I now love it when a woman expels herself from being considered. Makes my life all the more easier.

I don’t show my full hand when I meet a woman, I get better over time as you get to know me. Many women go all out the first few times you meet them so it’s all down hill after a month or two. So like you said “ trying to win her over “ might work but by the time you do you’ll be like “was this even worth it?” .

THats definitely a lesson I learned over the years. Either she likes you or she don’t. But that’s not your concern.
 

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The nerve of some women bruh.

Facetimed with a random off of Hinge last night. Today she hits me up and says "hey my bday passed, you can get me these to make up for it"

She sends an image of some $1K Gucci boots. I thought she was joking and said sure lemme order them right quick. We chop it up some more and she goes on and on about how we have a great connection and shes been telling her friend about me. This bytch asked for the delivery confirmation number :gucci:

I tell her I was joking she then goes "well why arent you buying them"

I used to be on some treat women with decency garbage, Women and their hypergamous nature is why I dont give af dogging em out anymore.
 

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Yes I made some mistakes but I learned. DO NOT PLAY HARD TO GET. Also females that you have to chase are not worth it even if you get in a relationship it will be all about them. You will not be happy, Don't let IG full you the only plus these chicks have was that they were born pretty.


With experience comes wisdom.

We all have made serious mistakes when it came to women but as you get older it’s like antibodies so to speak. Well you being a dr it’s like how if a patient came in and has this and that symptom you draw on other medical advice that ah it’s this and this is the prescription you should take to clear it up so to speak.

same with women, I messaged and she didn’t reply what do I do ah I remember back in the day when I kept trying to message only to look like a fool
 

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The nerve of some women bruh.

Facetimed with a random off of Hinge last night. Today she hits me up and says "hey my bday passed, you can get me these to make up for it"

She sends an image of some $1K Gucci boots. I thought she was joking and said sure lemme order them right quick. We chop it up some more and she goes on and on about how we have a great connection and shes been telling her friend about me. This bytch asked for the delivery confirmation number :gucci:

I tell her I was joking she then goes "well why arent you buying them"

I used to be on some treat women with decency garbage, Women and their hypergamous nature is why I dont give af dogging em out anymore.
you havnt even met and she asked you for gucci boots?? :dwillhuh:

what kinda simp energy did you let off for her to be that bold
 

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The nerve of some women bruh.

Facetimed with a random off of Hinge last night. Today she hits me up and says "hey my bday passed, you can get me these to make up for it"

She sends an image of some $1K Gucci boots. I thought she was joking and said sure lemme order them right quick. We chop it up some more and she goes on and on about how we have a great connection and shes been telling her friend about me. This bytch asked for the delivery confirmation number :gucci:

I tell her I was joking she then goes "well why arent you buying them"

I used to be on some treat women with decency garbage, Women and their hypergamous nature is why I dont give af dogging em out anymore.

you havnt even met and she asked you for gucci boots?? :dwillhuh:

what kinda simp energy did you let off for her to be that bold

Regardless of what energy you give off some chicks will always try their luck. But I get the impression she just wasn't interested and tried to get rid of dude with that "birthday" request, because no way you don't know that asking a total stranger for $1K Gucci boots is outrageous. :heh: No grown ass woman is that ignorant. If you're gonna try and finesse at least be slicker than a 10 year old.

I would have sent that bytch a link to a porn site disguised as a confirmation number just for fun then blocked her.
 

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Regardless of what energy you give off some chicks will always try their luck. But I get the impression she just wasn't interested and tried to get rid of dude with that "birthday" request, because no way you don't know that asking a total stranger for $1K Gucci boots is outrageous. :heh: No grown ass woman is that ignorant. If you're gonna try and finesse at least be slicker than a 10 year old.

I would have sent that bytch a link to a porn site disguised as a confirmation number just for fun then blocked her.


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The nerve of some women bruh.

Facetimed with a random off of Hinge last night. Today she hits me up and says "hey my bday passed, you can get me these to make up for it"

She sends an image of some $1K Gucci boots. I thought she was joking and said sure lemme order them right quick. We chop it up some more and she goes on and on about how we have a great connection and shes been telling her friend about me. This bytch asked for the delivery confirmation number :gucci:

I tell her I was joking she then goes "well why arent you buying them"

I used to be on some treat women with decency garbage, Women and their hypergamous nature is why I dont give af dogging em out anymore.

i bet she found some dude to pay that 1k
 

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Yeah p*ssy is powerful but you have to realize time is always moving after 30 chicks will still try to play you but you should be the prize and truly believe that.
 
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