Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

DaRealness

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Oh ok, I just heard asset-wise the wife gets huge compensation. I heard some British businessmen complain about it bitterly.

Maybe, but I don't have experience in that dept thankfully. I thought America would have been the worse. That is the same country where in some states they make a man pay child support for kids that aren't even his. That's insane to me. No way I'd get married in America.

TBH I can't really see myself getting married again. My only concern at this point in my life is getting myself together. Many of the women here for the most part aren't worthy of marriage nor are they as high quality as they think they are even though they act like they're super dimes with the way they're so stuck up.

Now if I was living in Panama or Colombia somewhere I'd consider marriage since the women out there are waaaaaaaaaaay more pretty and many times as feminine and socially pleasant to be around unlike these trash UK bytches. I'm not even saying that as some naive tourist either, because their own men vouch for them. There's a reason most of the women I've dealt with were born abroad. The west is done.
 

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I sometimes go back and forth about what a person's dating perception is vs. their reality. Like you can have this idea of the type of woman you'd like to date or settle down with but the reality may be that those type of women are extremely rare or there may not be many women who meet that criteria in your area. So then does one hold out until the exact perfect ones comes along? Technically you could end up holding out forever :huhldup: On the flip, do you aggressively seek these women out? What if you're searching for something that doesn't exist in your reality? :ohhh:

I think as I got older my priorities changed in what I look for in women. While I'll always have a soft spot for an Afro-Colombian librarian or a Palestinian social activist :sadcam: I had to recognize that when a woman is loyal to you and down it's a rare thing and sometimes you have to hold onto that, regardless of the package it comes in (within reason :ufdup:)
 

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But in better news

My decree absolute finally came through. This past weekend.

:blessed:

So I'm now officially divorced.

Take it from me brehs, never get married. No matter how much you love a woman. I got off relatively easy as me and the ex are still amicable.

Thats not the case for a lot of guys.

When mine came through I felt a slight tinge of sadness (for what was, naturally) but at the same time felt very elated.

And yeah at this point I don't really feel marriage is worth it anymore (at least not in the west) and from the statistics more men feel that way than ever before. There's just too much odds against us. #GMB
 

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When mine came through I felt a slight tinge of sadness (for what was, naturally) but at the same time felt very elated.

And yeah at this point I don't really feel marriage is worth it anymore (at least not in the west) and from the statistics more men feel that way than ever before. There's just too much odds against us. #GMB

Yep when she messaged that it had been granted I was taken aback. As this thing has gone on so long I did push it to the back of my mind.

But afterwards, I did think back to how long we were together. And yeah, a bit of sadness. But looking at my life now vs how in reality I was not happy in those last few years we were together, I was also happy looking forward.

And yep modern marriage is not worth it. too many downsides. Sad to say.
 

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But in better news

My decree absolute finally came through. This past weekend.

:blessed:

So I'm now officially divorced.

Take it from me brehs, never get married. No matter how much you love a woman. I got off relatively easy as me and the ex are still amicable.

Thats not the case for a lot of guys.

Good man, best of luck. It seems like you are enjoying single life. I'll hold down the marriage fort as long as I can for you guys:troll:Knock on wood we are good.
 

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Guys....every woman you come across isn’t meant to be fcuked. There are some women that are meant to be chilled with or friends. I know it’s a big thing to not be friends with women but only to try and get sex. I feel it hurts you in the long run in my opinion. There is great value in just simply relaxing and just being open with a woman you’re cool with and don’t want to fcuk.
 

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Guys....every woman you come across isn’t meant to be fcuked. There are some women that are meant to be chilled with or friends. I know it’s a big thing to not be friends with women but only to try and get sex. I feel it hurts you in the long run in my opinion. There is great value in just simply relaxing and just being open with a woman you’re cool with and don’t want to fcuk.
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Guys....every woman you come across isn’t meant to be fcuked. There are some women that are meant to be chilled with or friends. I know it’s a big thing to not be friends with women but only to try and get sex. I feel it hurts you in the long run in my opinion. There is great value in just simply relaxing and just being open with a woman you’re cool with and don’t want to fcuk.
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Guys....every woman you come across isn’t meant to be fcuked. There are some women that are meant to be chilled with or friends. I know it’s a big thing to not be friends with women but only to try and get sex. I feel it hurts you in the long run in my opinion. There is great value in just simply relaxing and just being open with a woman you’re cool with and don’t want to fcuk.

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Guys....every woman you come across isn’t meant to be fcuked. There are some women that are meant to be chilled with or friends. I know it’s a big thing to not be friends with women but only to try and get sex. I feel it hurts you in the long run in my opinion. There is great value in just simply relaxing and just being open with a woman you’re cool with and don’t want to fcuk.
i can agree. quality female friends will give u all the cheat codes for the women you are actually smashing
 

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i can agree. quality female friends will give u all the cheat codes for the women you are actually smashing

you have to be sure that you guys are actually friends though. A lot of times a friend to a woman is a one sided relationship where the guy does everything and she gives nothing.

If you can find a true quality female friend then yeah it can be very beneficial. Is she willing to do things for you that only benefit you? That’s what a friend does.
 

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Guys....every woman you come across isn’t meant to be fcuked. There are some women that are meant to be chilled with or friends. I know it’s a big thing to not be friends with women but only to try and get sex. I feel it hurts you in the long run in my opinion. There is great value in just simply relaxing and just being open with a woman you’re cool with and don’t want to fcuk.
He's right actually. I quit fukking around for that very reason, except it was the other way around I only hurt other people instead of myself. When you hurt people like that it really is the worst feeling ever.
 
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