i gotta hear more about thisSo truuuueeeee
a bytch dumped me so I got a better looking paag. We were coming out of this boba spot and saw her dumping shyt all over my car. Like bytch you dumped me what’s your problem.
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This is real. Just last night I was listening to King Richez and a 35 year old dude called in nearly in tears. He "did the right thing" taking in a single mother and her little brat while he's been on his purpose. Anyway, long story short the bytch and her kid are constantly disrespectful to him and he made the mistake of having a baby with her, so he's not in a position to just have nothing to do with her. He's intelligent and wants to make something out of life and keep on his grind but she keeps dragging him down and it's having a serious effect on his emotional and mental health and he feels trapped. It was sad to hear.
Don't let anyone try and shame you into taking on single mothers because kids in the black community "need role models". fukk all that. The chick wasn't thinking about the community when she opened her legs up to a nikka who was no good, therefore it's not your job to be Mr Clean Up Man. You can still work with the youth without taking on some ungrateful bytch and her kid....and no I don't give a fukk about all the "success stories" either. If other dudes wanna do it, that's on them. The good works of black men are never acknowledged anyway and women very rarely call out other females, this is why I laugh at those lame ass clowns who wear that shirt that says "I'm not the stepfather, I'm the father who stepped up". Yeah, good for you.If they were so righteous and their deeds were recognised, they wouldn't even feel the need to wear that in the first place. The fact they do speaks volumes.
This isn't a rare case either. I know of so many dudes going through it. One of my friends committed suicide back in '04 after taking on a crazy chick with three kids. So it's no joke. Tired of genuinely good men being used and letting themselves get taken advantage of.
The only time I would recommend it is if the both of you are older with grown up kids who have already left home. Other than that, if you're a single man with no children with your shyt together and you're on your grind, you're in a BEAUTIFUL position in life. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise even if you are up in age, because believe me, I'd rather be lonely at times than be dealing with what that dude has to go through everyday. When I was younger, I thought I may have been a family man by now, but it is what it is. Whatever will be, will be. At least no one has any leverage over me and I set the rules as to what I think is right.
just dont deal with single mothers
dont do it!
its not worth it!
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Exactly. You will never get a thank you and subconciously she'll see you as a sucker. I'll be DAMNED if I move a chick and her kid into MY house only for them to be disrespectful to me 24/7. fukk that. I'm sorry for the dude but he went and had a baby with her, now he's trapped. SMH.
Saysumthinfunnymike
VOTE!!!
Single ain't trash, I'm liking it right now anyway. I been working out hard, eating right, I'm teaching myself everything about equities and making money too...
I like it. I miss having someone at night but believe me my days would be far less productive if I was still linked up
I like it. I miss having someone at night but believe me my days would be far less productive if I was still linked up
JOHN.KOOL
Manchester United/Atletico Madrid
Any woman that goes out her way to bring you food you can beat.
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
Get rid of your ego and do better. fukking multiple bytches will help. You have to want to fukk bytches ass oppose to fukking them just to get over your ex.i dont know about ya but the whole "new p*ssy makes u forget about old p*ssy" is not working for mesince i got dumped back in November ive smash 8 girls
i never lost my game
we were together for 3 years so its hard to move on
anyone had a similar issue i have
JOHN.KOOL
Manchester United/Atletico Madrid
JOHN.KOOL
Manchester United/Atletico Madrid
All the things you mentioned in the bold factored in together means you can easily get back in there. Bouncing the same day was a strong move.
JOHN.KOOL
Manchester United/Atletico Madrid
This nikka usually gives good advice but this is very poor.
Making a woman jealous works every single time. The amount of men simping over her doesn't matter whether its 10 or 100, women dont want the men simping over them anyway. Learn the mindset of a woman, the way they think and their jealousy is the easiest thing for you to play off. If the girl walks into work and sees the nikka she just broke up with getting attention from the other women in the office, bringing him lunch and all that her thought process will be 'all these girls seem to like him, how come they are all over him, maybe i shouldn't have broken up with him...'
Women want the guy all the other women want, women are also very uncertain about decisions and flip/flop all the time. Play against these things.
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HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
Any nikka that said being single is trash wears a skirt with a strap on. fukk outta here.
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To me relationships are already hard with just me and a woman. Now to add in a kid, a baby dad and his family all that extra expense? Hell I don't even like the girl im canoodling and cavorting with to talk to exes let alone one who nutted in her raw and she carried his baby for 9 months and gave both to.
In rare situations it works out but for the majority
I remember late last year I started to talk to this chick who had a kid did not know at first
she was fine as hell
and we went out a few times. Not like i was going to get into a relationship or anything. But you know how it works with them no mention of the kid next thing she sending me photos of her and her son 
. How sometimes he cries because he wishes he had a dad
, and how hard it is because the dad doesn't pay child support.
And I told her that's why it's important to choose wisely who you procreate with
I love being single. Especially in these covid times its the goat, no nagging azz chick. Don't have to waste my evenings on the phone or facetime if you don't live with your chick. Don't have to waste my days texting back and forth. Don't have to worry about my girl losing her job or being furloughed and suddenly feeling any type of way and helping her out or having her move in
nah
DaRealness
I think very deeply
To me relationships are already hard with just me and a woman. Now to add in a kid, a baby dad and his family all that extra expense? Hell I don't even like the girl im canoodling and cavorting with to talk to exes let alone one who nutted in her raw and she carried his baby for 9 months and gave both to.
In rare situations it works out but for the majority
I remember late last year I started to talk to this chick who had a kid did not know at first
I at least respect a chick on a dating app who mentions she has kids. The ones I despise are those who deliberately hide the fact. Your kids are supposed to be your pride and joy, so hiding them just so you can get a guy attached speaks volumes about your character.
And no, I'm not spending time doing the work getting myself together only to shack up with a "ready made family". I don't do sloppy seconds. I either have my own kids or none at all.