This is real. Just last night I was listening to King Richez and a
35 year old dude called in nearly in tears. He "did the right thing" taking in a single mother and her little brat while he's been on his purpose. Anyway, long story short the bytch and her kid are constantly disrespectful to him and he made the mistake of having a baby with her

, so he's not in a position to just have nothing to do with her. He's intelligent and wants to make something out of life and keep on his grind but she keeps dragging him down and it's having a serious effect on his emotional and mental health and he feels trapped. It was sad to hear.
Don't let anyone try and shame you into taking on single mothers because kids in the black community "need role models". fukk all that. The chick wasn't thinking about the community when she opened her legs up to a nikka who was no good, therefore it's not your job to be Mr Clean Up Man. You can still work with the youth without taking on some ungrateful bytch and her kid....and no I don't give a fukk about all the "success stories" either. If other dudes wanna do it, that's on them. The good works of black men are never acknowledged anyway and women very rarely call out other females, this is why I laugh at those lame ass clowns who wear that shirt that says "I'm not the stepfather, I'm the father who stepped up". Yeah, good for you.

If they were so righteous and their deeds were recognised, they wouldn't even feel the need to wear that in the first place. The fact they do speaks volumes.
This isn't a rare case either. I know of so many dudes going through it. One of my friends committed suicide back in '04 after taking on a crazy chick with three kids. So it's no joke. Tired of genuinely good men being used and letting themselves get taken advantage of.
The only time I would recommend it is if the both of you are older with grown up kids who have already left home. Other than that, if you're a single man with no children with your shyt together and you're on your grind, you're in a BEAUTIFUL position in life. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise even if you are up in age, because believe me, I'd rather be lonely at times than be dealing with what that dude has to go through everyday. When I was younger, I thought I may have been a family man by now, but it is what it is. Whatever will be, will be. At least no one has any leverage over me and I set the rules as to what I think is right.