African_brehda
Superstar
My girl just hit me with that let's just be friends after a fight 



yep. watch how the people in your life are using this time. if they are sitting waiting for the matrix to reload instead of pivoting to something greater...then prolly need to cut em off
its a big fork in the road for society. women wont be the same. jobs wont be the same. money...sports ....everything......I've already seen too many grown people saying they can't wait until the quarantine is over so they can get back to the bullshyt.
At this stage in my life I just can't fool with anyone who doesn't have any ambition. Unless you been personally sick with covid-19 or had to deal with someone who is, I wanna know how you used your time. I don't mean I'm gonna grill or interrogate anybody, but my tolerance levels for b.s. is low - that goes for friends, chicks you mess with etc anybody. I'm not any kind of super elite, high level dude myself but I've got this book that mentions how you need to radiate value and increase in your aura to get ahead in life and see the results you want. You can't do that shyt if you're just lazing around or hanging with people that do.
This time in human history is unprecedented and we will probably never see anything like this again. If you're not using this time wisely now then you're just a loser basically.
Dating apps are the worst thing u can do right now stay OFFAny of you guys been using Hinge or any other dating apps whilst under lockdown?
I started using it again (been on it on & off for just over a year) and man, it got a bit crazy.
I've started talking to one girl though, she's dope. Even deleted the app because when I find a woman that engages me in that way, I like to focus.
The vibe is lit & looking forward to seeing her once we're allowed outside again.
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Dating apps are the worst thing u can do right now stay OFF
Broke up with my gf after a year... she’s been mad distant and has had an attitude with me for a while. Been fighting alot...
Last week I ask her what she got planned for the weekend, meeting her gf on saturday and her guy friend shes known 15 yrs is comin over for dinner on friday... my gut turned. I been havin bad feelings about dude since the jump
Found out today he slept over...
”Nothing happened”
I went out for a walk... came back and packed my shyt and bounced
You did right. Move on to better things. She is not worth your time.Let me give an update:
Two days after the break up she calls, I dont answer. Next day she calls again, dont answer but answer her text.
ExGf: Plz pick up, I love you and can’t stop thinking about you
Me: Were you thinking about me when u had dude in your bed?
ExGf: He’s a friend, he’s like a girl, there’s nothing going between us, nothing happened.
She goes on in paragraphs:
- she apologized alot
- she has friends sleeping over often (I asked her when I left when was the last time he slept over was, she says 2 yrs ago lol)
- its natural and she sees nothing wrong with it (told her ur not single, u dont make decisions only whats okay in ur mind, especially in this situation)
- she says we never talked about not having sleep overs with friends of the same sex (i told her you should have known this, dont act stupid now, ur mad disrespectful and u fukked up)
- she wants to know why I was so unemotional when I broke up with her
- she wants to meet up and talk and do the break up right, friendly, get closure and honor our relationship (I told her you didnt honor shyt so theres no point in ending shyt honorable, but sure lets meet tonight so you can get closure) (and, probably issa trap lol)
- she says no, she need time to let her emotions settle, lets do it next week (lmao, i said fukk that i aint doin it next week, imma move on with my life)
- I told her thank you for the memories, apologized for my wrongs and wished her luck and happiness
- she writes back, u just gon leave it like this and not do it the right way?
I stopped responding there
The nerve of these bytches man![]()
- she has friends sleeping over often (I asked her when I left when was the last time he slept over was, she says 2 yrs ago lol)
- its natural and she sees nothing wrong with it (told her ur not single, u dont make decisions only whats okay in ur mind, especially in this situation)
- she says we never talked about not having sleep overs with friends of the same sex (i told her you should have known this, dont act stupid now, ur mad disrespectful and u fukked up)
Yup, i'm keeping my circle of chicks small right now.. like 1-2heck most are, just furlough these chicks until normalcy somewhat returns
I would of never responded and left her on read and moved on with my life.Let me give an update:
Two days after the break up she calls, I dont answer. Next day she calls again, dont answer but answer her text.
ExGf: Plz pick up, I love you and can’t stop thinking about you
Me: Were you thinking about me when u had dude in your bed?
ExGf: He’s a friend, he’s like a girl, there’s nothing going between us, nothing happened.
She goes on in paragraphs:
- she apologized alot
- she has friends sleeping over often (I asked her when I left when was the last time he slept over was, she says 2 yrs ago lol)
- its natural and she sees nothing wrong with it (told her ur not single, u dont make decisions only whats okay in ur mind, especially in this situation)
- she says we never talked about not having sleep overs with friends of the same sex (i told her you should have known this, dont act stupid now, ur mad disrespectful and u fukked up)
- she wants to know why I was so unemotional when I broke up with her
- she wants to meet up and talk and do the break up right, friendly, get closure and honor our relationship (I told her you didnt honor shyt so theres no point in ending shyt honorable, but sure lets meet tonight so you can get closure) (and, probably issa trap lol)
- she says no, she need time to let her emotions settle, lets do it next week (lmao, i said fukk that i aint doin it next week, imma move on with my life)
- I told her thank you for the memories, apologized for my wrongs and wished her luck and happiness
- she writes back, u just gon leave it like this and not do it the right way?
I stopped responding there
The nerve of these bytches man![]()
You should have said okMy girl just hit me with that let's just be friends after a fight
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I would of never responded and left her on read and moved on with my life.
These bytches Are fukking RetardedLet me give an update:
Two days after the break up she calls, I dont answer. Next day she calls again, dont answer but answer her text.
ExGf: Plz pick up, I love you and can’t stop thinking about you
Me: Were you thinking about me when u had dude in your bed?
ExGf: He’s a friend, he’s like a girl, there’s nothing going between us, nothing happened.
She goes on in paragraphs:
- she apologized alot
- she has friends sleeping over often (I asked her when I left when was the last time he slept over was, she says 2 yrs ago lol)
- its natural and she sees nothing wrong with it (told her ur not single, u dont make decisions only whats okay in ur mind, especially in this situation)
- she says we never talked about not having sleep overs with friends of the same sex (i told her you should have known this, dont act stupid now, ur mad disrespectful and u fukked up)
- she wants to know why I was so unemotional when I broke up with her
- she wants to meet up and talk and do the break up right, friendly, get closure and honor our relationship (I told her you didnt honor shyt so theres no point in ending shyt honorable, but sure lets meet tonight so you can get closure) (and, probably issa trap lol)
- she says no, she need time to let her emotions settle, lets do it next week (lmao, i said fukk that i aint doin it next week, imma move on with my life)
- I told her thank you for the memories, apologized for my wrongs and wished her luck and happiness
- she writes back, u just gon leave it like this and not do it the right way?
I stopped responding there
The nerve of these bytches man![]()