Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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yep. watch how the people in your life are using this time. if they are sitting waiting for the matrix to reload instead of pivoting to something greater...then prolly need to cut em off

I've already seen too many grown people saying they can't wait until the quarantine is over so they can get back to the bullshyt.

At this stage in my life I just can't fool with anyone who doesn't have any ambition. Unless you been personally sick with covid-19 or had to deal with someone who is, I wanna know how you used your time. I don't mean I'm gonna grill or interrogate anybody, but my tolerance levels for b.s. is low - that goes for friends, chicks you mess with etc anybody. I'm not any kind of super elite, high level dude myself but I've got this book that mentions how you need to radiate value and increase in your aura to get ahead in life and see the results you want. You can't do that shyt if you're just lazing around or hanging with people that do.

This time in human history is unprecedented and we will probably never see anything like this again. If you're not using this time wisely now then you're just a loser basically.
 

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I've already seen too many grown people saying they can't wait until the quarantine is over so they can get back to the bullshyt.

At this stage in my life I just can't fool with anyone who doesn't have any ambition. Unless you been personally sick with covid-19 or had to deal with someone who is, I wanna know how you used your time. I don't mean I'm gonna grill or interrogate anybody, but my tolerance levels for b.s. is low - that goes for friends, chicks you mess with etc anybody. I'm not any kind of super elite, high level dude myself but I've got this book that mentions how you need to radiate value and increase in your aura to get ahead in life and see the results you want. You can't do that shyt if you're just lazing around or hanging with people that do.

This time in human history is unprecedented and we will probably never see anything like this again. If you're not using this time wisely now then you're just a loser basically.
its a big fork in the road for society. women wont be the same. jobs wont be the same. money...sports ....everything......

some people will submit even harder to the game and some of us are seeing the guts of the operations and vow to never go back.

i was tellin someone the other day.......look at where someone finds their validation and what do they have to lose via this crisis and you can tell alot about them and if you should listen to them.

stupid people will get you killed this decade. only move with your tribe
 

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Any of you guys been using Hinge or any other dating apps whilst under lockdown?

I started using it again (been on it on & off for just over a year) and man, it got a bit crazy.

I've started talking to one girl though, she's dope. Even deleted the app because when I find a woman that engages me in that way, I like to focus.

The vibe is lit & looking forward to seeing her once we're allowed outside again.

:wow:
Dating apps are the worst thing u can do right now stay OFF
 

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Broke up with my gf after a year... she’s been mad distant and has had an attitude with me for a while. Been fighting alot...

Last week I ask her what she got planned for the weekend, meeting her gf on saturday and her guy friend shes known 15 yrs is comin over for dinner on friday... my gut turned. I been havin bad feelings about dude since the jump

Found out today he slept over... :snoop:

”Nothing happened”

I went out for a walk... came back and packed my shyt and bounced

Let me give an update:

Two days after the break up she calls, I dont answer. Next day she calls again, dont answer but answer her text.

ExGf: Plz pick up, I love you and can’t stop thinking about you

Me: Were you thinking about me when u had dude in your bed?

ExGf: He’s a friend, he’s like a girl, there’s nothing going between us, nothing happened.

She goes on in paragraphs:
- she apologized alot
- she has friends sleeping over often (I asked her when I left when was the last time he slept over was, she says 2 yrs ago lol)
- its natural and she sees nothing wrong with it (told her ur not single, u dont make decisions only whats okay in ur mind, especially in this situation)
- she says we never talked about not having sleep overs with friends of the same sex (i told her you should have known this, dont act stupid now, ur mad disrespectful and u fukked up)
- she wants to know why I was so unemotional when I broke up with her :mindblown:

- she wants to meet up and talk and do the break up right, friendly, get closure and honor our relationship (I told her you didnt honor shyt so theres no point in ending shyt honorable, but sure lets meet tonight so you can get closure) (and, probably issa trap lol)
- she says no, she need time to let her emotions settle, lets do it next week (lmao, i said fukk that i aint doin it next week, imma move on with my life)
- I told her thank you for the memories, apologized for my wrongs and wished her luck and happiness
- she writes back, u just gon leave it like this and not do it the right way?

I stopped responding there

The nerve of these bytches man :dead:
 

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Let me give an update:

Two days after the break up she calls, I dont answer. Next day she calls again, dont answer but answer her text.

ExGf: Plz pick up, I love you and can’t stop thinking about you

Me: Were you thinking about me when u had dude in your bed?

ExGf: He’s a friend, he’s like a girl, there’s nothing going between us, nothing happened.

She goes on in paragraphs:
- she apologized alot
- she has friends sleeping over often (I asked her when I left when was the last time he slept over was, she says 2 yrs ago lol)
- its natural and she sees nothing wrong with it (told her ur not single, u dont make decisions only whats okay in ur mind, especially in this situation)
- she says we never talked about not having sleep overs with friends of the same sex (i told her you should have known this, dont act stupid now, ur mad disrespectful and u fukked up)
- she wants to know why I was so unemotional when I broke up with her :mindblown:

- she wants to meet up and talk and do the break up right, friendly, get closure and honor our relationship (I told her you didnt honor shyt so theres no point in ending shyt honorable, but sure lets meet tonight so you can get closure) (and, probably issa trap lol)
- she says no, she need time to let her emotions settle, lets do it next week (lmao, i said fukk that i aint doin it next week, imma move on with my life)
- I told her thank you for the memories, apologized for my wrongs and wished her luck and happiness
- she writes back, u just gon leave it like this and not do it the right way?

I stopped responding there

The nerve of these bytches man :dead:
You did right. Move on to better things. She is not worth your time.
 

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- she has friends sleeping over often (I asked her when I left when was the last time he slept over was, she says 2 yrs ago lol)
- its natural and she sees nothing wrong with it (told her ur not single, u dont make decisions only whats okay in ur mind, especially in this situation)
- she says we never talked about not having sleep overs with friends of the same sex (i told her you should have known this, dont act stupid now, ur mad disrespectful and u fukked up)
:francis:Women man.....
 

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My coworker asked me yesterday a question for her "best friend" why a guy would back out of the opportunity for a friends with benefits situation with a virgin.

I said either he can't handle her "best friend" (scared) or he doesn't want the title because even FWB is its own "title". What The Coli say?

P.S.: I knew she was talking about herself though. :mjgrin:
 

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Let me give an update:

Two days after the break up she calls, I dont answer. Next day she calls again, dont answer but answer her text.

ExGf: Plz pick up, I love you and can’t stop thinking about you

Me: Were you thinking about me when u had dude in your bed?

ExGf: He’s a friend, he’s like a girl, there’s nothing going between us, nothing happened.

She goes on in paragraphs:
- she apologized alot
- she has friends sleeping over often (I asked her when I left when was the last time he slept over was, she says 2 yrs ago lol)
- its natural and she sees nothing wrong with it (told her ur not single, u dont make decisions only whats okay in ur mind, especially in this situation)
- she says we never talked about not having sleep overs with friends of the same sex (i told her you should have known this, dont act stupid now, ur mad disrespectful and u fukked up)
- she wants to know why I was so unemotional when I broke up with her :mindblown:

- she wants to meet up and talk and do the break up right, friendly, get closure and honor our relationship (I told her you didnt honor shyt so theres no point in ending shyt honorable, but sure lets meet tonight so you can get closure) (and, probably issa trap lol)
- she says no, she need time to let her emotions settle, lets do it next week (lmao, i said fukk that i aint doin it next week, imma move on with my life)
- I told her thank you for the memories, apologized for my wrongs and wished her luck and happiness
- she writes back, u just gon leave it like this and not do it the right way?

I stopped responding there

The nerve of these bytches man :dead:
I would of never responded and left her on read and moved on with my life.
 

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Some of these women have the tendency to save all messages so that when shyt fall apart they can “expose” you:wow:

Had an old ting I was in love with. Did everything for her ungrateful self. Luckily for me I saw the play she drew up and went ghost before it was too late :wow:

I manned up and pulled 2 baddies and ended up dropping shorty like a bad habit. Come to find out she was making up all types of stories and lies about me because she was “hurt”. Brehs she was so hurt she even attempted to threaten my life by stating “I told the *** that you were disrespecting there gang. Be safe bytch”

Till this day I still got the screenshots of every threat :wow:
 

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Let me give an update:

Two days after the break up she calls, I dont answer. Next day she calls again, dont answer but answer her text.

ExGf: Plz pick up, I love you and can’t stop thinking about you

Me: Were you thinking about me when u had dude in your bed?

ExGf: He’s a friend, he’s like a girl, there’s nothing going between us, nothing happened.

She goes on in paragraphs:
- she apologized alot
- she has friends sleeping over often (I asked her when I left when was the last time he slept over was, she says 2 yrs ago lol)
- its natural and she sees nothing wrong with it (told her ur not single, u dont make decisions only whats okay in ur mind, especially in this situation)
- she says we never talked about not having sleep overs with friends of the same sex (i told her you should have known this, dont act stupid now, ur mad disrespectful and u fukked up)
- she wants to know why I was so unemotional when I broke up with her :mindblown:

- she wants to meet up and talk and do the break up right, friendly, get closure and honor our relationship (I told her you didnt honor shyt so theres no point in ending shyt honorable, but sure lets meet tonight so you can get closure) (and, probably issa trap lol)
- she says no, she need time to let her emotions settle, lets do it next week (lmao, i said fukk that i aint doin it next week, imma move on with my life)
- I told her thank you for the memories, apologized for my wrongs and wished her luck and happiness
- she writes back, u just gon leave it like this and not do it the right way?

I stopped responding there

The nerve of these bytches man :dead:
These bytches Are fukking Retarded :what:
 
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