DaRealness
I think very deeply
I hope I'm preaching to the choir at this point, but here's a couple of videos in case anyone reading this thread still suffers from Nice Guy Syndrome.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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fkthisgaysite
Banned
Any females do that whole played out thing wit videogames wit yall?
Yknow...you go to the vg section of walmart and she rolls her eyes, comments while you playing, that lil shyt.
I cant explain what 'that' is but its beyond corny. Its like some females feel like they have to act like that over games.
bytch at least my hand is on a controller and not another woman. And before I get quoted...I obviously wouldnt choose tha damn game over a broad. Ion even be on tha shyt all like that, which is why I'm venting on here.
Yknow...you go to the vg section of walmart and she rolls her eyes, comments while you playing, that lil shyt.
I cant explain what 'that' is but its beyond corny. Its like some females feel like they have to act like that over games.
bytch at least my hand is on a controller and not another woman. And before I get quoted...I obviously wouldnt choose tha damn game over a broad. Ion even be on tha shyt all like that, which is why I'm venting on here.
young yeesh
All Star
Just make sure you don’t lose a grip of your hobbies that make you you. Don’t alter what you do just to cater for her. If you make her your centerpiece and not an addition, she gon end up rolling her eyes at yo ass
Let that whining go thorough one ear and out the other
fkthisgaysite
Banned
Aw hell nawl...not now, not ever. For every broad who cares about me playin tha game, theres a broad who will SMD WHILE I play tha game...lol
Mickey Kane
All Star
Any of you guys been using Hinge or any other dating apps whilst under lockdown?
I started using it again (been on it on & off for just over a year) and man, it got a bit crazy.
I've started talking to one girl though, she's dope. Even deleted the app because when I find a woman that engages me in that way, I like to focus.
The vibe is lit & looking forward to seeing her once we're allowed outside again.
I started using it again (been on it on & off for just over a year) and man, it got a bit crazy.
I've started talking to one girl though, she's dope. Even deleted the app because when I find a woman that engages me in that way, I like to focus.
The vibe is lit & looking forward to seeing her once we're allowed outside again.
i have an issue with my gf with that tbh
i have a low tolerance for bullshyt and stupidity. but it just causes so many emotions from her and arguments i dont even know if we can be with each other at this point
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Then let her go. The point is, life's too short to put with people who can't respect your boundaries.
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
Nah not messing with any dating appsAny of you guys been using Hinge or any other dating apps whilst under lockdown?
I started using it again (been on it on & off for just over a year) and man, it got a bit crazy.
I've started talking to one girl though, she's dope. Even deleted the app because when I find a woman that engages me in that way, I like to focus.
The vibe is lit & looking forward to seeing her once we're allowed outside again.
Mickey Kane
All Star
You already talking to a woman/women from pre-COVID?
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
Yea i already had a lil roster pre-COVID
Mickey Kane
All Star
Man, you trying to make me look a fool out here, this is gonna be embarassing for me. Aight...
About 6 years ago, we met, she was 17, I was 19. Approached to get her number but she had a man but gave me the number anyway. Red flag #1 , but she young so whatever.
Anyway, guess I was in the Friend Zone for a couple years but it was cool. Ended up going going to same university too which was crazy & we'd hang out sometimes. I was still tryna get at her though & it got to a point where she was like, 'STOP'. I didn't like the way she said it & we stopped talking for just under a year. Anyway, fast forward to I'd say 2010 & we're cool again, more comfortable around each other. She's still with her man, I got my girl now. Deep down, I still wanna smash but for me, the friendship became 'genuine' by that point.
2011, June, she hollas at me, talking about she thinks her man is cheating. I'm like, "fukk" because a part of me sees that window of opportunity slowly opening & I feel guilty right. So I actually help her out her man by telling her not to rush to a decision, hear him out, get evidence, etc. I got my own girl, that r'ship was on its last legs & I felt uneasy about my urge to make my own move....
Anyway, she breaks up with her dude & I end up breaking up with my girl. More to do with the fact my girl just weren't on my level but the friend definitely help spark that break up.
So within a week of us ending our relationships, we start messing with each other. I look back & can admit I was a rebound but she'd say because of our history, I meant more, blah, blah, etc.
Anyway, now I start catching feelings. My logic is, we got the friendship. We got the sex. We like each other, obviously, we en route to something official.
She starts feeling a bit trapped, etc. Can't blame her, she just got out of a 5 year relationship. So we break it off. I ask her if she's ok with me doing my own thing. She says yes. Like an idiot, I thought it was straightforward.
So cool, lemme get back to doing me & we try to go back to our friendship. I'm telling her about other girls. Eventually, she telling me about dudes she dating. I'm feeling salty because I'm looking at her like, "Wasn't the reason we broke up because you said you didn't wanna be seeing anybody?". At the same time, she getting jealous over me seeing with other women? Lol. Between October 2011 to literally, June this year, a lot of back & forths occur. She'd try to get me jealous by flirting with other dudes in front me. I'm doing similar shyt, SMH.
But she still like, "I don't want to complicate things further so let's not do anything."
Aight. Anyway, recently, she thought I was trying to get at her girl. Which I wasn't, but had a fight over that. I'm at the club 2 Saturdays ago, I knew she was gonna be there so I tried to squash it because you know, I love(d) this girl. As a friend before anything so talked to her to make sure things are cool. But then I remembered her talking to a male acquaintance of mine which I didn't like but you didn't want to make a scene.
So I holla at him, just to see what's good. And he's acting surprised because he's asking me, 'Breh, why you getting aggy for? That ain't your girl & she behaving like that with a COUPLE of fellas within the scene..."
When I tell you I was shell-shocked. To make it worse, breh told me she denied anything that we had together. To be real, it was never official, but too many things happened & were said for anyone to say we never had a thing. So I'm looking at it like, you flirting with n*ggaz within my circle, you denying our thing, you being hypocrite because you wiled out at the thought of me getting at your girl...
Like, shyt still ain't registered. LOL.
But the bulk of all this pain took place in December, I'm more than ready to move on but to think of all the time, emotion, resources wasted on this girl annoys me.
Yoooooooo...
Time FLIES
I was going through it
Man, this thing called life. Lots of bumps on the road here, but damn...what a journey.
Mickey Kane
All Star
Me and ol' girl still 'cool'. She was a necessary chapter in this book. I took some crucial lessons on board and now we're here.
It was just interesting reading that back to myself 8 years later and just thinking about my love life since and this shyt seems SO minor now.
I guess that's the thing about hindsight, it's 20/20. Man, that type of situation happening now, I'm dealing with it so smoothly
