Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Fellas do ya homework!!!

I shot my shot a week ago at this mixed bytch....vibe was cool...didnt really blow her phone...


Creeped on her twitter....and saw all the clues to the game...

Her likes
Mood
She made a tweet about me(good one)

She has no clue i know her twitter...

Cons?? She dont wana meet until may 1st bcuz corona
 

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What does it mean if your girl mad at you and left the house for a week, she still talks to you if you call but she doesn’t initiate any contact? She also won’t answer any questions in regards to the status of the relationship? Questions Like if y’all are still together or single.

Yeah you doing tooo much...

She leaves you dont even bother calling
 

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Don’t let her talk to you about her issues or anything else for that matter. fukk her issues. Let her take care of them. Take care of yourself playa. Women will keep you around just in case whatever that have planned don’t work out. Women don’t just leave you. That shyt has been planned for a minute. You just found out about it.

You share that girl :francis:

Listen to this man, don’t let nobody leave you hanging like that. She checked out a long time ago. May sting but you need to move on. If she say it’s a phase or she going through something, good. Do it without you.

StephIsCold is exactly who you need rn
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He’s broken your situation down 1000 times i don’t even know which video to suggest to you

Yeah you doing tooo much...

She leaves you dont even bother calling

This is the second time she’s done this, any time there’s a disagreement she just leaves and go silent. Both times were over social media and how she move on it.. disrespect. Claims I overreact and she does nothing.

We’ve been living together for almost a year. She took most of her clothes that she wear on a day to day basis. She left some clothes and things here. Her T.V and other things as well.

I have no problem moving on. What if she tries to come back? She still has a key to my crib. She even comes by while I’m at work to grab a couple things as she needs them. Doesn’t want to see me though.
Just a lot of games... no answers or closure.

closest thing to an answer I’ve received was, “I don’t know what I want to do” or “I don’t want to do this with you right now” :francis:

It’s been a week. :yeshrug:
 

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This is the second time she’s done this, any time there’s a disagreement she just leaves and go silent. Both times were over social media and how she move on it.. disrespect. Claims I overreact and she does nothing.

We’ve been living together for almost a year. She took most of her clothes that she wear on a day to day basis. She left some clothes and things here. Her T.V and other things as well.

I have no problem moving on. What if she tries to come back? She still has a key to my crib. She even comes by while I’m at work to grab a couple things as she needs them. Doesn’t want to see me though.
Just a lot of games... no answers or closure.

closest thing to an answer I’ve received was, “I don’t know what I want to do” or “I don’t want to do this with you right now” :francis:

It’s been a week. :yeshrug:


You dont make her feel any sort of pressure or anxiety...she know she can play mind games and have your head fukked up.
 

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This is the second time she’s done this, any time there’s a disagreement she just leaves and go silent. Both times were over social media and how she move on it.. disrespect. Claims I overreact and she does nothing.

We’ve been living together for almost a year. She took most of her clothes that she wear on a day to day basis. She left some clothes and things here. Her T.V and other things as well.

I have no problem moving on. What if she tries to come back? She still has a key to my crib. She even comes by while I’m at work to grab a couple things as she needs them. Doesn’t want to see me though.
Just a lot of games... no answers or closure.

closest thing to an answer I’ve received was, “I don’t know what I want to do” or “I don’t want to do this with you right now” :francis:

It’s been a week. :yeshrug:
go to wherever she’s at and pick up your keys. She don’t need to be coming in and out of your crib. And fukk closure, you don’t need it. You need to put yourself back together. Cut of all communication. If you are going to cry you do that shyt in your home or whatever. Don’t ever let her see you hurt. You go out and improve yourself.

Your problem is is your ego and insecurity. You don’t think you can get a better chick than her. Trust me you can and you will. Chalk that time y’all spent together as a lesson learned. Don’t ever let a chick knock you off your square. Broads like to leave nikkas feeling uncertain. You are the man. Take charge, take control of your life.


It’s about you playa. You’ll soon realize they bring nothing to the table but p*ssy and issues. Your happiness is paramount.
 

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This is the second time she’s done this, any time there’s a disagreement she just leaves and go silent. Both times were over social media and how she move on it.. disrespect. Claims I overreact and she does nothing.

We’ve been living together for almost a year. She took most of her clothes that she wear on a day to day basis. She left some clothes and things here. Her T.V and other things as well.

I have no problem moving on. What if she tries to come back? She still has a key to my crib. She even comes by while I’m at work to grab a couple things as she needs them. Doesn’t want to see me though.
Just a lot of games... no answers or closure.

closest thing to an answer I’ve received was, “I don’t know what I want to do” or “I don’t want to do this with you right now” :francis:

It’s been a week. :yeshrug:

In my opinion this is a classic bullshytter. You all in on the union but she flaky. She flake more than Kellogg. Cut off her access and take your keys then get new locks. This woman is confused and I’m almost 90% there is some other dikk involved. She love social media? Classic self absorbed mfs love that over real world relationships. I don’t date anybody who always on that shyt and here’s why: she will always be trolling for pole and dudes will be dudes. Looking for p*ssy. They shooting their shots all day long. Everybody can’t miss I don’t care how much a woman lie, she will talk to somebody and the same goes for me. Once you get an opening then I’m not trying to be your buddy, I’m trying to hang some dikk up your ass. That’s why I don’t like it. Too invasive. Like I said, mad disrespectful and always dodging your questions or how you feeling is a sign this person doesn’t care anything for you. I’d gather her shyt myself and made sure I’d either drop it off or tell her to come get it. It’s something better out there for you if you trying to be in a relationship. Just my opinion.
 

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One thing men need to develop for any area of life is the art of bouncing back and resilience. Women and their bullshyt shouldn't even be your focus now.

Look, if a chick doesn't care to give you an answer.....then THAT'S your answer. If she doesn't care enough to give you "closure", she doesn't care about you and that's all you need to know. Females flip flop and change like the weather. One minute they're cool with you, next minute they're acting funny for no reason at all.

Life is too short and fragile to try figuring it out. Maybe they do it because grass is green or because cayenne pepper goes well with scrambled eggs or because 2 + 2 = 4. It could be anything. So what? It's a harsh reality but the only thing you have is your mind and that's something you need to safeguard.

I don't have the energy nor the desire to deal with bullshyt. My ex wife messaged me a few days ago on some "I hope you don't mind me texting you", using this coronavirus epidemic as an excuse to be in contact and she was one who acted just like that...years ago didn't wanna give me a straight answer and left to go back to her city while I picked up the pieces. Now ever since I initiated the divorce and no longer care to remain in contact, she finds her tongue. Last time she messaged me was two years ago. But the point is it's interesting how they come out the woodworks and try and wiggle their way back in once you're indifferent and have moved on. Five years ago I would have been triggered, now I'm not interested at all in what goes on with her.

This is get-your-shyt-together time. It sucks being indoors most of the day, but apart from all the sickness and death surrounding the world, it's the perfect time to work on yourself and do the the things you need to do to make yourself a better man. I've learned a few things about myself recently and have had to start ironing out some flaws.

If some dumb ass dude wants to let a chick waste his time just so she can get attention, then that's on him. fukk all the nonsense. Once all of this coronavirus shyt dies down, then you'll be better equipped to deal with women and life in general and make better choices (if you've used this time wisely).
 
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What do you hit them with when they say they're single and not searching?

Its a common shyt test. Just ignore and talk more about yourself, and your aspirations, if you've been doing at least 20% better than any dude she's let fukk, than she'll realize shes still a loser, and you're a golden god. They'll never say this of course, but most women are basic, even the smart ones. Just be great on your own and drop the agenda of wanting sex with her. Be cool, knowledgeable and be gone. She's not worth your time.
 

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Any brehs in here shoot their shot with a female at the job i’m thinking about doing it with a chick i work with


Is she a milf? Moms usually keep quiet about anything like that. But even then, I don't fukk where I eat. Like social media, bytches see anything out of the norm, and they want to ask questions or demand some kind of relationship.
 

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Is it me or is it hard to carry on conversations with girls when its just texting. I'm just so bored and lose interest.

Any of you know any good source material that teaches you how to effectively engage with girls your're messaging?


Just seems like you're not that interested and or interesting. You could just be an introvert who enjoys face to face conversation. But if you can't have fun via text, wherein you have all the time in the world to look up info, be witty, tell stories, etc. Then its definitely just you. I do both just fine, and women have responded very well to both (hence the nudes), but it could be that you're just not that into any of it.
 
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