Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Playa with a Passport
Still on my fast breh and loving it
Alfie story is common, as man you have to read the signs if a girl is into you and them suddenly go cold 99 percent of the time she found someone else or someone else is showing her interest. They will lie and say they are busy with work or school, or tired etc but all lies
The key is as a man to cut them off ASAP as Soon as it happens
Delete the number and cease conversation
Alfie story is common, as man you have to read the signs if a girl is into you and them suddenly go cold 99 percent of the time she found someone else or someone else is showing her interest. They will lie and say they are busy with work or school, or tired etc but all lies
The key is as a man to cut them off ASAP as Soon as it happens
Delete the number and cease conversation
Am I the only one who when I get in an arguement w/ my gf even if its my fault, I never going calling or texting her, I wait until she makes contact with me to discuss what happened. Sometimes I might go a couple days w/o talking to my girl, but I want to get the point across to my girl or any woman for that matter that my life goes on
"I am now 32 years of age and have been in the Peter Pan role for several years. For the Men out there that believe that:
- Making over 100k/year
- Over 6 feet tall
- Muscular
- Intelligent
- Socially skilled
- Aloof
- Attractive
Is a recipe for success with Women, I’ve got some bad news for you. While all of these will undoubtedly raise your chances for success with Women in your lifetime, you will not be immune to the hypergamous betrayals, near constant-shyt tests and undue male pressures being applied. I am living proof and I have several social circles of Alpha men with the same stories.
I was a late bloomer who couldn’t pay a woman for a date high school, ditto for college. I learned early on that my best chances for success in life was to focus on myself first, and let everything else fall into place. My looks had not ‘blossomed’ fully yet as I filled out physically probably around my early 20′s. I did not have the confidence in school to push myself into the athletic ring of talents (and bask in the unlimited access to p*ssy that path promised), despite being physical gifted. I had a chaotic family life that took up most of my attention, trying to keep my Mother and Father from killing each other (literally at the end).
By my mid-20′s all my hard work started to pay off. I had found a full time job after school and was excelling, my student debt was paid off and I had worked 24/7 to physically put myself into the proper shape I always wanted to have. This was made more difficult due to knee injuries from weights / sports when I was younger. As I physically became stronger, as I excelled at work in social and technical situations, my confidence in my own abilities went parabolic over time. I had put myself through school on my own, got a job on my own and moved up, rehabilitated my knees as well as start a small business on my own. All of which I was told I could not accomplish by Men and Women alike. Now, something really, really interesting started to take form during this time: Women started to give a shyt about me.
It was for all the wrong reasons (to me), my job (status), my wealth (status), my physical appearance, all aspects about who I am as a Man that I found shallow when compared to my views on the World, my ethics and morals, my goals as a Man and a person, you know, the shyt that makes me ME and not M3, or Deiti or every other good Man here with his own story and destiny.
I could regale you Gentlemen all night about the Red Pill truths about human nature I learned on my own, painfully, but I see this as more of a constructive meeting place for Men (and Women) to discuss ideas for moving forward. In my experiences a Man’s worth to a Woman starts and ends with his ability to provide, period. If you are providing for her financially and emotionally (Beta) but are not her ideal version of a Man (Alpha) in bed, or in social situations, or you no longer stack up against Rick, her new cube mate at the office who sky dives every other weekend and constantly hits on her, you’re fukked. She will cheat on you eventually, you never had a chance likely.
Who cares how much money you make Gentlemen? I’ve made well more than the average joe, work out daily, eat healthy, constantly push to improve myself spiritually, financially and socially and get compared to Ryan Phillippe in the looks department. Yes, having money, looks, social awareness and dominance all help, but it won’t change the outcome in the end unless you are constantly gaming your Woman. There is ALWAYS another Man out there that is not sick of your Woman’s bullshyt, and she knows this too. At this point, after witnessing the nature of Women (good, bad and the ugly) up close, I have no further illusions about them, at all. I have done EVERYTHING asked by the female populace and it was never enough. What is more, on several occasions in my youth, when I did / gave everything my Woman told me she wanted…
I Lost Everything.
I’ll repeat that for some of you Gentlemen that are new to the club.
Every single time I listened to / gave a Woman exactly she said she wanted, I lost everything.
I’m no fool, I have called countless Women out on this behaviour, to me and other Men. You’ll quickly learn that most (not all) Women cannot be reasoned with. Logic versus Emotion is one of the most fruitless endeavours a rational Male can engage in. Cut your losses. Virtually every teaching in the PUA handbook not only works, it is necessary. As a final note:
The most success I have enjoyed in my young life is when I lived life for myself, and yes, I still managed to include other people in it and treat them damn well, specifically Women. When I spinned plates, laughed-off most shyt tests and generally lived an aloof ‘devil-may-care’ lifestyle, I was at my happiest. Women also respected me more than they did when I was in a long term relationship with them.
The problem was that I listened to what Women SAID and not to what they DID. My fault. Do yourself a favour and learn from each other. I’ve had a successful life, all things considered, and the wisdom that has been imparted upon me via Dalrock, Rollo, CH, Mark Minter, M3, YaReally, etc, has been paramount. I could give you some stories on how I got what I wanted out of some very difficult Women in the past using PUA, even when I didn’t know about PUA (example: I am naturally aloof and often do not put a lot of importance on the outcome of personal relationships with Woman, partially because I know I can find another with relative ease). You cannot imagine the FREE sex Woman would beg me to take from them simply out of my aloof ‘you want to pull this shyt with me, there’s the door, I don’t care how many other Men you have orbiting you, my place, my rules, my bed’.
I cannot fault a single Man in 2012 for not marrying. It is a bad deal and most Men now (including myself) have opted out of pure necessity.
Survival > Marriage.
Good luck to you all"
Source: In Search of the Peter Pan Manboy. | Dalrock
- Making over 100k/year
- Over 6 feet tall
- Muscular
- Intelligent
- Socially skilled
- Aloof
- Attractive
Is a recipe for success with Women, I’ve got some bad news for you. While all of these will undoubtedly raise your chances for success with Women in your lifetime, you will not be immune to the hypergamous betrayals, near constant-shyt tests and undue male pressures being applied. I am living proof and I have several social circles of Alpha men with the same stories.
I was a late bloomer who couldn’t pay a woman for a date high school, ditto for college. I learned early on that my best chances for success in life was to focus on myself first, and let everything else fall into place. My looks had not ‘blossomed’ fully yet as I filled out physically probably around my early 20′s. I did not have the confidence in school to push myself into the athletic ring of talents (and bask in the unlimited access to p*ssy that path promised), despite being physical gifted. I had a chaotic family life that took up most of my attention, trying to keep my Mother and Father from killing each other (literally at the end).
By my mid-20′s all my hard work started to pay off. I had found a full time job after school and was excelling, my student debt was paid off and I had worked 24/7 to physically put myself into the proper shape I always wanted to have. This was made more difficult due to knee injuries from weights / sports when I was younger. As I physically became stronger, as I excelled at work in social and technical situations, my confidence in my own abilities went parabolic over time. I had put myself through school on my own, got a job on my own and moved up, rehabilitated my knees as well as start a small business on my own. All of which I was told I could not accomplish by Men and Women alike. Now, something really, really interesting started to take form during this time: Women started to give a shyt about me.
It was for all the wrong reasons (to me), my job (status), my wealth (status), my physical appearance, all aspects about who I am as a Man that I found shallow when compared to my views on the World, my ethics and morals, my goals as a Man and a person, you know, the shyt that makes me ME and not M3, or Deiti or every other good Man here with his own story and destiny.
I could regale you Gentlemen all night about the Red Pill truths about human nature I learned on my own, painfully, but I see this as more of a constructive meeting place for Men (and Women) to discuss ideas for moving forward. In my experiences a Man’s worth to a Woman starts and ends with his ability to provide, period. If you are providing for her financially and emotionally (Beta) but are not her ideal version of a Man (Alpha) in bed, or in social situations, or you no longer stack up against Rick, her new cube mate at the office who sky dives every other weekend and constantly hits on her, you’re fukked. She will cheat on you eventually, you never had a chance likely.
Who cares how much money you make Gentlemen? I’ve made well more than the average joe, work out daily, eat healthy, constantly push to improve myself spiritually, financially and socially and get compared to Ryan Phillippe in the looks department. Yes, having money, looks, social awareness and dominance all help, but it won’t change the outcome in the end unless you are constantly gaming your Woman. There is ALWAYS another Man out there that is not sick of your Woman’s bullshyt, and she knows this too. At this point, after witnessing the nature of Women (good, bad and the ugly) up close, I have no further illusions about them, at all. I have done EVERYTHING asked by the female populace and it was never enough. What is more, on several occasions in my youth, when I did / gave everything my Woman told me she wanted…
I Lost Everything.
I’ll repeat that for some of you Gentlemen that are new to the club.
Every single time I listened to / gave a Woman exactly she said she wanted, I lost everything.
I’m no fool, I have called countless Women out on this behaviour, to me and other Men. You’ll quickly learn that most (not all) Women cannot be reasoned with. Logic versus Emotion is one of the most fruitless endeavours a rational Male can engage in. Cut your losses. Virtually every teaching in the PUA handbook not only works, it is necessary. As a final note:
The most success I have enjoyed in my young life is when I lived life for myself, and yes, I still managed to include other people in it and treat them damn well, specifically Women. When I spinned plates, laughed-off most shyt tests and generally lived an aloof ‘devil-may-care’ lifestyle, I was at my happiest. Women also respected me more than they did when I was in a long term relationship with them.
The problem was that I listened to what Women SAID and not to what they DID. My fault. Do yourself a favour and learn from each other. I’ve had a successful life, all things considered, and the wisdom that has been imparted upon me via Dalrock, Rollo, CH, Mark Minter, M3, YaReally, etc, has been paramount. I could give you some stories on how I got what I wanted out of some very difficult Women in the past using PUA, even when I didn’t know about PUA (example: I am naturally aloof and often do not put a lot of importance on the outcome of personal relationships with Woman, partially because I know I can find another with relative ease). You cannot imagine the FREE sex Woman would beg me to take from them simply out of my aloof ‘you want to pull this shyt with me, there’s the door, I don’t care how many other Men you have orbiting you, my place, my rules, my bed’.
I cannot fault a single Man in 2012 for not marrying. It is a bad deal and most Men now (including myself) have opted out of pure necessity.
Survival > Marriage.
Good luck to you all"
Source: In Search of the Peter Pan Manboy. | Dalrock
Exactly!
and the irony is, they don't want you to say it but they are more attracted to you longterm if you say it. But there is no point in getting mad at it. It's just the way the game is and it will never change. just be
about it.philmonroe
Superstar
I agree with everything you said outside of the fact I don't think nobody needs a roster of people to be happy and whatnot. I don't need the gaggle of women to be happy but since I'm single I can do that. Lol If it was just me and doing things that kept me occupied I'd be cool. Everything else I agree with esp that everybody is looking out for the best for themselves not just women.Ain't that everybodys aim) just let us know so that we know how to play it,so we not tryna get serious with u,dwindling our own roster down......we can't openly tell women we play it like that becuz majority of them wouldn't go for it and we would miss out on fukin
...s in order to not miss out and have our cake and it eat too we have to lie.
U don't really owe anybody your loyalty if y'all ain't married but at a certain point honesty and respect should be apart of the equation....most men don't have any of those as part of the equation which has caused women to get smarter in protectin theyselves from hurt and from wasting they best years.....it just sucks for the guys who are loyal like that who don't cheat,don't have side chicks or play games
But far as expanding interest having different hobbies that's a good thing definitly,and certainly have different bytches....being loyal to a woman not your wife or babys mothers is nonsense as much as u may wanna be that loyal nice guy....those type of guys can end up bitter as these women who waste they time in relationships only to get played and wast a decade in a relationship,bitter and disinfranchized....might be a bad thing to say,and sound fuked up....but rosters should always be kept in tact,how much u do with those rosters is up to you...but women shouldn't have to sacrifice they happiness either to make us happy.....its enuff women out there who just wanna be loved we still got the overwhelming upperhand
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philmonroe
Superstar
Nah I ain't no youngboy if its my fault I can admit so and make the necessary first move. If its not I'm with you I'm not doing anything until they bring it up first.
CrossBones
Louder than words
Exactly!
and the irony is, they don't want you to say it but they are more attracted to you longterm if you say it. But there is no point in getting mad at it. It's just the way the game is and it will never change. just be
The key to being bolder to get what you want out of a relationship is to go by whats right, instead of being a 24/7 pleaser to your woman, and being scared of "confrontation." people make it out to be a bigger deal than it really is. if she doesnt know how to treat you, then how is acceptance and being quiet any better?
then it turns out that the man or woman will wreck this whole shyt by cheating, talking to someone else about the problems and getting closer to them, or just being a bytch to the other person. starting fights over what seems like nothing. because this is something that you should have been facing head on
it more than likely turns into that shadow, selfish crab like shyt where all these moves are done in secret until it boils over and it sabotages the entire show. instead of standing up and saying "I dont want a relationship" "I cant put up with this whatever whatever" "this isnt right for me" "we need to make some changes if we're going to go on" we have people dealing with their problems by being sneaky.
now stop that. just be upfront. not only is it better in the long run, but better in the short run to. let people know where you stand.
Yeahimcanadian
Rookie
good azz thread bruhs
gameover82
Pro
why it in society that tells woman go get a good man but for guys just go get a good enough woman 
So lemme tell you how shady women can be... (long read, I know, so save the "cool story bro"s)
I met this African broad back in September. Daycare teacher. Seemed VERY chill, we got along well. She was from out of town and had been here for a few months, didn't know many people. She hadn't been able to find permanent work here.
Anyway, she went back to her hometown across the country for a family wedding back in October. By this point we had been on maybe 3 dates. No sex, but fooled around. While there she got offered a permanent position in that city that she had applied for months back. She decided it was best to stay there and pursue that. No worries. I was bummed, but such is life. While I saw the potential, I wasn't all that attached.
She had to come back to get her stuff, so I offered her to stay with me during those days, since she had some issues with her roommate. During those three days, it was straight gf status. We fukked nonstop, she cooked for me. She even made it seem like she wanted to stay, had me lookin for places for her since she didn't know the city that well.
Anyway, she couldnt get it together so after those three days, she got on the bus and went back out West. Shes makin it seem like she wants to be with me. I like her, and I admit brehs, I was in a p*ssy haze, so I was like "well maybe something is here". She talked of moving back soon. Plan was for me to go visit her around the holidays, and see where things stand, because I wasn't gonna even TRY the long distance thing without first seeing if this was really legit.
So the last few weeks, she's been very distant and saying things like, I dunno if I can get time off for you to come, etc etc. Not sending the good morning texts. I chalk it up to having doubts about whether or not this is really worth all the effort it'll take, which I had as well, so I understood.
Two weeks ago on the phone, I was like, well you know, if you want me to come, I need to start making arrangements. And she's like yeah do that. Then she disappears on me. Stops returning my phone calls, texts. Just vanished.
I get what is happening, she's not into this anymore. I barely am as well. So that's cool. But have the respect to let someone know. So I sent her a message saying as much, and she wrote this...
i didnt mean to ignore u.I know you been really good to me and am thankfull for it. But i dont think its a good idea for you to come i did get offered a job that i start next week. so i wouldnt be able to take sometime off to spend with you if you do come. not only that but also the fact that i am unsure when i return back to Ottawa. I think its hard maintaining long distance relationship so am not sure whats next from here...I would rather see us pull our relationship off as am struggling seeing whats next if we were to continue.
I reply that I understand, but just woulda been nice for her to act like an adult and be open. I say the usual "no hard feelings, stay in touch".
Few days later, she seems to have blocked me on FB. I'm like, that's weird, I didn't think I did anything to warrant that. I have my homegirl look at her profile to see if indeed she's still on FB or perhaps she deleted her whole shyt.
This is her status...
I guess this is what true ♥ feels like finally i can admit am inlove for the first time with the most wonderful and loving man. what more could i ask for from santa?am happier than ever couldnt get any better looking forward to the new year to come
Women man....
be very glad u stumbled on this thread. the one thing i will tell u, if it hasn't already been said is, next time u fucck a girl, and u show her as much interest as u showed this girl, understand that the ball now in her court.
which means, if she spent the night or weekend at your place, and then leaves. dont be the one sending good morning texts or any of that nonsense. dont be the one acting too damn happy. i read ur story and her behavior is that of a woman who knows she has u in the bag. women NEVER, I repeat NEVER act that way towards men who treat them as replaceable.
i'm telling u all this because how u acted is how i have acted in the past. and i know the repercussion of such behavior.
and the most important thing u can take away from my post is this, next time u text a b1tch, maybe once or twice and she doesn't respond, NEVER EVER contact her again. this has been said already. but u need to pay attention to this. no matter how much of a good time u have with a b1tch, be prepared to delete her number in an instant if she steps outta line. if a b1tch responds back to you hours later than she should of, or even days later, answer her with a one word answer. dont ask her any questions. be very fuccking rude. or if u can, ignore it altogether.
i read ur story and i felt a wave of anger rise in me, and at the same time, i felt bad for you because of the crushing pain u must have felt or probably still feeling. if u find urself in this type of situation with another girl, DO NOT reserve any hope of getting back together. u hopping on facebook after this b1tch said what she said, shows to me that u weren't over it. u still reserved some hope. stop that.
Thanks breh, but honestly, not that upset about it
Like I said before, I wasn't all that attached, and the situation (her being on the other side of the country) would have made it difficult to make work.I'm more surprised at how cold and cavalier she can be about the whole thing. Over the years, I've become an expert at detecting when a chick is full of drama, mostly because I've had my share of experience with those type of broads. But my radar for detecting LIARS seems to be a lil rusty.
And believe me, no hope that it'll work out. The only thing I'll miss is the condomless sex
CrossBones
Louder than words
Thanks breh, but honestly, not that upset about it
I'm more surprised at how cold and cavalier she can be about the whole thing. Over the years, I've become an expert at detecting when a chick is full of drama, mostly because I've had my share of experience with those type of broads. But my radar for detecting LIARS seems to be a lil rusty.
And believe me, no hope that it'll work out. The only thing I'll miss is the condomless sex
and in the meantime, Im assuming she was falling in love with this "man of her dreams?" that she talks about on facebook?
this whole shyt looks like she left some chump, moved and then got with you, then went back to the chump. used you and now blocked you so she can continue being with mr so and so.
maybe not, but eitherways, shes on some shyt. this is how it goes down if you immediately reward a bytch with treatment like shes gf potential when shes brand new and didnt prove anything. its good to not get attached to anything thats fast and thinking like she could be a gf.
when its easy come, its easy go.
just move on, its good to be free of that p*ssy haze.
