Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[George Gooney]

I probably been sharing a LONG time ago bro lol

how'd y'all meet? she look caucasian

 

[NerdNash]

how'd y'all meet? she look caucasian

She walked up to me when I was pumping gas

 

[killacal]

So my girl doesn't like me following random females on instagram

This is my girl by the way......

The legs make it hard to leave brehs lmao

How long have you been together? And youre already fukkin up thinking about how the next man will feel about her. I can tell by looking at her she seems the type to think shes always in control (correct me if Im wrong) but you should have been checking her about little shyt over time so she would drop that attitude she picked up dealing with the last lame. If you FEEL you want to let her go then do it, whats worse then keeping her is her knowing you aint going anywhere and thats when acting up starts in relationships.

Edit: If you think you're sharing her, you need to throw her in the bushes immediately. You dating this chick and she fukkin around? Have some morals and self respect and do the right thing and show her to the bushes

 

[LezJepzin]

Another wrong number given to me and I got into a long text convo with someone who turned out to be a dude. And the girl I thought I had the right number "checked" the when I called her after I got it from her a few weeks ago to make it sure it was legit.

To make matters worse, she lives in my apts and I know her unit #. Should I just move on, drop her a XMAS card joking about it

Or just deal with it when I run into her again

Honest mistake? Doubt it. Had the same shyt happen two months ago

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Yep. Dude was probably home all night with the baby while she was out at the concert. She comes in late. They argue. They go to sleep. They get up in the morning and the argument begins, again.

"I was here taking care of the baby while you were out partying..."

"N**ga, it ain't even yours..."

He's been thinking this and she confirmed it. Dude snapped.

Not saying what dude did was right. But, that "he/she ain't even yours" line can cause any man to flip the f**k out.

the police found him drunk in his car outside another woman's house that night before the shooting. The entire situation was fukked, and they both were living wrong, there is no justification. The baby didn't deserve the parents it got.

 

[killacal]

Another wrong number given to me and I got into a long text convo with someone who turned out to be a dude. And the girl I thought I had the right number "checked" the when I called her after I got it from her a few weeks ago to make it sure it was legit.

To make matters worse, she lives in my apts and I know her unit #. Should I just move on, drop her a XMAS card joking about it

Or just deal with it when I run into her again

Honest mistake? Doubt it. Had the same shyt happen two months ago

Dont do that

 

[kevm3]

Today im feeling like i want to just cut my girl off lol but I know another n1gga gonna love that puzzy lol smh

I kinda want to see if she'll act psycho if i cut her off. Or if she would just be like "fck it" and keep it moving.

I would say it depends on the reason you want to leave her for. If she's out here acting crazy and being disrespectful and it gets unbearable, then you would have to consider keeping it pushing.

To be real though, there won't ever be a woman that will just be flat out perfect, so you have to ultimately choose the woman whose problems you can deal with. There are certain problems like cheating that will make you disqualify a woman, but if it's minor fighting and a few annoying things here and there, then I wouldn't necessarily eject.

If we gonna be 5,000 with it, being in a relationship with a woman doesn't mean the next negro ain't going to be enjoying that thang. You just got to come to a determination if you can deal with whatever she's doing and if you get that hint that she's a cheater, then you got to eject.

 

[jadillac]

This girl I was supposed to be meeting off POF tonight cancelled on me at the last minute. And I planned part of my day around going out w/ her. SMH

But just an hour before when I texted her, everything was cool. But I called her when I was drivign home to change, and she didnt answer, then she texted me back few mins later talkin bout, "I just got in from a long day, I'm exhausted....can I have a rain check on tonight?"

I was like ...... I let myself cool down a bit and texted her back, " I don't do rainchecks. But good luck to you!"

Did I play it right? This girl is bad. She used to be a cheerleader for the Dallas arena league team. But at the same time, I didnt wanna say something lame like , "ok, yeah let me know when ur avaliable" and I didnt wanna not say anything at all b/c it would look like I was hurt.
@kevm3 & @His_Excellence_Reincar, thread regulars- come console me brehs.

I should be at least happy that I pulled the digits of a chick this bad, right?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

This girl I was supposed to be meeting off POF tonight cancelled on me at the last minute. And I planned part of my day around going out w/ her. SMH

But just an hour before when I texted her, everything was cool. But I called her when I was drivign home to change, and she didnt answer, then she texted me back few mins later talkin bout, "I just got in from a long day, I'm exhausted....can I have a rain check on tonight?"

I was like ...... I let myself cool down a bit and texted her back, " I don't do rainchecks. But good luck to you!"

Did I play it right? This girl is bad. She used to be a cheerleader for the Dallas arena league team. But at the same time, I didnt wanna say something lame like , "ok, yeah let me know when ur avaliable" and I didnt wanna not say anything at all b/c it would look like I was hurt.
@kevm3 & @His_Excellence_Reincar, thread regulars- come console me brehs.

I should be at least happy that I pulled the digits of a chick this bad, right?

again im no expert
but u should of just rescheduled breh...maybe she was tired

 

[jadillac]

I mean, to be honest, she seemed genuinely excited when I talkd to her a couple days ago about us going out, and everything was cool all the way up until this evening.

It's very possible that she was telling the truth and she had a long day or something....

HOWEVER...


On the flip side, she didn't answer my call this evening(I called twice)...and just texted me back instead of just answering and telling me the "truth".

And it's a first date....I've NEVER had a woman cancel on me on the first date. And if she REALLY wanted to go out, then she would have.

So, I guess I responded the right way.

But then again she's fine as hell, so it's got my mind a little twisted that I shot back at her like that.

And I see she's been online the past couple hours on POF. So i dont think she ditched me for someone else.

Eh, who knows... It aint meant to be.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

jadil breh you met her at pof

shes was probably really tired
she probably is planning on seeing the next dude who messaged her on pof and keeping you as 2nd option
ego boost
females are fickle breh

i bet shes online right now on pof

lol

 

[MikelArteta]

This girl I was supposed to be meeting off POF tonight cancelled on me at the last minute. And I planned part of my day around going out w/ her. SMH

But just an hour before when I texted her, everything was cool. But I called her when I was drivign home to change, and she didnt answer, then she texted me back few mins later talkin bout, "I just got in from a long day, I'm exhausted....can I have a rain check on tonight?"

I was like ...... I let myself cool down a bit and texted her back, " I don't do rainchecks. But good luck to you!"

Did I play it right? This girl is bad. She used to be a cheerleader for the Dallas arena league team. But at the same time, I didnt wanna say something lame like , "ok, yeah let me know when ur avaliable" and I didnt wanna not say anything at all b/c it would look like I was hurt.
@kevm3 & @His_Excellence_Reincar, thread regulars- come console me brehs.

I should be at least happy that I pulled the digits of a chick this bad, right?

im more hardcore than others as say if i was in that situation i would delete the number and get on with my life, she may have a legit reason why she cancelled on you or maybe she does. Girls go from hot to cold instantously, one word, one motion, feeling them to much or to little will have them spit you out

i mentioned this earlier i was dating somewhat this 30 year old chick im 27, she had her masters a condo by the waterfront, everything was going good untill she drove in my car and my mom called me and then that was it she became cold and distant, now i didnt sit by and chase or wonder what was going on, i deleted her from my phone, stopped texting her and went on with my life.

you played it correct, let her know you aint waiting around for her, you are the prize, you have other options

i would not have even said i dont do rainchecks. I would have just said k, or just silence, the less you say the more you win

and see she used to be, shes hot bla bla, switch it to this side she is prob over 25 right? and shes single, doesnt matter how hot she is some guy was sick of her ish and tossed her out, just because a chick is hot doesnt mean you should give up your rules and standards to appease her/

Saying nothing at all would not make you seem hurt, you replying i dont do rainchecks gave her off who does this nikka think he is, look girl why he so angry,

i say nothing,

and why should you be happy you pulled the digits off? dont let women be the Barometer for valuing your looks and self esteem

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I wanna put you cats onto something. Im sure some of you remember Merlin Santana,the cat who played Romeo on STeve Harvey. Long story short,he lost his life over a woman. Yes she was underage but I want to point out how a woman's lies can cause not only your life but alot of trouble.She lied about being raped and he lost his life.These days you have to do background checks on these women

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Brehs how do you deal with an introvert,quiet girl?I know the quieter the better but still

 

[George Gooney]

I mean, to be honest, she seemed genuinely excited when I talkd to her a couple days ago about us going out, and everything was cool all the way up until this evening.

It's very possible that she was telling the truth and she had a long day or something....

HOWEVER...


On the flip side, she didn't answer my call this evening(I called twice)...and just texted me back instead of just answering and telling me the "truth".

And it's a first date....I've NEVER had a woman cancel on me on the first date. And if she REALLY wanted to go out, then she would have.

So, I guess I responded the right way.

But then again she's fine as hell, so it's got my mind a little twisted that I shot back at her like that.

And I see she's been online the past couple hours on POF. So i dont think she ditched me for someone else.

Eh, who knows... It aint meant to be.

u handled it perfectly breh.