Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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ATL is another animal altogether. There are a lot of women that look good and are desperate for dikk:gladbron:

Them old players are no joke when it comes to handling that p*ssy.

I gotta get down to ATL man, it seems like it's nothing but dimes :wow:
 

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i agree. only thing i can add is sometimes it doesnt even seem like its worth the trouble at all to begin with
it will be worth the trouble when you find a good woman because her support and companionship will be valuable to you. The key is to always remember that her support, affection and companionship is valuable because she's a good woman. and also realize that a good woman can go bad. and if that happens then her support is not worth as much and it's not worth the trouble anymore (that's your cue to dead it and find another one). And it's also your responsibility to not allow things to get this bad. that's why we keep saying it's ultimately your fault if things go bad because you let it get this bad. This is what it truly means to be a man. Your ultimately responsible. Mazeltov!
 

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got this set up for dinner on wednesday :whew:
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I must say though, I have never been in a situation where I'm going out with a girl that i dont know too much about...like just a casual date you know?

Met her a year ago at school while she visited a friend but she doesnt give her number to dudes at parties she said. Saw her this summer when I was taking a snack break from work at a smoothie store "Booster Juice"...chopped it up a little bit and got the number. I didnt talk to her too much after getting it cause shes a very busy girl and would take long to reply but I randomly decided to ask her out for the fuggofit. Any tips to make sure I dont make a fool? I'm guessing asking that shyt is the first wrong step. Just gonna take it lightly, catch up and be myself; let her do most of the talking :manny:. Not really looking for anything.



random thought...i know its remembrance day but smh at these Raps jerseys

Any updates?

:shaq:
 

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Any updates?

:shaq:

The date we were gonna go out, I messaged her to meet me at Eaton Centre (a mall... so I could walk her to the restaurant near by to avoid misdirection). She told me how shes sorry she hadnt told me but she came down witth strep throat and wouldnt be able to go out until the next week. Said we could still go but she wouldnt be much fun or able to drink alcohol and shyt :shaq2:

I said aiight cool. Between that period, me and my girlfriend resolved our issue. Couple days after...the next week she said she recovered , blah blah and if I aint mad at her we could go out on like Tuesday or Thusday or some shyt. I didnt wanna make it appear like some sort of cat and mouse shyt, but I was in a lazy mood and I had a day off for the USA Thanksgiving so I wasnt gonna be downtown that thursday and wasnt tryna travel just for the date.

Long story short we didnt go out and I havent spoken to her since :ehh:.

shyt, I'm gonna hit her up right now and say whats up. :obama: I keep small talk to a minimum cause I've noticed shes one of those busy types who dont have time to converse on the phone through text like that. Now I just get straight to the point. How are you? You doing anything this weekend? Lets go out. That kinda thing. It's a shame she had that strep; I was really curious to see what she was about and I probably coulda smashed. Might still check her one day over some coffee or sumn..who knows.
 

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You really believe she had strep? :usure:

I didnt think so but she waa enthusiastic in settng something else up. My whole thing is if a girl flakes but is still proactive in setting up an alternative, i'll give her the benefit of the doubt (one time). If she expects me to chase her and do the work then its the bushes.


You never know though... she coulda easily made plan with somseone else or just got lazy or plain forgot. Either way I'm happy to be out or that dating realm brehs. These n.American chicks always have you questioning if there's games or if they're being straight with this kinda shyt :snoop:. Like Malkoon (:pachaha:) said theyre all cowards in one way or another even when youre together with em. With my girl it was straight forward from the get go.
 

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Don't think just because a chick is older that she's wiser/smarter than a young chick.

a young chick could do something stupid or act crazy but maybe it's the first time she's going through it so she doesn't know how to react. there is still hope for her to be taught.

and older chick who's single and who acts stupid or crazy, chances are she's been through the same situation before and just chose to never learn. She's probably set in her ways. plus she's older and the young chick probably looks better. 9 times out of 10 you're better off choosing the younger chick.
 

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If a chick ever tells you something like:

"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"

or

"I need a man strong enough to handle me"


and you still end up choosing her? you lose the right to say "there were no signs she would be crazy" when shyt hits the fan. Let the suckers "handle" her.
 

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Don't think just because a chick is older that she's wiser/smarter than a young chick.

a young chick could do something stupid or act crazy but maybe it's the first time she's going through it so she doesn't know how to react. there is still hope for her to be taught.

and older chick who's single and who acts stupid or crazy, chances are she's been through the same situation before and just chose to never learn. She's probably set in her ways. plus she's older and the young chick probably looks better. 9 times out of 10 you're better off choosing the younger chick.

This is true , older chicks are not wiser they have just realized their options are fewer.

Chicks go from I won't settle to I'm ready to settle down the only thing changes is their age.


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