Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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If im talkin to a girl and she kinda hints that other nikkas always be gettin at her and asking for her number, i aint even gonna ask for it.

Imma give her mine and my name and whatnot, and most of the time she asks some shyt like "aint you gonna ask me my name?"

Come from left field with the "I'll get it when you hit me up, i got shyt to do right now" :yeshrug: and go back to watever i was doing

I do that cuz if she aint finna gimme no play i dont wanna name anyway.

But most of the time they end up callin/textin me outta sheer curiousity. :win:

and the ones who dont :manny: i dont even know their names so it aint nothin. its like i never met em

In my experience it works best on bytches who get simped on, cuz they aint used to a nikka not hounding em.
 

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Come to the conclusion that nothing you do will make them happy.

They want somebody who treats them good, faithful, fukk them good...you do that
They start bytching about you not making enough money....you do that
They start bytching about not spending time with them....you do that
They start bytching about helping around the house...you do that
They start bytching saying they want a man who can cook...you do that
They start bytching about not showing enough interest in their day...you do that


List goes on and on....ain't never fukking satisfied and always want to argue so if you solve whatever they bytching about they'll just find something new to bytch about. I'll let you in on a secret b :stopitslime: Its because they DON'T want a fukking solution. My girl told me once, she hated i always was quick to fix things :dwillhuh: just let her vent :to:


Real shyt :myman:
 

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An old school G said something a long ago. Matter fact he was the coldest nikka in the game i ever known. He said the only time a woman is happy, is when a woman is unhappy

You might even know dude name
Matter fact I think he posts on the-coli
youre actually reading his post right now :youngsabo:

:gladbron::gladbron::ahh::ahh:
 

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A lot of the fellas here definitely "operate on a higher plain, (their) thoughts take a higher train"
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Ok I gotta question I fukk with a nikka who ain't shyt I know he ain't shyt buy I have feelings for him. I've finally rid my mind of us going any further but i still wanna have sex with him. Good idea? Bad idea?
 

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Ok I gotta question I fukk with a nikka who ain't shyt I know he ain't shyt buy I have feelings for him. I've finally rid my mind of us going any further but i still wanna have sex with him. Good idea? Bad idea?
bad idea. first of all sex can potentially lead to pregnancy which would link you to "someone who ain't shyt" for the rest of your life.

second, you just said you have feelings for him. so how does having sex with him simply your problem or help you?

you said you've rid your mind of you guys going further but the feelings you mentioned will make those ideas come back eventually.

i think you already knew the answer but your basically thinking with your puss and your attraction/infatuation so you tried to somehow create a logic in your mind where you separate the sex from the feelings you feel for him. it won't work and you'll be miserable in the long run.







*realizes this post probably won't change anything*
 

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A lot of men's first thought in life is, "What can I do to get more women? What can I do to impress this certain woman? Where do I need to take this woman to eat? How do I talk to her?" Those are the WRONG questions to ask. Stop worrying about 'what the woman wants.'
most women don't even know what they want until they see it and react to it. you'll talk to a chick that says she only likes tall guys and be a 5'7 nikka and still pull her.

the most important thing i learned when dealing with women is to stop listening to what they say because a lot of it is bullshyt and instead watch what they respond to. women are master bullshyters to the point that they start to semi-believe their own bullshyt.
 

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Ok I gotta question I fukk with a nikka who ain't shyt I know he ain't shyt buy I have feelings for him. I've finally rid my mind of us going any further but i still wanna have sex with him. Good idea? Bad idea?

Turbulent already told you... Women are a reflection of the man they deal with. If you know he ain't worth a dime but you are willing to let him engage in the baby creation process with you, what does that say about your own worth or how much you cherish the future of a potential child of yours? You better leave that alone before you end up as one of those baby mommas wondering why you can't find no decent man because he ain't going to take care of his child and a man that got it together don't want to mess with you because you got a kid or kids that ain't his.
 

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Don't try to be a "fantasy man" with no flaws. Women like a man who will give them something to cry about over the phone to the simp who is trying to wait in the wings. She will realize how soft he is and will flock back to you. That fact that you don't care enough to change will show that you value yourself more than her which will excite her.
 

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This for dealing with wifey.

Sometime women think about stupid shyt. They worry about stupid shyt. They are concerned about stupid shyt. But it's important to them tho. It's a Venus mars thing. You have to recognize these situations and play along. Once you figure your bytch out on this level you money.

This only for wifey. You gonna get no play from chicks you just talking to utilizing this:youngsabo:
 

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I learned this lesson the hard way...

No matter how cold your game is you can still slip and find yourself simping for a broad. The moment you sense this is happening cut her off. Immediately. Because once you start simping, you've lost. The moment you disrespect yourself in order to impress her, you've given her permission to disrespect you. Once that happens it's game over. You can't recover from it because in her eyes you just sold out your manhood - the very thing that matters most.

If you're finding yourself developing intense feelings for someone to the point where you can't control yourself around them and you're not getting what you want, you need to cut them off. Otherwise, you're going to wake up one morning and realize you've wasted time, money and emotional energy on a broad who may be giving you a little action here and there but regularly fukks the guy from work who hasn't gone to a fifth of the effort and treats her like the whore that she is.

Bottom line, don't ever put a girl up on a pedestal and never disrespect yourself. And if you ever sense yourself doing this, cut her off and find another one.
I wish I had this knowledge a couple of years ago. Would save some headaches and heartbreaks.
 
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