Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Cape Town JHB]

he has cheated on me before..

like our entire relationship

ALL men with options cheat. That's irrelevant to how he feels about you.

 

[Marzupial]

he has cheated on me before..

like our entire relationship

Do you have proof or you just guessing?

If you have proof that he cheated and you still stayed with him, that's on you, but just because he cheats don't mean he doesn't like you

I see that you clearly love him and in my opinion you shouldn't leave a men you love just cause he cheats talk to him and if you feel he still likes you don't leave him

That's just my opinion

 

[NotaPAWG]

It means he's getting used to your mediocre p*ssy and on reflection sees not much value in you besides average sex... But he doesn't wanna lose an easy lay, so when you ask him "do you still want me" he gives a mandatory "yes" as to not cock block himself.

Are you as freaky and sexually nasty as he needs you to be? (sometimes it's not just how good the p*ssy is, but also the endeavor and willingness of the girl)

when we do get intimate we go for multiple rounds

the other day, we were laying in bed and he was initiating sex and said “i wanna make love to you and bust the biggest load in you”

and we had like 4 rounds in an hour.

he likes to be in control and i let him do whatever sexually and he leads

if it’s just sex for him why do things like give me gas money? pay for my food? want to bible study with me? buy my flowers?

is that him just doing enough to keep me around?

 

[NotaPAWG]

Do you have proof or you just guessing?

If you have proof that he cheated and you still stayed with him, that's on you, but just because he cheats don't mean he doesn't like you

I see that you clearly love him and in my opinion you shouldn't leave a men you love just cause he cheats talk to him and if you feel he still likes you don't leave him

That's just my opinion

yes, proof.. he cheated our entire relationship. any ounce of truth i found out wasn’t from him. he’s never been honest about it. it was the other women and from seeing things in his phone. it wasn’t just a one off thing. and that’s nice and all but when this person has put your sexual health at risk, gaslight you, etc it’s not so forgivable and easy to just get over and move on from that betrayal and lack of respect for the relationship. especially when you try to actually work through your feelings and that level of distrust with him and he shuts diwn, gets angry and tells me i’m just being insecure. he wants to just completely avoid the problems and my feelings like me not trying him is MY fault, and not his. i’m trying to move forward but he begged for me back and hasn’t made any real effort.

 

[Marzupial]

yes, proof.. he cheated our entire relationship. any ounce of truth i found out wasn’t from him. he’s never been honest about it. it was the other women and from seeing things in his phone. it wasn’t just a one off thing. and that’s nice and all but when this person has put your sexual health at risk, gaslight you, etc it’s not so forgivable and easy to just get over and move on from that betrayal and lack of respect for the relationship. especially when you try to actually work through your feelings and that level of distrust with him and he shuts diwn, gets angry and tells me i’m just being insecure. he wants to just completely avoid the problems and my feelings like me not trying him is MY fault, and not his. i’m trying to move forward but he begged for me back and hasn’t made any real effort.

Be strong and keep working with him

Eventually things will change

You are a very strong women for forgiving him after all that, don't let anybody say otherwise

 

[NotaPAWG]

Be strong and keep working with him

Eventually things will change

You are a very strong women for forgiving him after all that, don't let anybody say otherwise

but he’s not working with me, he’s working against me. he makes it seem like i’m the problem and at fault for not trusting him

part of our conversation last night, he shut down and basically didn’t wanna talk to me or have anything to do with me cause i’m not “cutting him slack”

 

[Marzupial]

but he’s not working with me, he’s working against me. he makes it seem like i’m the problem and at fault for not trusting him

part of our conversation last night, he shut down and basically didn’t wanna talk to me or have anything to do with me cause i’m not “cutting him slack”

He threw away the booklet that the other women gave him? To me it Looks like he is actually trying

 

[Marzupial]

when we do get intimate we go for multiple rounds

the other day, we were laying in bed and he was initiating sex and said “i wanna make love to you and bust the biggest load in you”

and we had like 4 rounds in an hour.

he likes to be in control and i let him do whatever sexually and he leads

if it’s just sex for him why do things like give me gas money? pay for my food? want to bible study with me? buy my flowers?

is that him just doing enough to keep me around?

Hold up I just seen this
You dating a 18 old pornstar??

4 loads in an hour it's a lot Iam in my 20s in great shape and can't do that

 

[NotaPAWG]

Hold up I just seen this
You dating a 18 old pornstar??

4 loads in an hour it's a lot Iam in my 20s in great shape and can't do that

He’s 21

i’m 30

 

[Marzupial]

He’s 21

i’m 30

You don't like to date man your age or older than you?

 

[Ransoming]

Yup she is out of my league, she is a dyme (a 7 to coli standards, lol)

What’s your plan with her breh?

 

[NotaPAWG]

You don't like to date man your age or older than you?

he’s the only younger guy i’ve dated

 

[International Playa]

yes, proof.. he cheated our entire relationship. any ounce of truth i found out wasn’t from him. he’s never been honest about it. it was the other women and from seeing things in his phone. it wasn’t just a one off thing. and that’s nice and all but when this person has put your sexual health at risk, gaslight you, etc it’s not so forgivable and easy to just get over and move on from that betrayal and lack of respect for the relationship. especially when you try to actually work through your feelings and that level of distrust with him and he shuts diwn, gets angry and tells me i’m just being insecure. he wants to just completely avoid the problems and my feelings like me not trying him is MY fault, and not his. i’m trying to move forward but he begged for me back and hasn’t made any real effort.

This the type of playa guys should follow, his keeping his lady on her, giving her a challenge & she deep in love with the breh

 

[Cape Town JHB]

when we do get intimate we go for multiple rounds

the other day, we were laying in bed and he was initiating sex and said “i wanna make love to you and bust the biggest load in you”

and we had like 4 rounds in an hour.

he likes to be in control and i let him do whatever sexually and he leads

if it’s just sex for him why do things like give me gas money? pay for my food? want to bible study with me? buy my flowers?

is that him just doing enough to keep me around?

This sounds like 2 people in their early 20s. There should be a 5-7 year gap between the man and woman for something healthy to sprout.

How old are the 2 of you. Also what experience do you have in your dealings with men, or more aptly put what have been your longest relationships where you LIVED WITH THE GUY?

 

[Counter Racist Male]

he’s the only younger guy i’ve dated

How many years differences?