Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I wouldn't say that because i look at cold approaching as just randomly approaching a woman; if she's giving some impression that she's feeling you, then they're has been some type of interaction already

It depends in what you mean by "go out".
I don't like the vibe of clubs so thats the reason i don't do that. I don't like none of the music today, i dont dance, folks be fighting/shooting,etc
That’s a cold approach, If you don’t know her then that’s what it is.

Are you tryna fukk bytches or you looking for something to cuff? Just wondering.

I still think you need an avenue outside of work because work is the worst place to get girls unless many new girls come and go and you don’t care much about the job.
 

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But if she does you’re gonna approach? It still counts as a cold approach if you do that.

Why u don’t go out?

don’t let work be the only place you get women because it’s limited and they play a lot of mind games.
It's not a cold approach if she's noticed you and has given you some kind of body language signal.
I wouldn't say that because i look at cold approaching as just randomly approaching a woman; if she's giving some impression that she's feeling you, then they're has been some type of interaction already

It depends in what you mean by "go out".
I don't like the vibe of clubs so thats the reason i don't do that. I don't like none of the music today, i dont dance, folks be fighting/shooting,etc
Have you given salsa/bachata a try? Every club I've been to for this style of dance had been hella chill, I've never seen an argument or fight
 

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@Playa_Wit_A_Passport do you have peoples in real life that spoke against your situation? Did you listen to them? You in a fukked up ass space if you took her back when she even considered her ex AND she won’t even fukk you

No one knows about the situation

I have a gut feeling she's fukking her ex behind his back

Not saying that's the case but...

Even if she was she will never admit to it so...

@Playa_Wit_A_Passport I feel like this is really fukking with you mentally and if you are not careful this girl can ruin you emotionally

That will fukk you up in your future relationships
Run! :damn:
But again do what you want to do :yeshrug:

The ex moved back to their country, so I verified nothing is going on between them & they haven't talked since summer. I checked her messages & phone records.

The affection outside of bed increased, she cooking for me more, she splits bills for dates more than before etc. Its just the sex sucks
 

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No one knows about the situation



The ex moved back to their country, so I verified nothing is going on between them & they haven't talked since summer. I checked her messages & phone records.

The affection outside of bed increased, she cooking for me more, she splits bills for dates more than before etc. Its just the sex sucks

Breh never let a girl make you feel so small. Never. Stay in control. Stay the head of the relationship. If I were you, I would refuse her imtimacy and sex too. I would tell her " let me work on myself first and lose this gut like you asked" See how crazy she gets. Also, dont let her know all your whereabouts. Sometimes hit the gym and dont even tell her. Sometimes just go out and watch a movie without her. Enjoy life without her. Dont let her hold p*ssy over your head. Women are petty by nature but they hate pettiness because they know thats their game.
 

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No one knows about the situation



The ex moved back to their country, so I verified nothing is going on between them & they haven't talked since summer. I checked her messages & phone records.

The affection outside of bed increased, she cooking for me more, she splits bills for dates more than before etc. Its just the sex sucks

Bruh..the relationship is over....:francis:
 

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if a guy is pulling away, texts getting shorter, isn’t as sweet and all of a sudden wants to see you less but when you ask him if he still wants to be in a relationship with you he says yes does that mean he’s cheating
 

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if a guy is pulling away, texts getting shorter, isn’t as sweet and all of a sudden wants to see you less but when you ask him if he still wants to be in a relationship with you he says yes does that mean he’s cheating


More than likely. Either that or he no longer into you. How did you get to this point in you relationship.
 

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Yup she is out of my league, she is a dyme (a 7 to coli standards, lol)
If you're younger than 35 or your body count is under a 100 women i say keep Simpin and come back to me when she leave you.

You'll have a far better understanding in hindsight. Everything that she's doing at this point is coz she can smell and sniff how much you adore the p*ssy juice on her panties. She's in the power seat and there's no way to reverse that.

Get as much p*ssy as possible, cheat, openly flirt with other women and come back when shyt hits the fan.

It's the crash and burn method

Edit... I'm 28 but my game got advanced around 2011/12. But the beyond just theory, actual life experiences are just as important.
 

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i figured

yesterday we were driving and i peeked to the side when he pulled out his phone to text and he got mad defensive and angry like “i’m texting my fukking cousin keep yoir eyes on the damn road”
I don't think that's enough evidence that he's cheating

Also you sound mad clingy, damn let the dude have some space:martin:
 

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if a guy is pulling away, texts getting shorter, isn’t as sweet and all of a sudden wants to see you less but when you ask him if he still wants to be in a relationship with you he says yes does that mean he’s cheating

It means he's getting used to your mediocre p*ssy and on reflection sees not much value in you besides average sex... But he doesn't wanna lose an easy lay, so when you ask him "do you still want me" he gives a mandatory "yes" as to not cock block himself.

Are you as freaky and sexually nasty as he needs you to be? (sometimes it's not just how good the p*ssy is, but also the endeavor and willingness of the girl)
 
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