Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Deafheaven]

True. That’s why when women hit you with the let’s just be friends line it’s not even authentic. They just want a dude to listen to their problems without having sex with them.

I can probably think of only two women my whole life who I went out on dates with and we decided to become friends and they actually were good friends. One woman was always there with help with networking, advice with other women, if I ever needed a ride to airport and stuff like that. The other woman was mad reliable and her word was her bond. Even when my mom passed she unexpectedly came to my moms funeral even when she was working out of state.

but other than that most women from what I’ve witnessed aren’t very good friends.

Yeah I got one chick I went on one date with and from jump both us was like yea we aint never fukking, but our collective hatred of humanity transcended attraction thata the homie, she a scipper too so shw prime social proof when we mob nightlife

Other true homegirl is one of my best friends fiance. Shes a selfless lovely friend.

I say that to say Im 29....thats 2, twoooo, my whole fukking life Id consider true friends. Any other chick I dated or hit and then they like lets be friends it was always bullshyt. I used to be like aight for sure cuz I only date cuties and I figured we can still hit bars and they help me pull. NO.these bytches are literal energy succubi. Take take take. Once I peeped game I rarely accept the friendship cuz its a farce anyway. shyt just the other week I fzoned a chick I hit since shes stark raving mad. Have not heard from her since. Some friend

 

[Canon]

Somewhat uneasy at first but then she got used to it, she be texting people from her job so I figured why can’t I. As long as that line ain’t crossed it’s all good right? I just think it’s weird for me to be like I’m only talking to dudes the rest of my life because my girl might not like it. Majority of the people I talk to are female, they come kick it and smoke wit me and my hbs sometimes, I be meeting some cool women

keep your bytch on her toes

women do this and keep dudes orbiting around them

 

[Travelnomad]

Lol funny story ! One chick I smashed twice is one of my closest homegirl right now , she’s mad cool .. give me advice on other women and I do the same when she’s having relationship issues . I keep her at arm’s length tho , I don’t tell her just everything since we have history .
I may be thinking too deep into this but a month or so back , she told me that if we both hit 30 we’d end up together .

she’s really attractive ! 8.5 I’d say but as I got to know her , based on her decisions .. I don’t see us being just friends .

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

People get an endorphin rush from dating apps. When they're on a date one minor slip up could make them search for something "better". Why settle when it's only 2-3 swipes away?!

fukk that. Meeting women IRL and being a social man is where it's at. The last few times I've been out women have been approaching me and trying to get my attention. One I walked out on b/c I had to go to the next venue with a friend and she bust out the door "Don't you want my number?!" This 23 year old. I'm in a relationship now but being cool, decisive, and collective is way better than fukking with dating apps for a single man. You set yourself apart from other men.

What happened with that? explain this venue situation.
In my head it looks like you were at something and was chatting with a chick and was leaving and she was surprised after the chat you didn't ask for her number so she said something.
(I had to reread it to see if I missed something)

I remember back when I was 22 working at McDonalds; they had this fine chick that came in that I swore I saw before. I asked her "what school you went to?" she told me and I was like naw never mind. I went to ___. The girl stood there a few seconds and it was this awkward silence. I told her "...thats it.". Some time later it made me think she proly was expecting me to try and get the number.

 

[ViShawn]

What happened with that? explain this venue situation.
In my head it looks like you were at something and was chatting with a chick and was leaving and she was surprised after the chat you didn't ask for her number so she said something.
(I had to reread it to see if I missed something)

I remember back when I was 22 working at McDonalds; they had this fine chick that came in that I swore I saw before. I asked her "what school you went to?" she told me and I was like naw never mind. I went to ___. The girl stood there a few seconds and it was this awkward silence. I told her "...thats it.". Some time later it made me think she proly was expecting me to try and get the number.

Yeah basically I walked out after meeting her and just vibing with her and she chased me out the door and asked if I wanted her #. Thing is I have a girlfriend. She did find my IG so I accepted that but I wasn't trying to pursue it. Maybe I should have just said I have a girlfriend instead of beating around the bush ya know but I like the attention I won't lie. But yeah she was used to guys asking for her # but I didn't.

Women do want you to get hints when you're talking to them. They aren't as confrontational or direct as men which is something men should easily learn if they're around women enough. If your intuition is telling you to go for it, whether physically escalating with a girl, taking her somewhere, etc.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Yeah basically I walked out after meeting her and just vibing with her and she chased me out the door and asked if I wanted her #. Thing is I have a girlfriend. She did find my IG so I accepted that but I wasn't trying to pursue it. Maybe I should have just said I have a girlfriend instead of beating around the bush ya know but I like the attention I won't lie. But yeah she was used to guys asking for her # but I didn't.

Women do want you to get hints when you're talking to them. They aren't as confrontational or direct as men which is something men should easily learn if they're around women enough. If your intuition is telling you to go for it, whether physically escalating with a girl, taking her somewhere, etc.

but how did you meet her? was this business or you just randomly met up with a chick

 

[ViShawn]

but how did you meet her? was this business or you just randomly met up with a chick

I met a friend up for drinks and this bar I go to (more like a Hostel) was showing Halloween movies so we hung out there and I met her. Honestly I noticed her checking me out prior and I eventually just chatted her up.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I met a friend up for drinks and this bar I go to (more like a Hostel) was showing Halloween movies so we hung out there and I met her. Honestly I noticed her checking me out prior and I eventually just chatted her up.

its a white girl?

 

[DapMeUp!]

Lol funny story ! One chick I smashed twice is one of my closest homegirl right now , she’s mad cool .. give me advice on other women and I do the same when she’s having relationship issues . I keep her at arm’s length tho , I don’t tell her just everything since we have history .
I may be thinking too deep into this but a month or so back , she told me that if we both hit 30 we’d end up together .

she’s really attractive ! 8.5 I’d say but as I got to know her , based on her decisions .. I don’t see us being just friends .

Don't let her trap you bro, she knows from that age it's all downhill for women.

30 Is prime years for a man to enjoy the fruits of his labour.
I'm not 30 yet but at my current trajectory my 30's is going to be some of my best years

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Got shot down a few mins ago by the chick at work i said asked for my number instead 2 weeks ago.

She was coming in and i held the door and asked her, "what day you off so we can go on our date? " she say "dont start that shyt" and laughed. I go in and go "so you said Saturday?" She said "i aint say that........i got something to do." I said " girl you pump fakin....its all good" put my glasses on and walked off after she saif "when you started wearing glasses".

I aint going for the bullshyt. Gotta keep on keepin on.

 

[LeVraiPapi]

Got shot down a few mins ago by the chick at work i said asked for my number instead 2 weeks ago.

She was coming in and i held the door and asked her, "what day you off so we can go on our date? " she say "dont start that shyt" and laughed. I go in and go "so you said Saturday?" She said "i aint say that........i got something to do." I said " girl you pump fakin....its all good" put my glasses on and walked off after she saif "when you started wearing glasses".

I aint going for the bullshyt. Gotta keep on keepin on.

Man. Stop chasing her. Starve her for attention. See how she reacts.

 

[LeVraiPapi]

@Lord Scarf keep us updated on your journey with this chick breh.

Update

Chick from the bar

Now she has a trip with 8 friends to Cali. It was planned months ago and they always do it. Its 5 girls and 3 boys, all friends. They have been going on that trip for 4 years. The trip is next weekend. She told me she was going and her tickets were already purchased by one of her friends. I m like cool, enjoy yourself. I asked why would these guys be there on a girl trip cuz dudes don't go on trips and not expect or work towards some road p*ssy. She flipped out. I said let's drop it, go on your trip. Now, this morning she was like "babe, may I have your permission to go or can you come too?" I was like "nah, those are your friends. Like I said just go. As for my permission, I would never say yes" She froze ln the phone and said " I want you to trust me" I just laughed a little and said "just go"


This other chick that I met wanted to hang out again. We made out and things got a little further. Now, she saying shes no ho and she never does that. She sending screenshots of neggas saying why they can't kiss her yet. I don't even care tbh. She wants me to make her #1. She a sweet girl but nah. Social media addicts are attention whores.

Now, the last chick I met at the hospital might be a dead end. She wants me to take her to dinner and talk over food. I said nah let's talk more and know each other more. She was like "well, food opens up my belly" She seems too expensive for my taste already. So I m gonna have to drop her.

One of my exes is getting married this holiday. My boy said she will let me hit definitely before marriage but why would I do that? She is happy and has a guy giving her the world. Dude is a good guy and I won't fukk it up for him

 

[LeVraiPapi]

Brehs, am I ering for not giving her lermission to go on the trip ? If it was a girl trip yeah but ither male friemds too? For what?

 

[360dagod]

Brehs, am I ering for not giving her lermission to go on the trip ? If it was a girl trip yeah but ither male friemds too? For what?

What difference does it make

Its either familiar dikk or new dikk

You better off buying a clit camera

 

[LeVraiPapi]

What difference does it make

Its either familiar dikk or new dikk

You better off buying a clit camera

Breh. True that. I will let her go and use that as my way out once I m ready to move on from her.