Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So my (ex) that I ended it with last week. Ran into her at work and could tell she was really down. She had refused to speak to me in person cause she gets emotional so I took the opportunity to finally have a sit down with her on her lunch break. She actually apologized and wished I had gave her a chance to change. We talked a bit and she was about to cry so I told her we'll talk later outside work if she wanted. She did. I gave her another chance so we're back together and I can see she is trying to change. Hopefully she'll keep it up.

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Not sure if I pissed this broad or not.

I got her number, started texting she would reply within 1 min. She mentioned watching a Spanish speaking show on netflix. I jokingly said that's where she learned the language from.The next message I sent, she only read it(it wasn't a question).
Not sure if she's pissed :mjlol: This exchange was on a late Sunday night. Do I just text her asking when she's free?
 

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Not sure if I pissed this broad or not.

I got her number, started texting she would reply within 1 min. She mentioned watching a Spanish speaking show on netflix. I jokingly said that's where she learned the language from.The next message I sent, she only read it(it wasn't a question).
Not sure if she's pissed :mjlol: This exchange was on a late Sunday night. Do I just text her asking when she's free?

I'd say another nikka came in and got her attention :yeshrug:
 

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Not sure if I pissed this broad or not.

I got her number, started texting she would reply within 1 min. She mentioned watching a Spanish speaking show on netflix. I jokingly said that's where she learned the language from.The next message I sent, she only read it(it wasn't a question).
Not sure if she's pissed :mjlol: This exchange was on a late Sunday night. Do I just text her asking when she's free?
Idk why men like to joke with bytches via text, most women don't even get jokes when they are face to face

PleAse don't do it. Only joke with your voice, use text for logistics only
 
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Idk why men like to joke with bytches via text, most women don't even get jokes when they are face to face

PleAse don't do it. Only joke with your voice, use text for logistics only
I usually text just logistics, she started with some boring small talk. Don't even know I entertained the idea :snoop:
 

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Idk why men like to joke with bytches via text, most women don't even get jokes when they are face to face

PleAse don't do it. Only joke with your voice, use text for logistics only

Yeah I've learnt my lesson on that.

I'll joke with a broad once I've met her.

Doing it before? Ripe for misunderstanding.

I dont know about this, basic jokes work, nuanced jokes maybe not so much.

I've definitely fukked off women thinking I was funny on texts. Being considered funny will get you the drawers
 

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Broke up my girl for two weeks then later found out she banged some dude a week later... gotta demote her to slide status :francis:


Don't trust these females brehs

they're shady breh. Chances are she was already scoping this new dude. She Probably started more probs/fights and being difficult with you hoping y'all would take a "break" or breakup so she could sleep with him.
 

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brehs....question about Tinder (Hinge or whatever other new apps there are)

Havent been on there for about a year and I wasn't on it too hard then b/c I was working a sidegig with little time.

I'm a good looking dude, in shape.....BUT, I get the "so handsome" compliment from all chicks. The problem with "handsome", is most of these chicks wanna look at you in a gentlemanly way and wanna take it slow...

I'm like :camby: Then I look like the bad guy.

Question is....

What do you put on your profile? Do you say you're looking for a relationship(even tho ur just looking to smash)? Do you say you're just looking to meet people?

I really wanna cut thru all this bs b/c 99.99999999% chicks on Tinder are not actually worth anything serious.
 

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I'm gonna say this....

Disclaimer: Not to sound heartless, and I guess it depends on where/how you meet them and the nature of their problems.

But for the sake of dating, when a new chick you go on a date with start immediately talking about her problems, DO NOT assist her. If you, by nature, have a good heart(which isnt a flaw)....bush her immediately. Do not help these women b/c chances are you'll end up getting the short end of the stick, you'll be stressing yourself out trying to "help" her be it emotionally or whatever...she'll like hanging out with you, but she'll ruin the mood most of the time complaining about shyt, and you'll get nowhere.

Women really do like dudes who take them on emotional roller coasters, they'll talk shyt about him and tell you how bad he is, but be quick to answer his calls/texts and he's always on their mind in some fashion bc of this.

Women aren't interested in changing as much as they want to keep doing whatever they're doing and having it workout for them.
 
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