Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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What would she have to gain from that? If so she spent quite a bit of tears and energy to do so. Cried when I broke up with her. Blew my phone up via texts. She was damn near gonna have a panic attack when she saw me again and was gonna cry AGAIN when I talked to her at work.

Was she down emotionally or down on her luck?

Or both?
 

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Forgot to come back and post.

So my (ex) that I ended it with last week. Ran into her at work and could tell she was really down. She had refused to speak to me in person cause she gets emotional so I took the opportunity to finally have a sit down with her on her lunch break. She actually apologized and wished I had gave her a chance to change. We talked a bit and she was about to cry so I told her we'll talk later outside work if she wanted. She did. I gave her another chance so we're back together and I can see she is trying to change. Hopefully she'll keep it up.

I'm gonna be honest just cuz a female cry and say sorry dont mean shyt they want u to feel bad for them and take them back and repeat the same cycle of lies and bullshyt
So I hope this ain't one of them nor do I know the whole story
Having said that male or female will change if they choose too u can tell them all u want but it is a choice and if u keep saying and they dont they choose not too
Now what it is u want her to change is what it comes down too and also look at yourself and make sure there aren't areas u dont need to change to better urself too
 

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I'm gonna be honest just cuz a female cry and say sorry dont mean shyt they want u to feel bad for them and take them back and repeat the same cycle of lies and bullshyt
So I hope this ain't one of them nor do I know the whole story
Having said that male or female will change if they choose too u can tell them all u want but it is a choice and if u keep saying and they dont they choose not too
Now what it is u want her to change is what it comes down too and also look at yourself and make sure there aren't areas u dont need to change to better urself too

she might even start building up a roster in preparation for when he breaks up with her again.
 

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I asked a girl "so what do you like to do for fun and whats your credit score?" On a dating app as a joke, then I started playing video games and didnt check my phone.

She proceded to send me several messages back starting off with

"Haha you funny"
"Lol"
"Laugh emoji"
Then
"I'm not gunna tell you that"
Then
"Wait are you serious?"

Then blocks me :dead:

I'm tryna space out my replies so I don't seem thirsty and it backfired :dead:
 

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What would she have to gain from that? If so she spent quite a bit of tears and energy to do so. Cried when I broke up with her. Blew my phone up via texts. She was damn near gonna have a panic attack when she saw me again and was gonna cry AGAIN when I talked to her at work.

Loool nikka your a rookie
 

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What would she have to gain from that? If so she spent quite a bit of tears and energy to do so. Cried when I broke up with her. Blew my phone up via texts. She was damn near gonna have a panic attack when she saw me again and was gonna cry AGAIN when I talked to her at work.

Yeah that’s the funny thing bro, girls are so manipulative that they will have you think you got them because they do all this crying and embarrassing stuff, but they really fukkin with your mind even more.

Girls do this all the time, plain evil, breh, I’m telling you.
 

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Brehs.. if you falsely accuse your girl of cheating and you could be wrong is the relationship from that point dead?
 

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Brehs.. if you falsely accuse your girl of cheating and you could be wrong is the relationship from that point dead?
No, but if you continue to be in that relationship with with the same trust issues then there's no need to be together. Hopefully you have a valid reason for saying that though. If end up being wrong apologize and say why you felt she cheated. Hopefully she'll understand that you at least care enough.
 

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What would she have to gain from that? If so she spent quite a bit of tears and energy to do so. Cried when I broke up with her. Blew my phone up via texts. She was damn near gonna have a panic attack when she saw me again and was gonna cry AGAIN when I talked to her at work.

You dumped her. A lot of times it's the other way round the woman dumps the man after already losing most feelings for him. Plus she already has replacements lined up. In those cases it's the guy sending those desperate texts. Begging for another chance. As he is blindsided.

You dumping her out of the blue means she therefore is still ripe emotionally for you.

I do hope you two work it out for real and she actually improves but keep an eye on her. Especially if she turns 'distant'
 
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