Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Data-Hawk]

Brehs, how do y'all deal with women you don't know if you can trust?

Its easy to say "if it feels off, throw her in the bushes", but sometimes I do overthink things and have been wrong before.

And honestly, I'm not one to date multiple chicks at once. I just can't. Don't have the time, no the patience to keep up with multiple conversations, or every little mundane thing they say.

Current chick, she'll go for hours without texting me back sometimes(like today havent heard back from her since 630pm..its midnight now) ....but when I dont reply to her for an hour she'll text me back like, "Hellooo?" or "ok guess you're busy, bye" and one time before our first date i didnt reply within 20mins and she said, "do you even want to go out with me?" Honestly, I do that on purpose bc she does it....

BUT she has up to this point made great efforts to hang out with me. Only issue is, I don't know if I'm getting anywhere. We've gone out to eat multiple times, yes I've paid. Nothing too expensive, but I'm still paying. It hasnt gotten too touchy-feely yet like I expected it to. Just some end of evening tight hugs and i kissed her on the cheek a couple of times, but I'm not seeing a physical effort on her part.

Here's the prob, we met thru mutual friends, plural. I want her to know that I'm NOT down for a non-physical hang out/go out situation , but I also don't want to come off looking like a jerk/thirsty and for it spread around to the ppl we both know.

We're supposed to go out again tomorrow night and so we'll see. Tomorrow may be the final straw for me bc I'm not gonna be a sucker. She's not young, so I know she's not naive to things.

What do I do? Why do I keep meeting bad women?

@LeVraiPapi @George Gooney other brehs?

you aren’t aggressive enough. Females will give you 1-2 times to hit it . After that they lose all interest in you. Yeah she’ll still hang out with you and talk to you. But she’s already looking for someone else.

speaking from experience. She’s friend zoned you . I remember when I had my opportunities and didn’t take advantage of it, you could always tell something was off afterwards.

Don’t believe that whole “ he just want sex, he’s a jerk because of it”. If she feeling you, she wants you to make a move ASAP.

 

[Data-Hawk]

Thanks breh. This is really good advice. Some of it I already know but it helps to see it reinforced.

Tomorrow will definitely be a turning point one way or the other.

oh god . I just read Breh advice to you. Sorry it’s not good advice. You haven’t even hit yet/ she’s not your girlfriend. Why would you be talking to her about Trust Issues?

Man, listen we like to look for any positive sign that’s she’s still into you when there’s a million signs telling you to move on. Re-read your initial post , you are looking for anything to hang onto..

breh.. move on or you’ll continue to take her out and drop money while some guy is knocking her down when she not texting you.

 

[SATAN]

So I've caught feelings for the PAWG who said she's not ready to date yet. She invited me out on a couple more dates (but she says they're not dates) and she's starting to spend even more of her spare time hanging out with me. Plus her job is literally a block away from my house.

The more time I spend with her, the more feelings I have for her. Do I cut her off, or just reduce the frequency that we spend time together?

I know that if I just start dating or fukking a new chick, it'll solve my problem. But the rest of the women I was dealing with have flaked out and ghosted on me, so now I've got one-itis.

She never asks me for anything except my time, I never pay for any of her stuff when we go out since she always offers to pay her part, plus she's got her Doctorate and is making bank.

 

[Marzupial]

So I've caught feelings for the PAWG who said she's not ready to date yet. She invited me out on a couple more dates (but she says they're not dates) and she's starting to spend even more of her spare time hanging out with me. Plus her job is literally a block away from my house.

The more time I spend with her, the more feelings I have for her. Do I cut her off, or just reduce the frequency that we spend time together?

I know that if I just start dating or fukking a new chick, it'll solve my problem. But the rest of the women I was dealing with have flaked out and ghosted on me, so now I've got one-itis.

She never asks me for anything except my time, I never pay for any of her stuff when we go out since she always offers to pay her part, plus she's got her Doctorate and is making bank.

Did you smashed or even kissed her or not? She lets you get sexual in those dates?

That's the main thing we need to know

 

[SATAN]

Did you smashed or even kissed her or not? She lets you get sexual in those dates?

That's the main thing we need to know

We only kiss when we dance. We go out dancing every Fri/Sat/Sun

Haven't smashed but she lets me touch her anywhere, she lets me palm the booty and she doesn't mind, unlike how a female friend would give you the if your hand ever went below her waistline

 

[Silkk]

So I've caught feelings for the PAWG who said she's not ready to date yet. She invited me out on a couple more dates (but she says they're not dates) and she's starting to spend even more of her spare time hanging out with me. Plus her job is literally a block away from my house.

The more time I spend with her, the more feelings I have for her. Do I cut her off, or just reduce the frequency that we spend time together?

I know that if I just start dating or fukking a new chick, it'll solve my problem. But the rest of the women I was dealing with have flaked out and ghosted on me, so now I've got one-itis.

She never asks me for anything except my time, I never pay for any of her stuff when we go out since she always offers to pay her part, plus she's got her Doctorate and is making bank.

“If a woman isn’t fukking you, She’s fukking somebody else”

 

[Silkk]

We only kiss when we dance. We go out dancing every Fri/Sat/Sun

Haven't smashed but she lets me touch her anywhere, she lets me palm the booty and she doesn't mind, unlike how a female friend would give you the if your hand ever went below her waistline

Why not just do that when you have her at the crib alone and progress from there?

 

[SATAN]

Why not just do that when you have her at the crib alone and progress from there?

She seems like she's down to fukk, but then she gets all anxious and shyt (I didn't know that they literally start turning red like in the cartoons) and she gets up and says we should go out and do something.

 

[Silkk]

She seems like she's down to fukk, but then she gets all anxious and shyt (I didn't know that they literally start turning red like in the cartoons) and she gets up and says we should go out and do something.

She might be burning

 

[VertigoKnight]

you aren’t aggressive enough. Females will give you 1-2 times to hit it . After that they lose all interest in you. Yeah she’ll still hang out with you and talk to you. But she’s already looking for someone else.

speaking from experience. She’s friend zoned you . I remember when I had my opportunities and didn’t take advantage of it, you could always tell something was off afterwards.

Don’t believe that whole “ he just want sex, he’s a jerk because of it”. If she feeling you, she wants you to make a move ASAP.

Agree. A woman is never going to say come seduce me. I've been on dates with women and I've felt that kiss me energy, but she wants you to make the first move. I feel the difference some of us are seeing going into a date is when a chick has obviously high attraction to you vs her being his kinda ok.

In my experience If you fluff that she'll think something is wrong and sideline you. Same with guys not asking a chick out in decent time. Constant small talk leads to dead ends.

Asking a chick to meet in person will always tell you what a chick is thinking at that moment.

She's either going to jump at the chance or make up some bullshyt excuse as to why she can't.

 

[MikelArteta]

Just had a date with a teacher she lives right by where I work was a quick two hours not bad ​

 

[John Reena]

Brehs, how do y'all deal with women you don't know if you can trust?

Its easy to say "if it feels off, throw her in the bushes", but sometimes I do overthink things and have been wrong before.

And honestly, I'm not one to date multiple chicks at once. I just can't. Don't have the time, no the patience to keep up with multiple conversations, or every little mundane thing they say.

Current chick, she'll go for hours without texting me back sometimes(like today havent heard back from her since 630pm..its midnight now) ....but when I dont reply to her for an hour she'll text me back like, "Hellooo?" or "ok guess you're busy, bye" and one time before our first date i didnt reply within 20mins and she said, "do you even want to go out with me?" Honestly, I do that on purpose bc she does it....

BUT she has up to this point made great efforts to hang out with me. Only issue is, I don't know if I'm getting anywhere. We've gone out to eat multiple times, yes I've paid. Nothing too expensive, but I'm still paying. It hasnt gotten too touchy-feely yet like I expected it to. Just some end of evening tight hugs and i kissed her on the cheek a couple of times, but I'm not seeing a physical effort on her part.

Here's the prob, we met thru mutual friends, plural. I want her to know that I'm NOT down for a non-physical hang out/go out situation , but I also don't want to come off looking like a jerk/thirsty and for it spread around to the ppl we both know.

We're supposed to go out again tomorrow night and so we'll see. Tomorrow may be the final straw for me bc I'm not gonna be a sucker. She's not young, so I know she's not naive to things.

What do I do? Why do I keep meeting bad women?

@LeVraiPapi @George Gooney other brehs?

Females are strange creatures, don’t even try to figure em out.

U still in a good position to hit. From what u said, it sound like she just one of them broads who “don’t wanna give it up toooo fast and don’t wanna be seen as a hoe.” Just keep doing what u doing, but always have a “roster” on deck. Cuz abundance is EVERY THING breh.

 

[DapMeUp!]

My PAWG hit me up to tell me she doesn't have her son tonight, and wanted to invite me over but she's on her period?



Well shid least she got her period I guess....

 

[VertigoKnight]

My PAWG hit me up to tell me she doesn't have her son tonight, and wanted to invite me over but she's on her period?



Well shid least she got her period I guess....

You going over?

Ain't nothing wrong with a bit of blood.

 

[John Reena]

My PAWG hit me up to tell me she doesn't have her son tonight, and wanted to invite me over but she's on her period?



Well shid least she got her period I guess....

Shiiid, she can at least suck some dikk