Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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They get bushed because I don't have time for "challenges" AKA games. I'm just not one for bullshyt.

Would you prefer I let them string me along for several months until they get a bf?

I've been down this road so many times, I know the outcome.

I'll keep your advice in mind
Aren't you going on non-date dates with a chick who ain't ready to date? I feel like you're already being gamed a little.
 

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Aren't you going on non-date dates with a chick who ain't ready to date? I feel like you're already being gamed a little.

She says she's not ready to date. Do you believe everything a woman says?

These seem like dates to me. I'm just interested because she actually has her shyt together and we have the same interests.

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Edit: Shy Mexican chick said it's too risky and we don't know each other well enough.

Now I don't know if I can spit game at her friends
:francis:
There were several to choose from, I managed to pick the wrong one.
 
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non-dating PAWG sent me a text asking me if I want to go carve pumpkins with her
:comeon:


:patrice:
 
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non-dating PAWG sent me a text asking me if I want to go carve pumpkins with her
:comeon:


:patrice:

Don't say NO. I dont know what you look like but the problem seems to be you. You cone across as a nice kid. You're not the goofy bravado type. However you wanna move fast. There girls will want experiences with you, social activities... Nothing wrong with carving pumpkin with her. Use that time to know her and ask some questions. I would go there and act like a dumbass and have her teach me. Have her hold your wrist to help you carve. Women love that. It shows humility towards her. Then take pucs of the achievement. Compliment her and tell her shes a goid teacher. Then, tell her you enjoy the time together and now you have the door open to a late night movie. Then, you can start by kissing her goodbye. I would build her up to make her think I want to kiss her lips, only to kiss both sides of her cheek and kiss her forehead. Thats with my arms holding her upper arms. I'm saying all this because it seems you rushing to it and it may make you look thirsty. You gotta play it cool with some chicks.

As for the Mexican chick, how did the dating subject come about ?

I never raise that subject. I just do and do and make them feel like they getting sweated and then dangle it right in front of them.

Now update on the chick from the restaurant:

Met that chick at a restaurant where she works the bar and take out. So I asked her to help me take my food to my car and I asked for her number. Mind you, there were about 5 dudes in there simping and sweating.


That was about 2 weeks ago I think lol

Now, she basically just told me she is very jealous and she has plenty options. So, I replied " Then consider them. Your options are yours. Just make sure you make a choice you can live with"

Then, she said its because I dont wanna value her and I dont even tell her shes beautiful. I told her "well, you hear it every day from others. I didnt know mIne would matter. " she said "well how about you start being a gentleman and I wanna hear it from you" I'm like "well, good things come to those who wait. But for me, they come when I want them to" she replied "Gosh, I hate you. Its embarrassing"

I did not even botber to reply yet. I left her on READ. We gonna hang out today and she told me abstinence til marriage. I'm like "Fair enough"


@RRTANGENTABACUS play the long game bro. Trust me. Its worth it. Don't ever look thirsty
 

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@RRTANGENTABACUS about the mexican chick, did you go out with her ? What was she like ? Do you know what she likes to do? What she enjoys? Sonething she would love to do but never done before ?

The Mexican chick got cold feet. She called me saying that it's too risky because she doesn't know me yet, plus she's going back home to Mexico in a few weeks and she doesn't want to get attached and leave.


I already saw a movie with the PAWG. She invited me to see the Joker this weekend.
We both enjoy dance and we even met in a dance class, she wants to be my dance partner. But then she said "and you can't date your dance partner." She also asked me a few times that when I get a girlfriend, please don't drop her for the girlfriend.

We have nearly everything in common, down to little niche things, and she's independent, going for her Doctorate. I'm very direct and I'm not a fan of the mixed signals.


It looks like the waitress is testing you snd you're passing the shyt test, she is going to respect you so much more. She is used to being chased, now she is chasing you instead
 

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Have you made out with her or anything? Right now, it sounds like y'all are hanging out and another dude could swoop in at any minute.
The reality is that another dude always could swoop in at any minute, even if you're in a relationship with her.

I'm getting bored of waiting already, so I'll just start to fall back on hanging out with her. If she really wanted to be with me, she'd already be with me.

There are a couple more women I've met that I'm really feeling, but there are some roadblocks that make me want to skip on them.

One is extremely hardcore Christian, and I know the sex before marriage won't fly with her. Plus she's a nurse and her work schedule is the opposite of mine.

The other one works for the Department of Corrections with inmates post-release. Kinda like social services. She says the job makes her paranoid about who she can trust. Meanwhile, I have a violent felony. There's no way it would work, she'd never feel safe around me
 
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I go to the gym, but I rather drink and chase after women sometimes. I'm only human after all :yeshrug:
Don't see why you cant do both:ehh:

Feels good to get a good workout in. Had the black wife beater on and some cute lil hispanic chick kept watching me while I was squatting. But I have a rule that if im in the gym then fukk everything else. :myman:
 

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Talking to this girl online, told her

“I’d like to see you in those pants”

She goes: huh?


:mjlol:

How would you respond?

I know when women say huh usually means “I’ll give you one more chance to clean it up”

Seems like women love to play dumb with certain questions.
 

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Talking to this girl online, told her

“I’d like to see you in those pants”

She goes: huh?


:mjlol:

How would you respond?

I know when women say huh usually means “I’ll give you one more chance to clean it up”

Seems like women love to play dumb with certain questions.
Shes testing you. Repeat the same statement. "I'd like to see you in those pants in person, they're nice! where'd you get them?"
 
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