non-dating PAWG sent me a text asking me if I want to go carve pumpkins with her
Don't say NO. I dont know what you look like but the problem seems to be you. You cone across as a nice kid. You're not the goofy bravado type. However you wanna move fast. There girls will want experiences with you, social activities... Nothing wrong with carving pumpkin with her. Use that time to know her and ask some questions. I would go there and act like a dumbass and have her teach me. Have her hold your wrist to help you carve. Women love that. It shows humility towards her. Then take pucs of the achievement. Compliment her and tell her shes a goid teacher. Then, tell her you enjoy the time together and now you have the door open to a late night movie. Then, you can start by kissing her goodbye. I would build her up to make her think I want to kiss her lips, only to kiss both sides of her cheek and kiss her forehead. Thats with my arms holding her upper arms. I'm saying all this because it seems you rushing to it and it may make you look thirsty. You gotta play it cool with some chicks.
As for the Mexican chick, how did the dating subject come about ?
I never raise that subject. I just do and do and make them feel like they getting sweated and then dangle it right in front of them.
Now update on the chick from the restaurant:
Met that chick at a restaurant where she works the bar and take out. So I asked her to help me take my food to my car and I asked for her number. Mind you, there were about 5 dudes in there simping and sweating.
That was about 2 weeks ago I think lol
Now, she basically just told me she is very jealous and she has plenty options. So, I replied " Then consider them. Your options are yours. Just make sure you make a choice you can live with"
Then, she said its because I dont wanna value her and I dont even tell her shes beautiful. I told her "well, you hear it every day from others. I didnt know mIne would matter. " she said "well how about you start being a gentleman and I wanna hear it from you" I'm like "well, good things come to those who wait. But for me, they come when I want them to" she replied "Gosh, I hate you. Its embarrassing"
I did not even botber to reply yet. I left her on READ. We gonna hang out today and she told me abstinence til marriage. I'm like "Fair enough"
@RRTANGENTABACUS play the long game bro. Trust me. Its worth it. Don't ever look thirsty