Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ohene

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Question:

Your girl uses your whip for a week. She goes to work everyday, but you find out she go pick up a female coworker a couple of times for work.

You ask her why she never communicated that with you, until you had to question this random address in the gps. You never once mentioned it could possibly be another nikka or something.

She gets pissed, proves that it's actually her coworker, and argues that she shouldn't have to tell you minor things like that. Accuses you of micromanaging her.. ???

Who is in the wrong? Also, opinions?
theres no reason for her to get angry ...just say "oh, that was a female coworker i carpoled with"
then if you ask for proof...and she has it she can get annoyed

i say that cause my girl be doing the most asking all kinds of small annoying questions. she wants to know everything im doing and everything on my mind. i tell her, if theres no point in her knowing minute details or nothing good will come from it...why would i say it. that she needs to chill. so i get what youre girl is saying with micromanaging...but its your whip, so like homie said you have a right to know where she going with it.
 

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she gave me her number. i asked her out that weekend. "oh no, im busy this weekend with family, ill let you know"

that was 3 weeks ago :wow:

Go silent on her. Women always want to know what’s up with you so she’ll eventually ask if she had any interest. She’ll be like hey, wyd or what you up to? And I’d be like: who dis?

:sas1: Lol stay mysterious and let her wallow in her bullshyt. Also, don’t answer her text so quickly. Answer then ignore her ass for the next day or so. She holla about some bs or your lack or attention go ahead and flush her. Cause she ain’t shyt!

:martin:
 

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she gave me her number. i asked her out that weekend. "sorry:( im busy this weekend with family, ill let you know"

that was 3 weeks ago

The old busy with family excuse.

So she didn't even offer another day? Yeah she's not feeling it atm. She may have another breh on deck for now.

She may come around again but I'd move on for now. You contacting her again will look desperate.

The fukkery is in 5 weeks she may contact you out of the blue. And you may get your chance.
 

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The old busy with family excuse.

So she didn't even offer another day? Yeah she's not feeling it atm. She may have another breh on deck for now.

She may come around again but I'd move on for now. You contacting her again will look desperate.

The fukkery is in 5 weeks she may contact you out of the blue. And you may get your chance.

Is it worth it? Do you really want to eat a 5-week old meal?
 

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It's drought season again :mjcry:,but the last time I went through a drought I was moping around feeling sorry for myself. This time around I'm spending my extra time in the gym, and socializing more. I even was awarded an Air Force medal and passed my EOC for my career field. All this happened while I'm in a sexual drought. My next goal is to work on my education.
 

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Y'all bag joints in the morning?

I'm one of those people who believes if a woman likes you she'll stay around or at least tell you to grab her number. (my game is pretty lazy)

So this girl this morning has a dope distressed nipsey hussle hat on & I stop her and....

Me: Hey, where did you get the hat?

Her: :wub: I stole it from my friend (Probably a nikka she fukking)

Me: oh.. soo you're not the plug?

Her: *giggling* nah (body language is facing away and shes walking away)

Me: iight lol have a good day.

:manny:
 

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Y'all bag joints in the morning?

I'm one of those people who believes if a woman likes you she'll stay around or at least tell you to grab her number. (my game is pretty lazy)

So this girl this morning has a dope distressed nipsey hussle hat on & I stop her and....

Me: Hey, where did you get the hat?

Her: :wub: I stole it from my friend (Probably a nikka she fukking)

Me: oh.. soo you're not the plug?

Her: *giggling* nah (body language is facing away and shes walking away)

Me: iight lol have a good day.

:manny:
You didn't ask for her number
 

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Is it worth it? Do you really want to eat a 5-week old meal?

Usually not ha, I like my meals focused and fresh for me.

She's certainly not dating material for me, if she behaves like that.

By the time those kind of chicks come round I've moved onto someone else. Sometimes it's the satisfaction of airing them or pushing the limit with them as you no longer care about their reaction.
 

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It's drought season again :mjcry:,but the last time I went through a drought I was moping around feeling sorry for myself. This time around I'm spending my extra time in the gym, and socializing more. I even was awarded an Air Force medal and passed my EOC for my career field. All this happened while I'm in a sexual drought. My next goal is to work on my education.

Test and make rank, you on your purpose!
 
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