Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So I get a text notification at 6:50 this morning and...

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And before anyone comes at her. I can verify that she ain’t bullshyttin. She legit has problems with depression.


Any experience with this situation, brehs? She’s still in the bushes but I feel bad and have feelings for her. Do I try to be supportive as a friend?:patrice:
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So I get a text notification at 6:50 this morning and...

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And before anyone comes at her. I can verify that she ain’t bullshyttin. She legit has problems with depression.


Any experience with this situation, brehs? She’s still in the bushes but I feel bad and have feelings for her. Do I try to be supportive as a friend?:patrice:
@Lord Scarf @VertigoKnight @Silkk
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We all have to learn one day


Honestly I can say for me there is nothing a chick can do to make me feel :to: anymore

I told him to come to see me yesterday.

Damn this chick did him ruthlessly. So they were both in her bed, hugged up when they started chatting and the conversation turned left.

Then she told him he could still stay the night if he wanted to. I'll give him this, he at least had the dignity to get up, get dressed and leave.

Apparently, she's been messaging him but he says the trust has gone completely. How do you smile when a chick tells you that and then except you both to remain cool with one another. This guy was faithful to her as well, concentrated on her and only her the entirety of them seeing each other. He won't say it but he was in love with her. This was his dream girl. She was into carpentry and making things, she rides motorbikes.

He asked what the point of the last 6 months was if this is how she felt all along.
 

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HOW BOUT NOW???
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I'm in a similar situation now. Dont throw her completely to the bushes. Just say a prayer for her and pray for blessings to come her way, let her come back to you when she's ready and focus on some other chicks in the meantime. It's okay to be a good friend sometimes to a woman, this is one of those scenarios.
 

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I told him to come to see me yesterday.

Damn this chick did him ruthlessly. So they were both in her bed, hugged up when they started chatting and the conversation turned left.

Then she told him he could still stay the night if he wanted to. I'll give him this, he at least had the dignity to get up, get dressed and leave.

Apparently, she's been messaging him but he says the trust has gone completely. How do you smile when a chick tells you that and then except you both to remain cool with one another. This guy was faithful to her as well, concentrated on her and only her the entirety of them seeing each other. He won't say it but he was in love with her. This was his dream girl. She was into carpentry and making things, she rides motorbikes.

He asked what the point of the last 6 months was if this is how she felt all along.

It’s tough I’ve been there that’s how women are can love you want to birth your children on Monday and then on Tuesday feel absolutely nothing for you

And it doesn’t matter what you do actually doing anything makes it worse the best thing you can do is just accept and walk away and push forward


The chicks I’ve never said anything to after having them things dropped always seem to come back but the ones I tried to reignite the fire just pushed me further away

It’s a tough lesson to learn in life to never put anything past any chick even Peyton Manning was cut by the colts when they got their new shiny toy .

Crazy thing that chick prob stayed with a dude for years who treated her like trash and played with her emotions but your boy just got six months and he treated her well
 

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Hmm it's hard as a ton of chicks, have low key depression and won't admit it to themselves. Heck a lot of guys have it as well. Admittance is the first road to understanding and recovery. One chick I used to see regularly is going through the same thing. But she's been doing therapy to talk through her issues.

This woman is at least able to be open with you regarding her behavior.

With the woman I know, we talk sporadically but she feels she needs to sort herself out properly. I love this woman. Probably the only one I do out of all the women I see/seen. So if she initiates contact we'll talk.

If you feel for her, then be there for some support if she reaches out.
 

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I’d just wish her well hope she’s able to conquer whatever she is going through and leave it like that.

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I mean since technically this is a break up. Do I respond to the text or say nothing? Because that's what we do during normal break ups. No closure. But I care about this girl and she didn't do me foul at all. Tough situation :jbhmm:
 

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I mean since technically this is a break up. Do I respond to the text or say nothing? Because that's what we do during normal break ups. No closure. But I care about this girl and she didn't do me foul at all. Tough situation :jbhmm:

Short and concise or nothing at all
Just don’t write some long paragraph etc back

Women who usually pour out long texts after breakups etc are just doing it to relieve their guilt
 

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Short and concise or nothing at all
Just don’t write some long paragraph etc back

Women who usually pour out long texts after breakups etc are just doing it to relieve their guilt
I really don't know how to respond breh. What would you say if you were me?
 
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