Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Off to dinner at a Paags apartment.

First date with her I was off my game a bit. There will be no such mistakes this evening. And she iniatied to tonight.

Going to cook, then have some edibles and then hopefully

:shaq:

Told this chick I was on my way and she told me she was just jumping in the shower.

Turned up to her place and she opened her door wearing just a Kimono dressing gown with nothing underneath.
:takedat:

Immediately knew what was on the menu that evening. Anyway had a nice dinner, chatted then relaxed. Then got down to the real reason we were meeting up. Smashed twice. Chick was surprisingly rowdy, hella dirty talk. Kind of fun to see her sexual personality vs her stoic take no bullshyt day to day persona.

And surprise, surprise yet another woman who has the "not looking for hookups" on her Tinder page. And yet here she was asking me to spread her wide open while I spank her ass

:lolbron:

I'll probably see her again. Not relationship material for me though.
 

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I lost a friend today. A female. She heard I played that girl for putting me on a blog and she tried to boss up. So I let off the clip.

She's a single mother 25 years old. She's very choose and picky with men. She has no degrees. She just works at a Red Lobster where simps shower her with tips, flowers and gifts. She turned down a guy that's a physical therapist because the guy doesnt have abs. :dead:

I told her to join this site so she can get a sense of what her future looks like.

Let me also add her child father is a deadbeat negga that basically dipped out.

She says she's cute and she wants to pick the best man available out the bunch. Little that she knows not everybody tryying to raise a kid thats not theirs.

She said I'm too cocky and think I'm hot shyt cuz I pull a Benz and make a little money. I told her "Damn right, you think you hot shyt and you ain't got shyt going for you. So why should I not think I'm hot shyt? I'm a fukking catch. I got my own shyt. I can charge bytches like you for dates when you going to your parents. Lets bet. Take me to your parents and see if they dont like me. Cuz they know you got yourself an upgrade. "

She the said "so you had all those in your heart and we were cool? Like what type of person are you?" I just shrugged and she left.

Dont let these girls put you down. I see a trend in girls using IG quotes and think neggas aint shyt even if they got nothing going for them. They are selfish and arrogant. Dont let them get away with shyt from the minute they start talking to you. Thats how they start.

I let that single mother get away with shyt cuz I saw her as a little sister but she kept on bossing up and I told her to chill but she always answers with.

"Yeah I know I'm a bytch and its in my nature to offend people" insert dumb shrug smiley.

I should have blocked her feom that time but I never looked at her as nothing but a homie since I knew all her situation.

For somebody u claim u don’t care about, u sure had a lot to say.
 

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Also this morning had a real life quick gems thread chat with my friend

His GF of 6 months dumped him last night. Guy is real cut up about it. So they'd gone to a dinner party yesterday went back to her place afterwards and he felt the mood was off so asked her what was up? she told him she doesn't love him and needs to feel that to be with someone. He told her well if you don't love me what are we doing? She told him he was right and ended it.

All the signs were there. He'd felt shes been distant past few weeks. And she had told him she wanted a chat 3 weeks ago, but then wouldn't say what it was about. I told him she'd probably felt that way for weeks. For her it was probably a summer fling.

This chick though, a few weeks ago she messaged me on FB asking if I wanted to go and see Lion King with her as he didn't want to.

Now she did this without telling him she had done so. I respectfully declined and told her I was busy. I didn't say anything to my friend as I didn't want to cause some aggro. And I didn't know if her invite was innocent or her testing the waters.

Did tell him she's probably got a new guy ready to go.

:sadcam:

This a guy who doesn't have a lot of luck with picking up women so this one will sting.
 

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Chic that tried to friendzoned me two weeks ago just hit me asking if we're still friends blah blah How I get friendzoned after I done had your titties in my mouth the week before :stopitslime: when I left her she texted "I don't like how that ended" I hit her with the "get home safe" and that was that :yeshrug:

When I get FZ i go no contact cause wtf we talking about. bytches hate that shyt cause you not chasing them down after the fact:francis: so here she is now

I honestly feel like I can still hit this but IDGAF anymore I can't deal with the games. I feel like being petty and saying "I'm good luv, enjoy":russ:
Somebody just dapped this so I read it again.


Update..... I fukked:russ:
 

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-“You not a alpha male if you didn’t fukk 30 women at 30”

“You guys need to stop trying to fukk a lot of women and focus on your purpose, chasing ass will make you broke”

-“None of y’all fukked more bytches than me”

“If you chase ass you will be broke and unsuccessful”

-“I like being alone because women annoy me”

“If I didn’t have women in my life I’d be one lonely muthafukka, I love female companionship”

Entertaining dude, but he’s all over the place.

:mjlol:
I thought of some more.

-"Never validate these bytches"

-"You gotta feed 'em straps(scraps)"

-"Stop chasing ass!"

-"Make sure you talking to more than one woman at a time. you need a rotation!"

:mjgrin::russ:
 

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I thought of some more.

-"Never validate these bytches"

-"You gotta feed 'em straps(scraps)"

-"Stop chasing ass!"

-"Make sure you talking to more than one woman at a time. you need a rotation!"

:mjgrin::russ:

Explain this to me....

You not a alpha if you haven’t fukked 30-100 women by 30, but you also are not a alpha if you focus on chasing ass.

So what is an alpha?

What’s the answer to this riddle?

:jbhmm:
 

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Also this morning had a real life quick gems thread chat with my friend

His GF of 6 months dumped him last night. Guy is real cut up about it. So they'd gone to a dinner party yesterday went back to her place afterwards and he felt the mood was off so asked her what was up? she told him she doesn't love him and needs to feel that to be with someone. He told her well if you don't love me what are we doing? She told him he was right and ended it.

All the signs were there. He'd felt shes been distant past few weeks. And she had told him she wanted a chat 3 weeks ago, but then wouldn't say what it was about. I told him she'd probably felt that way for weeks. For her it was probably a summer fling.

This chick though, a few weeks ago she messaged me on FB asking if I wanted to go and see Lion King with her as he didn't want to.

Now she did this without telling him she had done so. I respectfully declined and told her I was busy. I didn't say anything to my friend as I didn't want to cause some aggro. And I didn't know if her invite was innocent or her testing the waters.

Did tell him she's probably got a new guy ready to go.

:sadcam:

This a guy who doesn't have a lot of luck with picking up women so this one will sting.

We all have to learn one day


Honestly I can say for me there is nothing a chick can do to make me feel :to: anymore
 

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So I get a text notification at 6:50 this morning and...

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And before anyone comes at her. I can verify that she ain’t bullshyttin. She legit has problems with depression.


Any experience with this situation, brehs? She’s still in the bushes but I feel bad and have feelings for her. Do I try to be supportive as a friend?:patrice:
@Lord Scarf @VertigoKnight @Silkk @Balla
 
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