Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yeah I would have told her why u dropping me off if we going to the same place?

I would think she was doing something she ain’t want you to know, and she’s a stripper, so I mean, you can’t really think they aren’t doing anything.

She's a stripper, probably went to turn a trick real quick for some extra money for the night out.
 

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Never cuff a woman that you're having sex with casually. A vast majority of the time, women that you are FWBs with are in 2 catagories:

Type A: the most don't give a damn about your life, nor what you're going through, you're just an option in case she wants some sex. Situations like this normally work out, because you don't really care about getting rid of her like that, nor would it be that difficult to get her back.

Type B (most common):
The one that really does like you, cares about you, and wants to be with you in the end, but is willing to move at your pace. This sounds great, but a lot of these women are low-key thots. A lot of dudes can get in their ear and get them to do anything. Furthermore, a lot of them don't like you, they just like the challenge. As soon as they get with you, the feelings are going to slowly start to fade away. Challenge is gone.

Any respectable woman would leave as soon as she realizes that she is a friend with benefits. she would fall back completely unless you called her and said that you wanted to be in a relationship.
 

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Never cuff a woman that you're having sex with casually. A vast majority of the time, women that you are FWBs with are in 2 catagories:

Type A: the most don't give a damn about your life, nor what you're going through, you're just an option in case she wants some sex. Situations like this normally work out, because you don't really care about getting rid of her like that, nor would it be that difficult to get her back.

Type B (most common):
The one that really does like you, cares about you, and wants to be with you in the end, but is willing to move at your pace. This sounds great, but a lot of these women are low-key thots. A lot of dudes can get in their ear and get them to do anything. Furthermore, a lot of them don't like you, they just like the challenge. As soon as they get with you, the feelings are going to slowly start to fade away. Challenge is gone.

Any respectable woman would leave as soon as she realizes that she is a friend with benefits. she would fall back completely unless you called her and said that you wanted to be in a relationship.
This is bad Advice. You dudes gotta stop pedestalizing sex so much.
 

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That's where I fukked up, with young and attractive women you have to make your intentions clear from the jump.
I'm used to dealing with average, ugly, so I have this "I'll get to when I get to it" attitude with women

How did you find out another guy was in the picture ?
 

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This is bad Advice. You dudes gotta stop pedestalizing sex so much.

Are you going to explain your stance? Wouldn't telling dudes not to get with a chick that your FWB with be the opposite of pedestalizing sex? I'm trying to understand where I put sex on a pedestal. I'm just saying not to cuff a friend with benefits because most of them are just in it for the challenge of converting you to a boyfriend.
 
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Are you going to explain your stance? I'm trying to understand where I put sex on a pedestal. I'm just saying not to cuff a friend with benefits because most of them are just in it for the challenge of converting you to a boyfriend.
All of your women should start off as "FWB". You should be fukking a chick for a while before you even think of making her your girl. Sex means too much to men nowadays. dudes be like "yea I smashed :jawalrus: she my girl now." Then she never ever contact you again and dudes be :mjcry:. Women don't make men they want badly wait long for sex. Sex is not important to women. They just play that role with "beta males".
 
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