Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Marzupial]

@biscuitsnbangers left a lot of important info out that 1st post like dropping 300 to teach black jack that totally changes everything

If you say you interested on him but you don't wanna " double text" ( lol) it sounds that you just want attention so I hope he bushes you, it would be the best for both

 

[NotaPAWG]

@biscuitsnbangers left a lot of important info out that 1st post like dropping 300 to teach black jack that totally changes everything

If you say you interested on him but you don't wanna " double text" ( lol) it sounds that you just want attention so I hope he bushes you, it would be the best for both

i am very interested, just don’t want to come off as desperate or needy, or indirectly beg someone to talk to me. not gonna double text looking for a response when he is at work and come off crazy and scare him away lol

 

[NotaPAWG]

@Marzupial and what does dropping dough like that to teach me black jack say? that he’s actual interested? a simp? or doesn’t care about spending money to show a women a good time?

i’m interested in how that changes everything. i’m genuinely curious to know the inner workings of men lol hence why i stay lurking this thread

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[FishNGrits]

......

I ran into this girl at a bar after being completely disrespectful to her and she took me home and let me hit....


She was curving me when I wanted to take her out respectfully

I’m laid up next to her rn.

THIS bytch GOT STOCKHOLM SYNDROME

SHE IN DA PALM OF MY HAND NOW

She took too long to respond to another date request so i just ignored her and her messages went from

"im busy"

3 hours later

"hey whatcha doing tommorrow"

another 4 hours

"you free tonight"


10 min ago

"my room mate outta town"


Im gonna fukk her and dip then take that cute teacher who dont waste my time and responds in a timely matter on a nice proper date tomorrow

 

[VertigoKnight]

nah, if i get bushed over that it is what it is.

i explicitly let him know my standards, that i’m not interested in jsut hooking up and that’s not my thing. if he’s annoyed cause he didn’t get some p*ssy cause HE thought dropping a few bills to teach me black jack was gonna get him laid that was his mistake. not gonna lower my standards or become low hanging fruit to get fukked and dumped.

What number date would you consider sleeping with him?

I know women see sex differently but I've slept with women on a first date and it doesn't change my opinion of them.

We both wanted it. And if a woman's personality is great, I'm going to want to hang out and get to know her more anyway.

For me sexual compatibility is important if we smash and it's not there it sours other things for me. I've got to know early.

 

[NotaPAWG]

He probably seeing you as an attention whore, you bout to get the

nope, he just asked to see me again tonight

 

[Silkk]

nope, he just asked to see me again tonight

Wear your nice drawls tonight

 

[Ahadi]

What's more effective?
Leaving a message unread? (continuing with my life)
Or leaving a message on read? (continuing with my life)

 

[VertigoKnight]

What's more effective?
Leaving a message unread? (continuing with my life)
Or leaving a message on read? (continuing with my life)

Both send the same message.

I would say leaving it on read stings a chick a little bit more though.

 

[The Message]

it’s been a loooong time since i was a college student but “come thru and study” was one of the og “nextflix & chill”

breh shoulda handled his biz

 

[Pyrexcup]

ill be in london next week (im from europe though and have been in london before) how can i best eat? ill probably be out in camden most likely and only out to party for one day how can i best eat @VertigoKnight

 

[CarmelBarbie]

i need advice from men..

i met this guy off of Bumble, he was pursuing and putting kinda pressure on me to meet up and hang out, even though I was hesitant also because i’m financially strapped. he insisted anyways and offered to pay. and realized i probably shouldn’t be on a dating app since i’m trying to heal from my ex and our abusive relationship that was traumatizing to me. We made plans to hang out then i explained my situation to him and he appreciated my honesty but still encouraged me to at least give it a chance and told me not to over complicate things.

So we met up at a local bar, had a few drinks. We hit it off really well in my opinion, he was kind, a gentleman, funny, easy to talk to. He worked in finance on wallstreet and left that to become a golf pro. Were kinda opposites in terms of upbringing. But still had a lot in common. Anyways, about 12 he asked me if i was up for learning black jack because he mentioned he’d teach me prior to meeting up.

We ended up playing black jack until like 3:30-4 am, after we sat in his car and talked for awhile.

We flirted, kissed. etc he wanted to take it further and go back to his place and “watch a movie” but i stopped that and knew what it was he wanted. And i wasn’t trynna to sleep with him as casual sex isn’t my thing and i hold myself to higher standards now. Anyways, so i had him bring me to my car, thanked him for taking me out and we split ways..

and texted him a couple hours ago, wishing him a nice day at work. no response, before we hung out, he was the one texting me, getting no responses, kinda not taken seriously given my ex situation etc..

am i overthinking this? or over complicating it?

i was really into him. someone who had to convince me to even go out, but i really ended up enjoying my time with so if he dubs me i’ll be disappointed

i’ll let him pursue me. if he’s interested in seeing me again he’ll show it but it’s hard to not wonder what i did wrong or maybe i’m just being insecure or anxious

I thought you were in that open relationship with the young religious breh? What happened?!

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

i need advice from men..

i met this guy off of Bumble, he was pursuing and putting kinda pressure on me to meet up and hang out, even though I was hesitant also because i’m financially strapped. he insisted anyways and offered to pay. and realized i probably shouldn’t be on a dating app since i’m trying to heal from my ex and our abusive relationship that was traumatizing to me. We made plans to hang out then i explained my situation to him and he appreciated my honesty but still encouraged me to at least give it a chance and told me not to over complicate things.

So we met up at a local bar, had a few drinks. We hit it off really well in my opinion, he was kind, a gentleman, funny, easy to talk to. He worked in finance on wallstreet and left that to become a golf pro. Were kinda opposites in terms of upbringing. But still had a lot in common. Anyways, about 12 he asked me if i was up for learning black jack because he mentioned he’d teach me prior to meeting up.

We ended up playing black jack until like 3:30-4 am, after we sat in his car and talked for awhile.

We flirted, kissed. etc he wanted to take it further and go back to his place and “watch a movie” but i stopped that and knew what it was he wanted. And i wasn’t trynna to sleep with him as casual sex isn’t my thing and i hold myself to higher standards now. Anyways, so i had him bring me to my car, thanked him for taking me out and we split ways..

and texted him a couple hours ago, wishing him a nice day at work. no response, before we hung out, he was the one texting me, getting no responses, kinda not taken seriously given my ex situation etc..

am i overthinking this? or over complicating it?

i was really into him. someone who had to convince me to even go out, but i really ended up enjoying my time with so if he dubs me i’ll be disappointed

i’ll let him pursue me. if he’s interested in seeing me again he’ll show it but it’s hard to not wonder what i did wrong or maybe i’m just being insecure or anxious

This white bytch
He doesn’t want your no having ass, Look at you - you probably smelled of meth and loosies dipped in Jack Daniel

 

[Worthless Loser]

@biscuitsnbangers weren't you just posting about your boyfriend being such a masculine, strong leader who's strength as a black man showed you how weak white men were? He had you acting like Common when he was with Erykah Badu. That's over already???