Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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biscuitsnbangers said:
i need advice from men..

i met this guy off of Bumble, he was pursuing and putting kinda pressure on me to meet up and hang out, even though I was hesitant also because i’m financially strapped. he insisted anyways and offered to pay. and realized i probably shouldn’t be on a dating app since i’m trying to heal from my ex and our abusive relationship that was traumatizing to me. We made plans to hang out then i explained my situation to him and he appreciated my honesty but still encouraged me to at least give it a chance and told me not to over complicate things.

So we met up at a local bar, had a few drinks. We hit it off really well in my opinion, he was kind, a gentleman, funny, easy to talk to. He worked in finance on wallstreet and left that to become a golf pro. Were kinda opposites in terms of upbringing. But still had a lot in common. Anyways, about 12 he asked me if i was up for learning black jack because he mentioned he’d teach me prior to meeting up.

We ended up playing black jack until like 3:30-4 am, after we sat in his car and talked for awhile.

We flirted, kissed. etc he wanted to take it further and go back to his place and “watch a movie” but i stopped that and knew what it was he wanted. And i wasn’t trynna to sleep with him as casual sex isn’t my thing and i hold myself to higher standards now. Anyways, so i had him bring me to my car, thanked him for taking me out and we split ways..

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and texted him a couple hours ago, wishing him a nice day at work. no response, before we hung out, he was the one texting me, getting no responses, kinda not taken seriously given my ex situation etc..

am i overthinking this? or over complicating it?

i was really into him. someone who had to convince me to even go out, but i really ended up enjoying my time with so if he dubs me i’ll be disappointed

i’ll let him pursue me. if he’s interested in seeing me again he’ll show it but it’s hard to not wonder what i did wrong or maybe i’m just being insecure or anxious
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Don't think too much. He'll be back. He's playing it cool. He's gonna take his time responding to your texts.
 
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biscuitsnbangers said:
Yeah, i mean.. he probably figured since he paid for drinks and dropped 300 teaching me how to play black jack he’d get some. he seems like a calculated man that’s a charmer and knows how to get into a women’s pants just with his mouth. probably annoyed it didn’t work on me since it usually does for him.

i know the games men play and wasn’t gonna put myself in a position to be fukked and thrown to the bushes. rather not give it up and not feel regret then give it up and feel used. ‍♀️
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Wait what??? He spent 300 DOLLARS?
 
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Silkk said:
:patrice: You might want to at least send him some pics or something
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he doesn’t seem like that type of guy tbh. more into seeing the real thing. doesn’t like to be played with or games.

for example, before we met up, we were talking here and there for a few days. we started talking Sunday night? he asked me to hang out that night. i declined because of work. then again tuesday. then last night, which i finally did because i don’t work friday’s.

in our conversations which just came natural to us, he voiced he’d rather do the real thing as opposed to over text soo
 
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biscuitsnbangers said:
he doesn’t seem like that type of guy tbh. more into seeing the real thing. doesn’t like to be played with or games.

for example, before we met up, we were talking here and there for a few days. we started talking Sunday night? he asked me to hang out that night. i declined because of work. then again tuesday. then last night, which i finally did because i don’t work friday’s.

in our conversations which just came natural to us, he voiced he’d rather do the real thing as opposed to over text soo
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Didn’t know you had already declined his dates twice before....:francis:
 
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biscuitsnbangers said:
he doesn’t seem like that type of guy tbh. more into seeing the real thing. doesn’t like to be played with or games.

for example, before we met up, we were talking here and there for a few days. we started talking Sunday night? he asked me to hang out that night. i declined because of work. then again tuesday. then last night, which i finally did because i don’t work friday’s.

in our conversations which just came natural to us, he voiced he’d rather do the real thing as opposed to over text soo
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Not overly sexual pics. But maybe some selfies of you smiling with a message like "Happy Friday! hope you're having a great day". Let him know you're thinking about him so he doesn't start to feel like a sucka(which he is).
 
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Silkk said:
Didn’t know you had already declined his dates twice before....:francis:
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not because i wasn’t interested but because he was asking me on the spot at 9pm and i wake up for 3:45 am! and work 10-12 hr shifts
 
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George Gooney said:
Not overly sexual pics. But maybe some selfies of you smiling with a message like "Happy Friday! hope you're having a great day". Let him know you're thinking about him so he doesn't start to feel like a sucka(which he is).
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nah, i think wishing him and telling him i hope he has a nice day at work this morning was enough lol not gonna double text since that one i already sent got no response
 
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George Gooney said:
You bout to get bushed. :ufdup: find a way to send that man some pics. Don't have to be today.
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nah, if i get bushed over that it is what it is.

i explicitly let him know my standards, that i’m not interested in jsut hooking up and that’s not my thing. if he’s annoyed cause he didn’t get some p*ssy cause HE thought dropping a few bills to teach me black jack was gonna get him laid that was his mistake. not gonna lower my standards or become low hanging fruit to get fukked and dumped.
 
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