Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[phcitywarrior]

What do my fellow brehs think about me not worrying about her lack of initiating communication right now?

I think early on women will kind of fall back but if she’s interested, she’ll respond with intent. After a while she’ll start initiating contact. She may not want to see too “thirsty” or whatever. You know how women be.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

She was going to see me but didn't. Admitted I was "too aggressive". Didn't elaborate even though I asked what I could do to not come off like that. Now only responses in one words.

Take the L and move on..

Did you admit you were too aggressive?

Asking a woman how to not come off as aggressive?



Who cares how she takes your aggression..unless you tried to molest the bish

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

African women trip off that?

Jamaicans are like boogeymen to black women Them jamaicans breh usually don't take no shyt from women..Jamaicans have a rep for having rosters of bytches too

To white chicks jamaicans are swagged out masculine sex studs.

 

[Ohene]

So I decide to hit her every other day for small convo and catch up before I try to link up again this week. She’s responsive when we text, but I do feel a way that I’m always initiating the contact.

My homie says to not look to deep into that and that maybe she wants to see how consistent I am before she goes all in with her interest in me, but idk if I’m going for all that

We talked yesterday, I plan to hit her up tomorrow and Thursday(which will also be the day I hit her with a link up move).

What do my fellow brehs think about me not worrying about her lack of initiating communication right now?

i had a similar issue with my current gf. i've had to call her out on it and when i do she is responsive.

some women just used to men doing all the initiating and planning

 

[Ohene]

African women trip off that?

definitely

 

[Ohene]

Lol she finally messaged me



By the way, I wanted to share my thoughts from Monday... I realized how important chivalry is for me.
I couldn’t stop thinking about that moment it started raining & you comfortably put on your windbreaker hoodie as I was getting wet. I’m in an open back dress, no sweater or jacket but you were taken care of and seemed good.
Luckily I had an umbrella in the car but even you having had a jacket on, you could have offered to help grab it from the car but instead you let me go into the rain.
That just spoke volumes to me about what chivalry means to you.

im with her on that one breh

sometimes you gotta put in some more effort and be considerate...for the right girl.
it goes a long way as well too. i pulled my girls seat out a few weeks ago and she was taken aback, giddy. i only did it cause i was already standing there ...and it was kinda jokingly if anything. but meh...she liked it

 

[Ohene]

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Everything she said was true but not my problem that I came prepared for the weather

to avoid situatiosn like this it helps to look out for them beforehand.
if you see its cold or gonna rain ...let them know , "hey its about to rain so make sure you bring a coat"
if you're going out on a date that doesnt involve food, "hey did you eat already? let me know and maybe we can grab a bite before we head out"



it lets them know that you are considerate and looking out for them...that youre thoughtful

we as men have a lot of pressure on us when it comes to dating. i had to learn some of this shyt the hard way and I've become a better man for it. the thing is, a real, mature woman will communicate how she hopes or expects to be treated and will give you a chance to make those changes. Immature bytches who lack patience will knee jerk react, complain and block your number or ghost you resulting in you doing what they wanted for another more fortunate woman

 

[MikelArteta]

to avoid situatiosn like this it helps to look out for them beforehand.
if you see its cold or gonna rain ...let them know , "hey its about to rain so make sure you bring a coat"
if you're going out on a date that doesnt involve food, "hey did you eat already? let me know and maybe we can grab a bite before we head out"



it lets them know that you are considerate and looking out for them...that youre thoughtful

we as men have a lot of pressure on us when it comes to dating. i had to learn some of this shyt the hard way and I've become a better man for it. the thing is, a real, mature woman will communicate how she hopes or expects to be treated and will give you a chance to make those changes. Immature bytches who lack patience will knee jerk react, complain and block your number or ghost you resulting in you doing what they wanted for another more fortunate woman

Good points thanks breh

 

[TRUEST]

To the brehs in here worried about always initiating with their girl, your concern is valid.

U constantly being the initiator gives off the vibe you’re more sprung than she is.

 

[Jhoon]

To the brehs in here worried about always initiating with their girl, your concern is valid.

U constantly being the initiator gives off the vibe you’re more sprung than she is.

It’s also obvious that she’s not interested like that.

 

[Sinnerman]

Had my second date with the dentist after work at an Italian restaurant

I know the manager, so she hooked us up with free wine and dessert

I've managed to curtail my big simp energy over the past few days, but the date went well

I know she's going to ask the "So what are we" question if we have a third date. I'm not ready right now to get into a relationship, so I won't lie to her

 

[Sinnerman]

I’m going back to pawgs. Was easy and none of these hoops. When I tell African girls I’m Jamaican suddenly it’s

When I tell pawgs I’m Jamaican it’s

I'm Nigerian, but I hear where you're coming from

It seems like a lot of African girls have an easier time dating white dudes then non-African black men

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm Nigerian, but I hear where you're coming from

It seems like a lot of African girls have an easier time dating white dudes then non-African black men

It's crazy as soon as I tell a Nigerian girl I'm Jamaican it's oh

Funny thing when I was in Nigeria no one gave a damn over here it's totally different

 

[FishNGrits]

girl came on to me and asked me fore a date, drunk texting me past midnight I ask her on a date now she wont even text back

man im so done

 

[Atlrocafella]

It’s also obvious that she’s not interested like that.

That’s why I wanted to hear some different views. You’re saying she’s not that interested, others (including my homie) are saying it’s something else.

My normal course of action would be to stop contacting her and move on until she finally hits me up, but I wanna try something different and see if presents different results.

I’m going to at least initiate until the second date. If after that, she’s still on that BS, ima have to bush.