Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm :flabbynsick: gang :whoa: so someone clue me in

I always hear stories about people "sliding in DM's" but are cats really using IG like a dating site? I have a friend who swears he doesn't like dating apps or meeting women online. On the flip, he's beefed up his IG his hella manthot and "living my best life" pics and tells me how he be sliding in bare chicks DM's, which to me isn't much different than being on some of these dating sites :patrice: Am I missing something? :flabbynsick:

Yea, iG can be used as a dating site. My boy bagged his girl by sliding in her DMs. Not sure if it was Twitter or iG but it happened. And yea, his chick is bad. Like a solid 8. Even my sister said in all by boy's pics he be out there "living his best life" e.g. traveling, at concerts, hanging out with friends, always having a good time etc.

I think iG has a "longer trail" of pics for chicks to look at and get a feel of you vibe i.e. 100s of pics on iG vs a handful on most dating sites.
 

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How’s you make the jump?
I have 3 cards,

One is 200
One is 500
One is 3,000

My biggest problem was I had all them hoes maxed out & was using like 108% credit utilization :snoop:

Im at 4% utilization now and have a 730, I’m going to pay off the final $660 tomorrow and I should make one more big jump then im going to apply for a few more higher tier cards to increase my overall limit.

I was buying a bunch of BS and treating my credit as “free money” in the past, now I see how to use them shyts as tools. So now i’m only going to use them to reinvest into my business, travel perks, etc.
 

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I have 3 cards,

One is 200
One is 500
One is 3,000

My biggest problem was I had all them hoes maxed out & was using like 108% credit utilization :snoop:

Im at 4% utilization now and have a 730, I’m going to pay off the final $660 tomorrow and I should make one more big jump then im going to apply for a few more higher tier cards to increase my overall limit.

I was buying a bunch of BS and treating my credit as “free money” in the past, now I see how to use them shyts as tools. So now i’m only going to use them to reinvest into my business, travel perks, etc.

:whew:
 

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I have 3 cards,

One is 200
One is 500
One is 3,000

My biggest problem was I had all them hoes maxed out & was using like 108% credit utilization :snoop:

Im at 4% utilization now and have a 730, I’m going to pay off the final $660 tomorrow and I should make one more big jump then im going to apply for a few more higher tier cards to increase my overall limit.

I was buying a bunch of BS and treating my credit as “free money” in the past, now I see how to use them shyts as tools. So now i’m only going to use them to reinvest into my business, travel perks, etc.

My credit is horrible don't even want to check :to: but I was a idiot who co-signed for people who defaulted and lend people money who never paid me back
 

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My credit is horrible don't even want to check :to: but I was a idiot who co-signed for people who defaulted and lend people money who never paid me back
The one positive to my shyt being so bad in the past is that I couldn’t co-sign shyt. Knowing what I know now about people, I would NEVER do that outside of my immediate fam.
 

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Breh!!!! I was at the store . Got out the parking lot and seen this 44 year old mexican broad her ass was huge!!!! She was selln tamales i was gona ask if she was single but these 2 hood rats were right there lookn at me!

When i left the store i didnt see her again
 

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Breh!!!! I was at the store . Got out the parking lot and seen this 44 year old mexican broad her ass was huge!!!! She was selln tamales i was gona ask if she was single but these 2 hood rats were right there lookn at me!

When i left the store i didnt see her again
i know that feeling. sometimes you dont want an audience and try waiting for a better moment
often times that moment passes
 

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I have 3 cards,

One is 200
One is 500
One is 3,000

My biggest problem was I had all them hoes maxed out & was using like 108% credit utilization :snoop:

Im at 4% utilization now and have a 730, I’m going to pay off the final $660 tomorrow and I should make one more big jump then im going to apply for a few more higher tier cards to increase my overall limit.

I was buying a bunch of BS and treating my credit as “free money” in the past, now I see how to use them shyts as tools. So now i’m only going to use them to reinvest into my business, travel perks, etc.


800 squad here. Best thing ever; Secured Credit Card. I only use as much as I put in. Don't need uber (NYC, so I walk everywhere) and I make small purchases like PC upgrades and clothes in bulk.
 

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800 squad here. Best thing ever; Secured Credit Card. I only use as much as I put in. Don't need uber (NYC, so I walk everywhere) and I make small purchases like PC upgrades and clothes in bulk.
Secured card? :dwillhuh:


You can pretty much get any card you want with an 800 score though :dwillhuh:
 

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I'm :flabbynsick: gang :whoa: so someone clue me in

I always hear stories about people "sliding in DM's" but are cats really using IG like a dating site? I have a friend who swears he doesn't like dating apps or meeting women online. On the flip, he's beefed up his IG his hella manthot and "living my best life" pics and tells me how he be sliding in bare chicks DM's, which to me isn't much different than being on some of these dating sites :patrice: Am I missing something? :flabbynsick:


You can kinda use it as a dating site. The truth is, only girls and rich guys are getting their DM on. You need to manipulate/lie your way into self importance (on social media). As most people will just skip your page if you don't look like you have money, women or influence. For common birds around the area, I have my tactics that have worked pretty well. The best advice I can give you on the topic, is; Don't be afraid to pretend...think Wedding Crashers, the movie. These dames know nothing about you, so create a persona that looks interesting. Fake it till you make it is the goal for Social Media, and some times, real life.
 

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Breh!!!! I was at the store . Got out the parking lot and seen this 44 year old mexican broad her ass was huge!!!! She was selln tamales i was gona ask if she was single but these 2 hood rats were right there lookn at me!

When i left the store i didnt see her again

i know that feeling. sometimes you dont want an audience and try waiting for a better moment
often times that moment passes

Same thing happened to me yesterday. Saw a chick with an incredible phatty at our Town center. Like it was just big. She looked Kenyan too (I do well with em).

Was gonna approach but I was on my lunch break and I wanted to be covert about the approach since mad coworkers were around.
 
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