Going to seem like a a$$hole but I’m about to tell this girl who’s flying out to see me next Friday to cancel or make other arrangements.
She wanted to kick it for a week(go on a mini road trip, and just hang) and now that I’ve really thought about it, it’s not something I want. If it was for a weekend, maybe.
Don’t get me wrong, she’s dope af personality wise, but I don’t see this going anywhere in the long run, plus my mind is all over the place regarding other aspects of my life. Shyt is hectic brehs. My mind is all over the place. I don’t have time to just lay up and hang for a week. I’m trying to put in work and reach the next plateau in my life.
I know if she flys in. I’ll show her a good time, dikk her down good, she’ll get even more emotionally attached and when she leaves the process of me removing myself will happen. Rather do it now then later.
Just trying to figure out how to break it to her
She flew in before and we hung out. She said we had great chemistry and a great connection, but honestly the last couple women have said this when In reality I’ve been zoned out focusing on myself. Smh I really hate hurting ladies feelings when it’s undeserved but that’s how it’ll end up no matter what.