Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Going to seem like a a$$hole but I’m about to tell this girl who’s flying out to see me next Friday to cancel or make other arrangements.:francis:

She wanted to kick it for a week(go on a mini road trip, and just hang) and now that I’ve really thought about it, it’s not something I want. If it was for a weekend, maybe.
Don’t get me wrong, she’s dope af personality wise, but I don’t see this going anywhere in the long run, plus my mind is all over the place regarding other aspects of my life. Shyt is hectic brehs. My mind is all over the place. I don’t have time to just lay up and hang for a week. I’m trying to put in work and reach the next plateau in my life.

I know if she flys in. I’ll show her a good time, dikk her down good, she’ll get even more emotionally attached and when she leaves the process of me removing myself will happen. Rather do it now then later.
Just trying to figure out how to break it to her :snoop:

She flew in before and we hung out. She said we had great chemistry and a great connection, but honestly the last couple women have said this when In reality I’ve been zoned out focusing on myself. Smh I really hate hurting ladies feelings when it’s undeserved but that’s how it’ll end up no matter what.
Smash one last time and before she leaves have the conversation with her:yeshrug:
 

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Going to seem like a a$$hole but I’m about to tell this girl who’s flying out to see me next Friday to cancel or make other arrangements.:francis:

She wanted to kick it for a week(go on a mini road trip, and just hang) and now that I’ve really thought about it, it’s not something I want. If it was for a weekend, maybe.
Don’t get me wrong, she’s dope af personality wise, but I don’t see this going anywhere in the long run, plus my mind is all over the place regarding other aspects of my life. Shyt is hectic brehs. My mind is all over the place. I don’t have time to just lay up and hang for a week. I’m trying to put in work and reach the next plateau in my life.

I know if she flys in. I’ll show her a good time, dikk her down good, she’ll get even more emotionally attached and when she leaves the process of me removing myself will happen. Rather do it now then later.
Just trying to figure out how to break it to her :snoop:

She flew in before and we hung out. She said we had great chemistry and a great connection, but honestly the last couple women have said this when In reality I’ve been zoned out focusing on myself. Smh I really hate hurting ladies feelings when it’s undeserved but that’s how it’ll end up no matter what.

Just do it. 128% chance shes done nikkas like this in the past
 

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Going to seem like a a$$hole but I’m about to tell this girl who’s flying out to see me next Friday to cancel or make other arrangements.:francis:

She wanted to kick it for a week(go on a mini road trip, and just hang) and now that I’ve really thought about it, it’s not something I want. If it was for a weekend, maybe.
Don’t get me wrong, she’s dope af personality wise, but I don’t see this going anywhere in the long run, plus my mind is all over the place regarding other aspects of my life. Shyt is hectic brehs. My mind is all over the place. I don’t have time to just lay up and hang for a week. I’m trying to put in work and reach the next plateau in my life.

I know if she flys in. I’ll show her a good time, dikk her down good, she’ll get even more emotionally attached and when she leaves the process of me removing myself will happen. Rather do it now then later.
Just trying to figure out how to break it to her :snoop:

She flew in before and we hung out. She said we had great chemistry and a great connection, but honestly the last couple women have said this when In reality I’ve been zoned out focusing on myself. Smh I really hate hurting ladies feelings when it’s undeserved but that’s how it’ll end up no matter what.

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I’m at the point where I just wanna tell chicks I just wanna have fun or fukk.

Thing is now chicks are so different than they were when I was single before.

It’s like now they are super hyped up and make you put in all the work.

Maybe I’m just talking to the wrong chicks, but I’m this close to just being a cold ass nikka.

Straight up not being cool at all, straight serious.

No dates, none of that bullshyt, just straight we fukkin or what.
Get ya body game up or go after older women that know it's all about sex.

Trust me.. once you get that body game up.. you are gonna start to attract a plethora of women that just want the D.. especially at the gym.

If you got ya face and body game on point and you killing it at the gym, they gon be choosing!

Shorty ain't gonna be thinking about no date, they wanna get straight to the D.

You can't be acting thirsty at the gym though. Just go there to workout and bust ya azz. Don't pay attention to no women. Don't even holla at a shorty the first time you see her. a head nod or hello is fine. Next time you see her at the gym and she's choosing hard, then go make ya move.

I go to the gym just to get my workout on. I see plenty of dudes tryna holla at shorties that blow them off, all the while these same chicks is trying hard asf to get my attention.
 
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Get ya body game up or go after older women that know it's all about sex.

Trust me.. once you get that body game up.. you are gonna start to attract a plethora of women that just want the D.. especially at the gym.

If you got ya face and body game on point and you killing it at the gym, they gon be choosing!

Shorty ain't gonna be thinking about no date, they wanna get straight to the D.

Thing is I already look swole, just not swole enough to take my shirt off lol.

How many days you recommend to workout?
 

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Thing is I already look swole, just not swole enough to take my shirt off lol.

How many days you recommend to workout?
I've been doing bro splits for about a year, only been at the gym for a year and a half really.

So I hit these on different days chest and abs, back, arms and abs, shoulders, legs.

I do abs 3x a week sometimes more after my workouts.

I heard that doing push, pull, legs twice in one week gives you better results. So you do push monday, pull tuesday, legs wednesday, then repeat for thurs-sat.

Doing this guy's workouts really got me size.. I guess it's the sheer volume of his workouts. But these you do once a week.

I always switch up my workouts every month to confuse the body.

 

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I've been doing bro splits for about a year, only been at the gym for a year and a half really.

So I hit these on different days chest and abs, back, arms and abs, shoulders, legs.

I do abs 3x a week sometimes more after my workouts.

I heard that doing push, pull, legs twice in one week gives you better results. So you do push monday, pull tuesday, legs wednesday, then repeat for thurs-sat.

Doing this guy's workouts really got me size.. I guess it's the sheer volume of his workouts. But these you do once a week.

I always switch up my workouts every month to confuse the body.



Good looks my nikka
 

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Finally had it up to here with my girl. She has an attitude on her and we got into it a few months back bad and I told her to fix that shyt or I’m out. Don’t need that stress.

Last Sunday she caught an attitude and blew up on me. I dipped on her ass and we haven’t talked since. I can’t deal with that shyt man.

I miss her ass but meh...

Not sure if I overreacted or if I just need to part ways with her.
 

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Man I hate both them avenues tbh. Went out to a club last week and it was wack as hell. The whole vibe is lame. I was sober enough to see hoe creepy 90% of the nikkas were and how most of the chicks just want attention Im not willing to just throw out there. Granted Im I fairly countet culture in general so its not my scene at all. Theres a goth scene here which I enjoy they shyt but aint too many nikkas there :laff:

Just kind of at a lost of where to mob at.
I always had better success outside the bars/clubs chatting up ladies solo as they're leaving or heading to a spot.

I'm able to build rapport better with no dudes/friends around to cockblock.

I've smashed chicks the same night by hitting them up while they were solo...

They're more open to giving it up ..no friends to judge em:mjlit:
 

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Finally had it up to here with my girl. She has an attitude on her and we got into it a few months back bad and I told her to fix that shyt or I’m out. Don’t need that stress.

Last Sunday she caught an attitude and blew up on me. I dipped on her ass and we haven’t talked since. I can’t deal with that shyt man.

I miss her ass but meh...

Not sure if I overreacted or if I just need to part ways with her.


Pretty much where Im at sans the attitude and more inconsiderate behavior. Its hard enough being a black man, dont need my bytch stressing me out as well
 

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I've been doing bro splits for about a year, only been at the gym for a year and a half really.

So I hit these on different days chest and abs, back, arms and abs, shoulders, legs.

I do abs 3x a week sometimes more after my workouts.

I heard that doing push, pull, legs twice in one week gives you better results. So you do push monday, pull tuesday, legs wednesday, then repeat for thurs-sat.

Doing this guy's workouts really got me size.. I guess it's the sheer volume of his workouts. But these you do once a week.

I always switch up my workouts every month to confuse the body.



So bro I look swole af, but I have no definition and I’m not slim. You think it’ll really help me that much more if I slim down and get more ripped? I’m talking mostly with clothes on because they can’t see my six pack n shyt.

I know it’ll help, but I mean will the difference be night and day?

I’m still working out for me, but wanted to know if it’ll really change shyt up.
 

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You guys ever had a chick dump you then months later she wants to meet you but wants nothing but D?

I should feel more positive about that but can't help feel someway.. like yeah she want's to get straight to it and fukk but at the same time i feel like she's taking the piss.. probably been fukking and had wack d\ck and is now reminicing about mine.

It's an easy layup but at the same time im trying to focus on this online business and not pay anything towards hotels to fukk (both live at home)
 

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Finally had it up to here with my girl. She has an attitude on her and we got into it a few months back bad and I told her to fix that shyt or I’m out. Don’t need that stress.

Last Sunday she caught an attitude and blew up on me. I dipped on her ass and we haven’t talked since. I can’t deal with that shyt man.

I miss her ass but meh...

Not sure if I overreacted or if I just need to part ways with her.

You already warned her, so its bushes. :yeshrug:

Every time I gave them another chance I ended up suffering for it, so I would kick her to the curb.
 

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You guys ever had a chick dump you then months later she wants to meet you but wants nothing but D?

I should feel more positive about that but can't help feel someway.. like yeah she want's to get straight to it and fukk but at the same time i feel like she's taking the piss.. probably been fukking and had wack d\ck and is now reminicing about mine.

It's an easy layup but at the same time im trying to focus on this online business and not pay anything towards hotels to fukk (both live at home)

Just sex to me she can get the D with no issues but once she does it always happen
I'm sorry how things went maybe we can try to :camby: as soon as I hear that statement not trying to let them finish the statement
 
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