also, thugs get attention from simple chicks because they bring in the drama, they go out and get money, they spend it on them, they put her in her place, and dont give a fukk if she leaves.
it makes women chase them, try to keep them, and push babies out even thinking it will make things better for them (her).
but you dont have to be a thug to do all that. they mistake those qualities in a thug as being good for them, but its really just a mistaken identity. its not the full picture for a complete, grown man. its masculine energy, but its still juvenile and irresponsible after some time. theyre missing an important part and that is longevity and responsibilty.
if youre on top of your legal game and paper, but treat them the same - youll be out of their league even harder. plus youll get better level of p*ssy going after you. be brolic with these hoes, and be about yours. one.
Exactly. You can do the right thing, be a upstanding citizen, get your money, and actually you can have MORE women than the thugged out dude as long as you keep your game tight. The thing is, a lot of cats who get their education and 'do the right thing' never really learn how to make themselves truly presentable on that other level. The one thing you have to have no matter where you are is 'game', aka knowing how to deal with women properly... because you even have a lot of thug dudes going hard on women talking about you weren't down with me before I'm balling. What changed now?
Me, I don't have no thugged out, dope-dealing persona, but there's a lot of women that just dig me. Even some of those hoodrat type females... they like how I look, but I know from a personality level, I don't have what it takes to get in sync with them. What I learn as I get older is you got to get in where you fit in. There's types for everybody. Thuggalettes got their lil thug daddies. Cats that got it right got the women made for them. In fact, I'm glad the lil thugalettes who love their thugged out dealers go so hard for them because it makes it 10,000 times easier to tell who I should avoid.
But the common theme, no matter what, is you always gotta be a man.
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Exactly. You can do the right thing, be a upstanding citizen, get your money, and actually you can have MORE women than the thugged out dude as long as you keep your game tight. The thing is, a lot of cats who get their education and 'do the right thing' never really learn how to make themselves truly presentable on that other level. The one thing you have to have no matter where you are is 'game', aka knowing how to deal with women properly... because you even have a lot of thug dudes going hard on women talking about you weren't down with me before I'm balling. What changed now?
Me, I don't have no thugged out, dope-dealing persona, but there's a lot of women that just dig me. Even some of those hoodrat type females... they like how I look, but I know from a personality level, I don't have what it takes to get in sync with them. What I learn as I get older is you got to get in where you fit in. There's types for everybody. Thuggalettes got their lil thug daddies. Cats that got it right got the women made for them. In fact, I'm glad the lil thugalettes who love their thugged out dealers go so hard for them because it makes it 10,000 times easier to tell who I should avoid.
But the common theme, no matter what, is you always gotta be a man.
Age has a whole lot to do with it, there comes a certain point in a woman's life that she starts realizing that those guys she used to be attracted to are running in circles and she wants to settle down. Problem is that some have kids and baggage that quite frankly someone like me would not even look at in if I was a single man in my early 20's. I always used to get the "You are so arrogant" when I am not like that at all just because I carried myself well and did not really chase women like many guys do. If a woman complimented on a cologne I was wearing? A short thanks would be given, anything else? Thanks and I kept it moving. I am a man, I don't have much time for games or the little back and forth women love to play when they know a guy is interested in them.yeah, I feel that. I dont promote everybody go out there and talk to women in a fukked up way, attract rats, and thats it. but its more about maintaining a steady way about yourself, and staying consistent with it in life. that will be the decider if youre seen as a man or not.
and women NEED that. theyre directionless without it. reading 662's post up there, its all about the confused state of women trying to take the leader role, while debasing men to make themselves look stronger. but that role, its not for them.
being soft and cuddly doesnt mean a thing for a man. being her underling is not going to make use of everyones God given attributes. and working at being her friend means that youre not working at being her man. she needs a leader and a boss. without fear of repercussions, men have to take the lead and stand by it.
the more of a "little girl" she is inside, the more direction you got to give her. some women, who are sophisticated and have a capable upbringing, will be able to follow it easier, and make your work be less. but theres all types out there. giving them direction and being the prominent one in charge is the only constant that men have to work on.
yeah, I feel that. I dont promote everybody go out there and talk to women in a fukked up way, attract rats, and thats it. but its more about maintaining a steady way about yourself, and staying consistent with it in life. that will be the decider if youre seen as a man or not.
and women NEED that. theyre directionless without it. reading 662's post up there, its all about the confused state of women trying to take the leader role, while debasing men to make themselves look stronger. but that role, its not for them.
being soft and cuddly doesnt mean a thing for a man. being her underling is not going to make use of everyones God given attributes. and working at being her friend means that youre not working at being her man. she needs a leader and a boss. without fear of repercussions, men have to take the lead and stand by it.
the more of a "little girl" she is inside, the more direction you got to give her. some women, who are sophisticated and have a capable upbringing, will be able to follow it easier, and make your work be less. but theres all types out there. giving them direction and being the prominent one in charge is the only constant that men have to work on.
I have been told that I appear to live in my own world and I think that is part of what attracts women to me...I just generally don't give a fukk about most people around. I remember sitting outside of a mall store one day while my girl was shopping for some clothes another girl with her friend approached me and said "You have a girl right?" and I just replied "yeah" and went back to browsing on my phone right after. That might come across as arrogant to females for some reason, she asked a question, I answered and I kept it moving.
Maybe I could have been a bit more friendly about it, but![]()
That's the problem these days man. "Men" are always backing down and punking up when it comes to standing up on their manhood. You only got one manhood, but there are billions of women out there, so why would you sacrifice something rare for something common? As I get older, the more I realize ain't nothing magical about a woman. A woman should get your respect the more she respects your manhood. All of this playing the man, screaming and yelling... how do you deal with that? You don't. You keep that element out of your life period. It be the vagina slaves that keep on jumping into these problems. They put vagina over everything. She could be coocoo crazy and do nothing but bring disrespect and drama, but this cat is still going to accept that because he got to get that vagina.
What these cats need to understand is that the women will always be there. Your respect won't, and if you don't maintain your respectability, you're not going to have that respect nor will you have a woman in the way you want it.
I usually keep things open, but maybe that was a little TOO bold if I were to put what turned me off initially. I don't think she even said hi now that I think about it lol.in that case, it really wasnt a bad thing. you stayed focused on your thing, and they ... what? were gonna flirt with you, jeopardize your relationship? what were they looking for?
you stayed about yours, its a good thing.
but, you know socializing is good too. just talking to others can be a good thing sometimes. you could have talked, turned them down, or maybe made some new friends for your girl to get to know and hang out with sometime. maybe they have hook ups to events or others stores. you never know. its all in how you play it. I dont think that kind of attitude is wrong, but in the end if youre not playing risky games and being irresponsible, theres nothing wrong with playing either role. the leave me alone guy, or the personable guy.