Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I want to start to drop some heavy Knowledge to the brothas in this thread from my mentors whom I speak to once a month or have taken video class from on just being a better overall man ...apart from women. This video is from uncle rom it might hurts some feeling or not but soak it either way.

 

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Let go of the apps, even team handsome gets ignored or swiped on (trust me). Focus on night game...in particular bars, NOT night clubs. Bars add the social environment with less of a chance for disaster, here in NY, there's nothing but bars. I go in, scope it out, and see which is the go-to/cheapest (birds ain't about wasting money). Secondly. Lie. You might not be used to it, but best believe, your prey is. Women lie from the face to the inescapable baby daddy/drug dealer in their lives. Your job is to be a counter spy. Be aloof, dress well, and always self amuse. Say you're a venture capitalist, its an old classic, but it always works to make you look both mysterious and like a person of value.

- Never introduce yourself, insofar as starting with your name....its never an ice breaker, and its boring, present excellence or wit first. Be funny but not a clown, be there long enough to notice your greatness then be gone. They'll soon follow.

Also use your time outside to network, I've gotten off the book jobs just for saying whats up to a bar owner from time to time. Being friendly to the right people helps, also not saying much is key to everything. Don't see going out as a waste of your time, see it as a chance to either meet people who you can use to help your own goal, and to get p*ssy. Getting p*ssy is last for me. I have no agenda about getting p*ssy, till p*ssy is in front of me and I'm being charming. Also talking to strangers of any sort, help you sharpen your blades, always take the opportunity.

Lastly, introduce a bird to anything "new" in their life, and its pretty easy pickings. Can't tell you how many times I've taken chicks to Central Park, and had them awed, its as simple as a small change in the everyday locale and these women are yours.


How do I go to bars solo and not feel weird? I plan on going everywhere solo.

And what else should I lie about?
 

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I want to start to drop some heavy Knowledge to the brothas in this thread from my mentors whom I speak to once a month or have taken video class from on just being a better overall man ...apart from women. This video is from uncle rom it might hurts some feeling or not but soak it either way.




Really on 3 types;

Easy sex
Work hard for - sex
And Pity sex.

I find the "long game" (work hard) is the most annoying, because you can be hitting all markers, hell, she might even makeout, grind, etc, and still not give it up for whatever "scruples" she might have. This is the kind of girl that's gonna make you jump through more unnecessary hoops, just for a horrible lay. The only time I go for long game, is when I'm being a wingman or if there's a possibility me and fellow pilot might have an opportunity to both smash. But ultimately, its not worth it. Too much time and oxygen wasted on regular p*ssy.

Among those three types are sub categories. But it boils down to DTF, she feels sorry for you, and Long game.
 

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How do I go to bars solo and not feel weird? I plan on going everywhere solo.

And what else should I lie about?

In general, I know damn near everyone on the strip I hit, so bouncers, Deli workers, and bar owners know or have seen me there. You're gonna have to do some solo hanging out, til the locals who you can use, get to know you. Again, I'm all about networking, so p*ssy comes second. I rather get a free large coffee/food just for hanging out with the Arabs, or free beer just for shooting the shyt with Mexicans who either deliver or cook at local bars. Once you get familiar with the bouncers, they'll let you in without asking questions and will tell you if the night is lit or not.

Lie about everything. Your name, what you do, and why you're even there. Some days, I'm a venture capitalist, others nights I'm a Raytheon employee looking to blow off some steam. To be fair, in my case, I'm extremely thorough, I have business cards of all types and from every major company. From Apple to Google, its ridiculously easy and cheap to print out hundreds of cards, not only are the birds impressed and throw the p*ssy at me, but I get discounts at Hotels just by showing them a fukking card....smh its still unbelievable to me how people really give power to a piece of paper.
 
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Really on 3 types;

Easy sex
Work hard for - sex
And Pity sex.

I find the "long game" (work hard) is the most annoying, because you can be hitting all markers, hell, she might even makeout, grind, etc, and still not give it up for whatever "scruples" she might have. This is the kind of girl that's gonna make you jump through more unnecessary hoops, just for a horrible lay. The only time I go for long game, is when I'm being a wingman or if there's a possibility me and fellow pilot might have an opportunity to both smash. But ultimately, its not worth it. Too much time and oxygen wasted on regular p*ssy.

Among those three types are sub categories. But it boils down to DTF, she feels sorry for you, and Long game.


Naw ...its deep fam I might post the follow up ....:jawalrus:
 

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Naw ...its deep fam I might post the follow up ....:jawalrus:


I get what he's saying, its just too verbose. He's diving into the sub-categories, still informative, but it over complicates everything, especially for people new to the game. I mean yes, I can go into the 8 points of attack with knife fighting, or I can teach you about, aggression, slashing and adrenaline. The sub-categories don't matter, so long as you understand the three core components they come from.
 

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In general, I know damn near everyone on the strip I hit, so bouncers, Deli workers, and bar owners know or have seen me there. You're gonna have to do some solo hanging out, til the locals who you can use, get to know you. Again, I'm all about networking, so p*ssy comes second. I rather get a free large coffee/food just for hanging out with the Arabs, or free beer just for shooting the shyt with Mexicans who either deliver or cook at local bars. Once you get familiar with the bouncers, they'll let you in without asking questions and will tell you if the night is lit or not.

Lie about everything. Your name, what you do, and why you're even there. Some days, I'm a venture capitalist, others nights I'm a Raytheon employee looking to blow off some steam. To be fair, in my case, I'm extremely thorough, I have business cards of all types and from every major company. From Apple to Google, its ridiculously easy and cheap to print out hundreds of cards, not only are the birds impressed and throw the p*ssy at me, but I get discounts at Hotels just by showing them a fukking card....smh its still unbelievable to me how people really give power to a piece of paper.


Wow thing is it’s hard for me to lie. I always feel like I’ll get found out lmao. It’s one of the paranoias I have. Especially if I frequent the same spot and might see someone I know or a bytch from before that I told a lie to.

It’s something I gotta work on tho because they don’t need to know everything about me.
 

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Wow thing is it’s hard for me to lie. I always feel like I’ll get found out lmao. It’s one of the paranoias I have. Especially if I frequent the same spot and might see someone I know or a bytch from before that I told a lie to.

It’s something I gotta work on tho because they don’t need to know everything about me.


Its a common problem most people have when working a con. The truth, people don't really care, a broad is gonna believe anything you tell her because that's the only option available. Fake it till you fukk it. Here's another little fun fact....women won't ever converse with each other at bars or clubs. They're petty, and egocentric. They rather assume the most, and never speak a word to each other, So lie away. It also helps if you get chummy with the bouncers and or bartenders, as you can find out who the regulars are. Ultimately, game should be about bettering yourself, so when it comes to networking, I'm all about it. p*ssy always comes second. And even by the slim chance that you do get found out by bird....so what? She's still as useless as she was when she didn't know.
 

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How do I go to bars solo and not feel weird? I plan on going everywhere solo.

And what else should I lie about?

Start by going on weekdays(Tuesdays/Wednesdays especially) when it isn't as busy

That way you can slowly get yourself acclimated. Get a couple shots in early too, help you loosen up :heh:
 
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Bout to Bush my girl brehs...
Everything seemed cool Saturday night when she was at my place. She left, I called to see if she made it home, and then went to sleep shortly after a brief conversation. Called her thrice early Sunday afternoon and no pick up. Ok cool, ball is in your court for the rest of the day (No call back). Texted her good morning Monday, she texts it back. Then texts a few items from amazon she wants for her birthday. My stance was ball is still in her court to reach out. She didn’t. So yesterday I called her and she didn’t pick up but texted saying she’s getting dressed and would call me back later. Still no call.
Don’t know what her issue is and only thing I can think of is I haven’t offered a key to my new apt, but I told her they only gave me one key.
 

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Really want to talk to this lady I work with, we work in different programs so 'work together' isnt really an issue, but I'm still hesitant. And the Coli got me tripping about height(:snoop:), we both about 5'10, so if she wore heels I'd be taking an L. Trying to convince myself that she aint shyt and not to make a move. :mjgrin::mjcry:
 

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Really want to talk to this lady I work with, we work in different programs so 'work together' isnt really an issue, but I'm still hesitant. And the Coli got me tripping about height(:snoop:), we both about 5'10, so if she wore heels I'd be taking an L. Trying to convince myself that she aint shyt and not to make a move. :mjgrin::mjcry:

Breh cut that height foolishness out.


You’re way past the danger zone.
 

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Bout to Bush my girl brehs...
Everything seemed cool Saturday night when she was at my place. She left, I called to see if she made it home, and then went to sleep shortly after a brief conversation. Called her thrice early Sunday afternoon and no pick up. Ok cool, ball is in your court for the rest of the day (No call back). Texted her good morning Monday, she texts it back. Then texts a few items from amazon she wants for her birthday. My stance was ball is still in her court to reach out. She didn’t. So yesterday I called her and she didn’t pick up but texted saying she’s getting dressed and would call me back later. Still no call.
Don’t know what her issue is and only thing I can think of is I haven’t offered a key to my new apt, but I told her they only gave me one key.

usually when chicks do this they are emotionally detaching. It's how when they dump you, you'll never hear from them again even if you messaged every day for years. Women run off emotions so depleting the tank is necessary before she drops them thangs on you. When a woman drops that i'm busy or ignore texts and calls its never good news. Wouldn't be shocked fi you get a we need to talk, or just right to a breakup text.
 
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usually when chicks do this they are emotionally detaching. It's how when they dump you, you'll never hear from them again even if you messaged every day for years. Women run off emotions so depleting the tank is necessary before she drops them thangs on you. When a woman drops that i'm busy or ignore texts and calls its never good news. Wouldn't be shocked fi you get a we need to talk, or just right to a breakup text.
I believe she’ll eventually call back and possibly say it was something I did to make her uncomfortable or some bullshyt. But I do also believe that she pulls stunts like this either in hopes that I break up or just as a nut twisting attempt.
 
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I get what he's saying, its just too verbose. He's diving into the sub-categories, still informative, but it over complicates everything, especially for people new to the game. I mean yes, I can go into the 8 points of attack with knife fighting, or I can teach you about, aggression, slashing and adrenaline. The sub-categories don't matter, so long as you understand the three core components they come from.



No worries I’m learn this thread a new one...thoe :myman:
 
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