Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

He was trying to tease but it didn't come off right. It came off like he was serious and once that happens it either looks corny when it doesn't work or like in your case the woman gets offended. LOL his method can work but only attractive dudes can get away with it. You can't be ugly and mean

I've never given a guy who was mean the time of day. I don't care if you're cute. Cute gets old after awhile.

 

[Peter Popoff]

I don't mean they literally say that

I mean they try to assert dominance over you in a direct manner.

Like today, I went into the beauty supply store and was looking at some sparkly flip flops. There was a guy there and I said hello as soon as I walked over there. Breh barely even muttered a hello.

I look at the shoes and all of a sudden I hear "If you make a mess you gonna clean it up."

I look over at him and say "Are you asking or are you telling me?" He responds "I'm telling."

I drop the shoes I was looking at and told him he lost him damn mind and walked away. Then he starts Juelzing with the "I was just kidding. Can I help you? I'm sorry."

Something like that happens every so often. As I got older I realized it was suppose to be flirtatious. But idk where ya'll get that from. It's mostly young dudes who do that shyt.

Polite dominance is necessary otherwise I hold my peace.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Polite dominance is necessary otherwise I hold my peace.

Politeness, a compliment and a tiny bit of charm is all you need. Anything else is doing too much.

You can do that dominance stuff after the fact.

 

[Bigblackted4]

i know but shyt too lopsided man
the shyt that we gotta do to maintain a roster is so much more than what they gotta do which is nothing

why play a game where the rules are stacked so agaisnt you lol

Because when you win it feels so much better

 

[Peter Popoff]

Politeness, a compliment and a tiny bit of charm is all you need. Anything else is doing too much.

You can do that dominance stuff after the fact.

Na, I gotta put my foot down. Choke you (symbolically) when you wrong and kiss you when you're right otherwise you'll never learn.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Na, I gotta put my foot down. Choke you (symbolically) when you wrong and kiss you when you're right otherwise you'll never learn.

okay buddy

 

[Ohene]

Idk....only downside to me with having a roster and dating period is spending money and STDs/Pregnancies (Proud Raw Warrior). If not for that, i'd keep a roster of 10 at all times

But yeah, when you get wrapped up in one chick and ain't got no others or something else to kill that void and she not giving AF its WOAT.

You hit?

nah if i hit thered be no second guessing. she's conservative so to speak

 

[xzenothunder]

aye

could y'all tell me if I'm ugly or maybe even Black-Pearl could chime in? I've been having trouble with women my entire life and expected it would be easier once I got my life together,

I make 110k in the Midwest,
I own my own home and vehicles
I have a bachelors degree in computer science
no debt
I play guitar and do shows every month
I also travel frequently


I haven't had sex in 2 years, Dating apps are pretty much obese black women and the cute ones are ghetto/super young or have kids. I never meet women at my shows and the ones that do show interest are usually big.

Now I'm not in top physical condition I'm exactly 15 pounds overweight but I'm not down to date an obese chick. Every dating book I've read touts "confidence" but I have no reason to not be confident in myself given my accomplishments and the circumstances I came from.

So the only logical deduction I could make is that I'm physically unattractive, hell the last date I was on we got drunk and she called me ugly(not jokingly). so yeah.




we all have the hands were dealt and I'm cool with the unfiltered truth. At least I can drop bands on cool toys and be fulfilled otherwise.

Thanks for any input y'all

 

[VertigoKnight]

@xzenothunder when you travel do you get female attention?

Also do you only date black women?

 

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aye

could y'all tell me if I'm ugly or maybe even Black-Pearl could chime in? I've been having trouble with women my entire life and expected it would be easier once I got my life together,

I make 110k in the Midwest,
I own my own home and vehicles
I have a bachelors degree in computer science
no debt
I play guitar and do shows every month
I also travel frequently


I haven't had sex in 2 years, Dating apps are pretty much obese black women and the cute ones are ghetto/super young or have kids. I never meet women at my shows and the ones that do show interest are usually big.

Now I'm not in top physical condition I'm exactly 15 pounds overweight but I'm not down to date an obese chick. Every dating book I've read touts "confidence" but I have no reason to not be confident in myself given my accomplishments and the circumstances I came from.

So the only logical deduction I could make is that I'm physically unattractive, hell the last date I was on we got drunk and she called me ugly(not jokingly). so yeah.

we all have the hands were dealt and I'm cool with the unfiltered truth. At least I can drop bands on cool toys and be fulfilled otherwise.

Thanks for any input y'all

It has to be lack of game..

You’re an accomplished and decent looking dude, plus you’re artistic and gainfully employed. There’s no way you’re not getting cheeks unless you’re messing up your chances with your mouthpiece and actions. No way you should have gone 2 years without contact but you can change that by improving your game.

 

[Silkk]

nah if i hit thered be no second guessing. she's conservative so to speak

Then you DEFINITELY better slow yo ass down with them feelings

 

[xzenothunder]

@xzenothunder when you travel do you get female attention?

Also do you only date black women?

Not really, Either that or I'm oblivious to it.

And yeah.

 

[Silkk]

aye

could y'all tell me if I'm ugly or maybe even Black-Pearl could chime in? I've been having trouble with women my entire life and expected it would be easier once I got my life together,

I make 110k in the Midwest,
I own my own home and vehicles
I have a bachelors degree in computer science
no debt
I play guitar and do shows every month
I also travel frequently


I haven't had sex in 2 years, Dating apps are pretty much obese black women and the cute ones are ghetto/super young or have kids. I never meet women at my shows and the ones that do show interest are usually big.

Now I'm not in top physical condition I'm exactly 15 pounds overweight but I'm not down to date an obese chick. Every dating book I've read touts "confidence" but I have no reason to not be confident in myself given my accomplishments and the circumstances I came from.

So the only logical deduction I could make is that I'm physically unattractive, hell the last date I was on we got drunk and she called me ugly(not jokingly). so yeah.




we all have the hands were dealt and I'm cool with the unfiltered truth. At least I can drop bands on cool toys and be fulfilled otherwise.

Thanks for any input y'all

You look like a regular dude to me

You make 110k a year, own your own home and cars. It HAS TO BE a lack of effort on your part. If you really put in effort to getting bytches, you could get bytches. On paper, thots would love you

 

[xzenothunder]

It has to be lack of game..

You’re an accomplished and decent looking dude, plus you’re artistic and gainfully employed. There’s no way you’re not getting cheeks unless you’re messing up your chances with your mouthpiece and actions. No way you should have gone 2 years without contact but you can change that by improving your game.

You got any resources on game lol?

 

[VertigoKnight]

Not really, Either that or I'm oblivious to it.

And yeah.

Maybe its the midwest as you should be eating and eating good. No business minded black women out there who aren't obese?

The fact you travel a lot should be a dinner bell to a lot of these chicks. Try Hinge and see what pops up.