1) Never become too friendly with a woman you are trying to deal with
- Contrary to popular belief, being buddy-buddy with a woman you actually want to deal with is detrimental. There are different roles for different aspects in life. Think about football. Is it a positive when they say that the coach is a 'player's coach' or friendly with the players? No, more often than not it means that the players may laugh and joke with the coach, but they will lose respect for him and he will lose his ability to control and discipline his players. Look at guys like Tom Coughlin or Bill Beliceck. Do you think they are always sitting around yucking it up and going soft on those players? Absolutely not. But when those guys say jump, the players get in line and the results show up on field.
Being extra friendly to a woman is unfortunately another piece of simp advice many men were handed down through society or through their parents. You may have been told,"Find a woman who you have common interests in." "Your woman should be your best friend." Sharing interests with your woman is great, because it gives you something to talk about, but sitting around all day talking about your hobbies and interests will eventually get you friend zoned. Do ya'll think these so called thugs and bad boys women go crazy over are talking about their favorite board games or how fun gardening is?
When you get too friendly with a woman you are dealing with, she starts thinking you are soft and and will get comfortable. When this happens is when she starts escalating that nonsense and will start trying to run out of pocket things by you. Think about bosses that are too friendly and let you get away with all kinds of things. You eventually stop respecting that boss and you will start thinking you can run the company better than he can and you may start to do things to undermine him and to assume more control. When you're at work, you want a boss that gets things done, which ultimately will result in you getting a paycheck. You're not looking for a buddy. Same thing with women. They aren't looking for a 'buddy'. There's 10,000 simped-out 'nice guys' to play that role. What they are looking for is a man.
And to further this point, isn't it funny how all these girls that were your so-called best friends while in a relationship with you all of a sudden leave and couldn't care less about you once the relationship was over in most cases? As soon as she gets a new man, you don't really hear from her anymore.
2) You must be a boss
- I am not talking about a boss in the meaning of an economic boss. I am talking about the boss of your own domain. If a woman chooses to deal with you, it will be on your terms and you will never allow her to usurp control, no matter how hard she tries. Bosses have high value. They are at the top of the food chain. A lot of men, instead of embracing the boss role, embrace the butler role. We've talked several times about how women always look for a man they can look up to. Obviously, she will test you in different ways in an attempt to usurp your authority. You have to thwart it and cut it out before it begins. This is why I said you can never be too friendly with a woman. She will start getting comfortable and if you're too friendly, you won't be able to tell her what it is and what it isn't. You won't be able to set her in line and she will start losing respect for you and start escalating more of that drama. This is why, as her man, you have to be her MAN first and foremost and not her bud.
3) Your woman is not your shoulder to lean on
- This goes right back to the point of, your woman is not your friend. You should not be sitting around and complaining to her about all of life's ills all day. It makes you look weak. If you have a problem, hit up one of your comrades and chop it up and get a solution from him. As a man, you assume the heavier burden, which is why you have the authority in the relationship and you should not let a woman undermine it. This goes back to being the boss/king of your relationship. If you are at work and your boss is constantly relaying to you worries of the day and looking to you for guidance, do you trust his leadership? No, you start assuming he is unfit to rule and start thinking how you could potentially rule better than he.
4) As a boss, you do not allow a woman into your kingdom/domain that does not submit to your authority
- Feminist rhetoric perpetuated all throughout society has men acting ashamed of exercising their God-given authority. Instead, it is teaching men to be 50/50, compromising, appeasing, and pandering negroes... but let's be real. All of these females talk this 50/50 nonsense, but yet how many of them really get on that 50/50 and respect negroes like that? How many women really come up out of pocket and pay for their own stuff on her own prompting? How many women really respect a man who can't make a firm decision, but leaves things up to her to decide? How many men have truly experienced equality when dealing with these women? No, more than likely they've experienced a woman trying to get a better end of the bargain. Now tell me what successful team has two head coaches or a business with two ceos running it simultaneously? What amazing novel do you know that was written by two authors exercising equal say over it's direction? SOMEONE has to be the director of the ship, and as a man, it needs to be you. Just look at how increasingly feminized this country has become and how submissive men have become, and look at the divorce rates. You think that's not a coincidence? Even these brainwashed feminists detest the 50/50 men that they supposedly clamor for. They merely use them and toss them aside and reward the boss man with their resources. If a woman is not willing to submit to your authority as a man, simply do not deal with her.
5) You need to know what you're doing and what you're talking about
If you're the leader, you have to know how to make successful decisions. The reason a lot of men cannot maintain the authority of a woman is because they use their leadership to degrade and mislead women. A woman might trust a man, but that man tells her 10,000 lies and after she's dealt with him, she ends up in a way worse position. The next man she deals with, she will not trust. When a woman submits to you, BE RESPONSIBLE and FAIR.
6) Have high, righteous standards
- This is highly important. People will accuse me of being religious and that is correct. They probably would like me to tone it down, but I'm not here to pander. My standard of righteousness is highly based on the Bible. Having high standards based on righteousness is essential. As the Bible says, we do indeed reap what we sew. If you're building your ship around deception, lies, and all sorts of trickery, it will come back to bite you. I will delve into this later on.
The huge problem men have these days is that they have no foundation of belief in anything, and thus constantly shift their beliefs. This makes them very unstable. Men of compromise never truly know themselves, for they are given to change at any particular moment.
James 1:8
A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.
This is why there is so much confusion among young men and why they are finding it hard to make decisions. They weren't taught firm principles or rules. They were taught to 'tolerate' everything instead of standing firm on what is acceptable and unacceptable.
A lack of righteous standards makes a man very easy to manipulate since he will change his decision making process on a whim. All a female needs to do is turn on the tearworks, start screaming and yelling, or flip the script on an issue she was COMPLETELY wrong on, and yet men will give in and accept it because they are double minded panderers.
7) Stop caring about and pandering to feelings
- A lot of men may read the things I'm saying and will sit with their mouth agape, like, how could he say that? He's so sexist and chauvinistic or some other feminist brainwashed response they've been taught. This goes right into the estrogen-based game I've been talking about. Men have been taught 'sensitivity' and how to be sensitive to everyone's decisions and to make their choices based on how everyone feels. Is that not what we complain women do? Make decisions based upon feelings? And yet how many men make choices based on whether or not a 'woman is feeling it'?
This is why I emphasized having a righteous standard that you actually live up to and also emphasized not being too friendly. Righteous standards produce good fruit and thus a more abundant life. Unrighteous standards produce bad fruit, and thus, eventual destruction. The problem we have in society and with men today is that they are afraid to take a stand on something, but instead shift their opinions based on what other people are feeling. This will lead them to engage in a lot of actions that do NOT WORK. It has no power. It is similar to charlatans who sell women 'relationship advice' that pander to what women want to hear. They'll buy these books of men and women praising them and telling them it's the man's fault and they are perfectly fine acting like men, etc. And yet where does all of this pandering advice get them? NOWHERE, and on they move to the next seminar telling them exactly what they want to hear again and getting them the exact same results. A lot of women may be offended by me saying I want a woman that can move out the way and let a man lead, they want a woman that cooks and cleans, is submissive and generally just a woman... and I really don't care. Let's be real here, when you see these 'single ladies' documentaries, do you ever hear about one where all the ladies were willing to cook, clean and be submissive to their man? No, virtually all of them were about 'independent' career ladies who won't 'let a man control them' and who refuse to cook or clean for their man. If I was a panderer, I would tell women that trash and have them nodding in agreement with me, but they'd be in the same screwed up position. On the other hand, I can tell them the real, have them be mad at me, but watch the few who actually take this advice find them a man.
1 Timothy 2
11 A woman[a] should learn in quietness and full submission. 12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet.
Is this not the truth? Is this not a root cause of many of the problems we have in this day and age? Women teaching and having authority over men? How many of you have really learned how to deal with women from a woman? How do women react to you when you submit your authority over to them? When you are taught a feminized way of dealing with women, because that's all women can teach you since they are females, you will often be met with disastrous results. When you allow a woman to have authority over you, she no longer respects you and will discard you... but apparently in this day and age, something like that is 'sexist' despite it being completely true. This is why you have to have righteous standards and stop pandering to society and women's feelings. Otherwise you will go right back into that foolishness and keep getting the same disastrous results you got before.
face. ever since then, she has been going OVERBOARD and CRAZY trying to get me back on board with her. but after her telling me point blank to my face that she doesn't want to be with me and she thinks we should end the relaionship a month ago, i have been on some
type shyt. i don't want to be with her anymore, but i also don't want to be an a$$hole to her and say "fukk OUTTA HERE!!! I DON'T WANNA BE WITH YOUR ASS ANYMORE!!!!" i'm trying to be delicate with her. i woke up last night to her sucking my dikk
she is really going hard trying to convince me, but i don't believe anything coming out of her mouth. what do i say to her to get her to back off? i'm fukking outta ideas!!!!
in a matter of days....