Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

DaRealness

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If she liked you that much she would fukk you, something up :hubie:

Exactly, if we're both consenting adults what's the problem?

I think a mistake @bucks3115 is making is giving off the "nice guy" vibe by talking on the phone everyday. It's too much too soon, but I'm glad dude brought up cos AP made a recent video with this very same point from 3:00



You gotta build anticipation. I used to have that "I need to get in there and show her all my good qualities before she moves on" type of mentality, but that shyt got me nowhere.

I know a lot of people complain about it, but why do you think a lot of video games make so much money? Because they release DLC over time and keep you hanging on. Imagine if GTA V which came out like six years ago released every damn thing all at once. There'd be no anticipation and it would stop getting talked about within a year.

If she ain't trying to fukk you or she's making you go through all kinds of hoops just to get a damn kiss then she's just not on you like that. The broad is a time waster.
 

Soundbwoy

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I'm getting back into dating soon, but my life has been a lot easier now that I'm entirely single

My advice to y'all is that you should never let a woman you're not all in on stress you out like that. Save that for a woman you could see yourself with long term
Because of my work, my schedule is crazy, I've been working for 11 days yesterday I worked 16 hours I don't have time to juggle multiple chicks without fukkery happening. I'd rather mess with one chick that understands my lifestyle and that has things going on for herself than having to entertain multiple woman
 

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All these 'no hook ups' ass bytches on dating apps :francis: foh :camby: u think a nikka tryna getting married outchea? :stopitslime:

These are the biggest bullshytters. If a chick feels you. You're going to get down. I think some chicks feel you'll think of them as less slutty if they put that up on there. Quite the opposite. These are the ones who give it up first night
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I met this bbw like a week ago we clicked and all
First night took her to my place but she ddnt want to fukk
We talk everyday on the phone (text + videocall)
2nd time we chill somewher but she ddnt want to go 2 my place
She sayin im scare im gonna you the p*ssy
If i do that you will run away from me

We both like each other and i want to fukk
So what shuld i do ??

@Professor Griff @The Odum of Ala Igbo @Soundbwoy @JOHN.KOOL @DaRealness @Babymama Magnet @Silkk
@FireDwaneCasey @Balla

Take away the attention you giving her. Stop the texting and video calling her, don't hit her up until she hits you up and when she does hit you up chat to her for a little bit and then cut her off, say you busy got something to do but nice chatting to her, she should keep in touch and keep it moving and repeat.

If she hits you up and the convo gets to you two meeting up try to get her round to your house. If she brings up the change in your behaviour and you not hitting her up as much anymore keep it 100, tell her you understand her stance but you don't wanna take the risk sitting around waiting for something with her that might never materialise or be stuck being the guy who just gives her attention.
 
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dat aint da same sandwich

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Going on three dates doesn't mean she's gonna be miss. You can also date multiple people at the same time
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Every no hookup chick chick been down after a date or so.

These are the biggest bullshytters. If a chick feels you. You're going to get down. I think some chicks feel you'll think of them as less slutty if they put that up on there. Quite the opposite. These are the ones who give it up first night
:mjlit:

:ehh: I respect the few honest ones who admit they just looking for something casual. a lot of these chicks fronting like they nuns and shyt.
 
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If these chicks are fukking and you feel each other then definitely.

I seem to attract a lot of women who work in law and business and they don't want to mess with men who work in their industries. And they like that, I have an artistic creative job it makes them more excited to not have to think or talk about their work.

What do you do?
 

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I’m starting to become more social but I can’t hold a convo for shyt. I really try to avoid the basic questions and try to dig deep but I feel a lot of chicks just put up front or I’m just boring. :yeshrug:

I also got to find new spots at night to hang out. I’m a cook at a bar and the last place I want to be when I get out is another bar. Plus I’m throwing alcohol to the bushes. Whiskey, beer, all that shyt ain’t sitting with me like it was in my 20’s.
 
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