I met this bbw like a week ago we clicked and all
First night took her to my place but she ddnt want to fukk
We talk everyday on the phone (text + videocall)
2nd time we chill somewher but she ddnt want to go 2 my place
She sayin im scare im gonna you the p*ssy
If i do that you will run away from me
We both like each other and i want to fukk
So what shuld i do ??
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Just my humble opinion....
1 - I don't fukk with BBWs. See my recent posts. Just a PC and fancy way of saying "fat chicks" and I ain't having that.
2 - Personally I'm not trying to talk with a chick everyday on the phone, it's overkill. I used to be that guy, not anymore. I got too much going on for that anyway.
3 - This whole shyt about "I'm scared to give you the p*ssy cos you'll run away from me". To be honest, I would have "ran away" right there and called it a day.
I know she's saying if she gives it up then you'll just put it down as a notch on your bedpost and bush her, but if she really phrased it like you said then it sounds like she got some issues and stuff lurking you don't really wanna be dealing with. I can spot this shyt from miles away. Broads like that need to work on their issues before they even think about dating. She saying she's scared you'll leave, soooooo what...is she gonna wait to give it up in six months or a year? If you just wanna fukk then be honest and don't waste your time or hers. I'm not trying to be anyone's therapist. Been there, done that. Learned from my mistakes.
From the way she sounds I wouldn't deal with her, but I'm not in the situation so ultimately it's up to you. Sounds like she needs a female version of AMS videos to watch so she can learn about having that "abundance mindset".